Ih8work6

@Ih8work6 (21)

Australia • Age 60

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Ih8work6's Responses

Is cheating okay when you are unhappy with the relationship??

MorningDew @MorningDew (833) • Saudi Arabia 7 Jul 07

I was shocked when I heard from a friend I know, that he is in love with a married woman... When I told him this is wrong, he said NO it is not and asked me not to be judgmental... He said this woman is 23 and married to a 40...

cheater

marriage

relationship

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Ih8work6 No I dont agree with cheating there is no excuse. If you are unhappy or can not work things out with your partner it is best that you leave and move on. It is not fair to the person that thinks the relationship is all good and rosie. I say dont do to other...

7 Jul 07

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Do you speak with your mother every day?

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 28 Jun 07

I don't. My older sister seems to think that I should make more of an effort to spend time with my mother. I live within on city block of my mother and I don't speak with her every day. I speak with her regulary, just not...

calling mom

every day

how often

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Ih8work6 My mother has passed on now. I used to speak with my mum every second day wether it be by phone or going to her place for a visit. I think you are making a good effort to keep in contact with your mum.

7 Jul 07

Do All Mothers Really Understand Their Daughters?

diannebcrs @diannebcrs (1549) • Philippines 7 Jul 07

I have a mother - a really good and loving one. I feel blessed to have her in my life. But there are times that she doesn't seem to understand me. There's this line she always says whenever she scolds me, "Why do you have to dwell...

mothers

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Ih8work6 Being a mother of 2 teenage daughters I think 99% mothers do understand their daughters but dont want them heading in the wrong direction or been infulenced by anyone. I think your mum might be worried that trouble might end up finding you at the mall. Surely...

7 Jul 07

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I Didn't Get to Say "GOODBYE"

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 6 Jul 07

On July 1st at 2 a.m., my mother, Della, died from a massive heart attack...she had not ever had any history of heart problems until this time.....she did have a history of an aneurysm from 16 years ago...she was buried today in...

death in family

mother

tradegy

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Ih8work6 My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my mother several years ago and never got to say a goodbye either.It was the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life to, so I feel your pain, and you are not alone.. I felt cheated why my mum. Your...

7 Jul 07

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Are you scared of the dentist?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 3 Jul 07

I only ask this question because my partner, who is pretty tough and normally doesn't let anything phase him, has one huge fear! He is mortally terrified of going to the dentist, and even though he does go regularly, he ends up...

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Ih8work6 My partner is exactly the same totally terrified. Days before he's appointment he gets very irritable, looses sleep, can't concentrate. I just about have to drag