Hedwig

@Hedwig (283)

China • Age 36

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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What's Most Important in Any Job, -Is it Really Money that Matters?

albert911 @albert911 (168) • Thailand 26 Apr 11

Are you honest enough to admit it? Do you think it's the fun of doing a job, having a good time, more the social, daily interaction that make and keep you happy? Some people say that with money you can buy almost everything (even...

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Hedwig I remember one of my teachers has said" the luckiest person in the world are someone who is doing a job that he enjoys" Yes, in my opinion, money is one important factor, but if you really enjoys your job, it is reasonable to lower your standard of salary as...

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Do Destructive Thoughts Have Power Over You?

Carl Halling @CarlHalling (3617) • United Kingdom 24 Apr 11

Strange question, perhaps. We all have a variety of thoughts. Most are fairly positive to neutral. When we are angry, our thoughts can be negative. This is normal. But there are times when negative thoughts can come into our heads...

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Hedwig I am a sensitive person and I tend to worry a lot about future. So it is very normal that I am down for a period. Normally I don't go to friends or family. I locked myself in for some time until I am better.

25 Apr 11

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I hate my monthly period

christine888 @christine888 (303) • Philippines 24 Apr 11

Every month I experienced this very unusual pain, my pain scale would always be in 9 from a scale of 0-10, O is no pain and 10 severe pain. In my high school days I used to absent whenever I have my period, in my college I started...

menstruation

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Hedwig I have never experienced that kind of pain but I saw some girls suffered from it everytime their monthly peroid come. Pity for you. maybe you eat something warm your body to make the blood flow more easy, for intance ginger water. a girl in my dormitory used...

25 Apr 11

True friends are hard to find..

christine888 @christine888 (303) • Philippines 24 Apr 11

I used to have lots of friends but then I certainly knew that not all of them are true. Maybe some of them are UFO, I hope. Cause one time when I was hopeless and I need someone to talk and someone who will just try to accompany...

friends

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Hedwig from scientific research, in most cases, the maximal number of close friends people can remain is 5-6 . In my case, I have 4 close friends whom I totally trust and can confide with everything. It is normal that some people, maybe most people around you...

25 Apr 11

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Have you ever seen some funny T-shirts with something funny written on it ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 25 Apr 11

I was walking around in the shopping mall few days ago and was attracted by some guys T-shirt. Something funny wrote on the T-shirt and it said : "I am a bad guy". Another occasion, I saw another one said : " I am a good man". It...

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Hedwig once I saw a boy's t-shirt with the sentence" keep away from me, I am a devil" wonder whether he knows English or not.

25 Apr 11

To slap someone on the face. Had you slapped anyone?

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 25 Apr 11

In real life I had seen few times once in the bus stop when a lady slapped a man who was trying to snatch her bag. He escaped without the bag. The next one was when I was in college when a senior student slapped on the face of the...

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Hedwig I have done this twice in my life. The first time was in primary school when a boy played a joke on me. I was so angry and I snapped him on the face. I do regret it now. He meaned no bad at that young age. The second time was 1 year ago, near my graduation...

25 Apr 11

do you like wearing jeans?,

mcongy @mcongy (47) • China 20 Nov 09

hi,friends. i know i have a special feeling for jeans and almost all of my trousers are jeans.i know jeans has already a long history but it seems as it is not out of the fasion because you can find millions of girls ans boys...

jeans

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Hedwig Yes, I am also a big fan of jeans. I wear them throughout the whole year. It is convenient to wear jeans since they goes with everything. So do most friends around me. I guess it is a habit more than a fashion.

21 Nov 09

Is English subject compulsory in your schools? What other languages are taught?

buchi_bulla @Buchi_bulla (8298) • India 18 Nov 09

In India English is a compulsory subject in schools. It is the first language. Then regional language like Telugu, Tamil, Kannada, Hindi will be the second language. Third language which required to score only pass marks will be...

languages

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Hedwig As far as I know, English is a compulsory subject in most schools in China. However, I have heard that in some schools, students have other choices, such as French, German, and so on. In that way, they can take that language instead of English as a compulsory...

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Prefer long or short Hair !!

shia88 @shia88 (4571) • Malaysia 26 Sep 09

Hi All mylotters and friends, I used to have a short hair when I was young.Till I reached my teenager, I told my mother that I wanted to keep my hair long. Everytime when I saw my sister's long hair,can tied with different...

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Hedwig In my case, I prefer long hair. As a matter of fact, I have kept long hair as far as I can remember. My parents tried to persuade me to cut it short when I was in senior high school and didn't success. Maybe I have kept it for such a long time that it feels...

26 Sep 09

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Do you consider flirting online as cheating?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 25 Sep 09

First of all let me know whether you flirt online or not.Do you consider it as cheating? I dont consider it as cheating as they would not know personally till they meet up.If they meet up then it is serious & cant be called...

cheating

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Hedwig I haven't done that. You are right ,maybe it is not as serious as cheating, but I still think it is a bit inappropriate. If my future boyfriend flirts with someone on line, I would still be annoyed to some extent. Maybe I am not a generous person.

26 Sep 09

Can you sleep when someone SNORE??!

xio shi @simonelee (2715) • China 25 Sep 09

Hello,mylotters. How was your sleep? did you sleep well? can you say that your morning is good? Last night was another horrible night for me because my school age brother and my mom snore every night, I mean they snore everyday,...

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Hedwig No, snoring rather bothers me. When I was young, I used to sleep in my parents' room, my father always snorted loudly in the middle night. I couldn't sleep in the noise. Sometimes when he kept snoring for a long time, I got up and grabbed his nose, waking him...

26 Sep 09

What was your purpose when you join Mylot?

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 21 Sep 09

Hello Myloters, I would like to know everybodies porpose when they join Mylot. Myself, when I first join mylot I don't really know what am I doing because I was very new to this online earning program but when I join I try...

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Hedwig I guess there are two reasons for me to join mylot. One, to earn money, just like most people here Second, I am interested in anything related to English. So, mylot seems to be a perfect place for me to spend my spare time. You know, I have too much free...

22 Sep 09

do you colour your hair?

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 21 Sep 09

I colour my hair every five weeks. I have roots of touched up with a ash brown and then twice a year I have blond streaks put in. I am just not happy with the thought of having grey hair yet. Maybe in the next decade! And...

beauty

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Hedwig I have never colored my hair in the past, and have no plan to do so. However, many girls around me colored their hair in blond or other colors, though some of them do look pretty in that way, I still want to keep my hair the way it is. My hair is black, many...

22 Sep 09

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how many hours do you sleep normally?

andresimp @andresimp (818) • India 21 Jul 09

do you have 5 to 8 hours of sound sleep? Do you frequently awake, like for drinking water, going to the loo, phone ring etc. if you are not working, do you sleep during the day time. people with blood pressure often take naps...

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Hedwig Normally, I sleep 7 hours or so, usually from midnight to 7 a.m.,when I have to get up if I I don't want be late for my classes. However, things are totally different near the end of term, when final examinations occur. During that period, I can only sleep 5...

22 Jul 09

Can Men do household chores?

andresimp @andresimp (818) • India 21 Jul 09

Men who live alone, a bachelor does all household chores, but some of them after getting married they leave the responsibilities to women, the reason i started this discussion is because i spoke to my friend last night, she told...

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Hedwig Personally speaking, since gender equality is so prevalent today, I think that there is no excuses for men to leave all the house chores to their wives any more. In my family, my parents share the housework all the time as far as I can remember. However, in my...

22 Jul 09

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Why girls are like this?

sudhibus @sudhibus (134) • Kuwait 4 Jul 09

Dear Friends, I feel much relieved, when I share my agonies and sorrows with you mlfriends.The advice and opinions from you people are appreciable. I am much worried now. I am now 27 according to our custom the right time for...

girls

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Hedwig I am sorry for your suffer. I don't think that all girls are like this. Yes, everyone has the right to choose their life partner when they are single. But from your discription, this girl kind of cheated on you. Maybe she was not sure about her relationship...

4 Jul 09

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What kind of movies do you like to watch ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 3 Jul 09

I seldom watch movies these days because of lack of time, but when I do get the chance to watch movies, I like to watch comedies and musicals. I watch movies for relaxation , to ease myself from the stresses of long day's work....

movies

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Hedwig Just like you, I also watch movies for relaxation. Generally speaking, I like many kinds of movies,and among them, my favorate ones are science fiction films,which can let me wonder out of the realistic world for a while and get into to the wonder land....

4 Jul 09

Does anyone actually like having their picture taken?

casinocat @casinocat (284) • United States 30 Jun 09

So a few of us are talking and looking at photos of our group. Each one of us thinks everyone else looks great in the photos. "Oh, that's a good one of you!" "Love your smile!" But unanimously, we all hate how we look in these...

photos

pictures

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Hedwig Personally speaking, I don't like having my pictures taken . Maybe I am not a confident person or something. I just feel a little embarrassed when other person,especially whom I am not quite familiar with, take pictures of me. That's why I don't have as many...

3 Jul 09

Why Men love cars rather than their own Girl Friend???

xio shi @simonelee (2715) • China 3 Jul 09

A tought came out in my mind and start wondering why men loves their automobile rather than their Girl Friend? Why is it that they courted their lady for months or years and when they got the answer "yes" they treated them not...

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Hedwig Yes, I have also noticed some men's obsession with cars,which transcends understanding, at least in my opinion. They seems to be confused about their most important thing in life,such as their work or family, and care so little about anything else than cars....

3 Jul 09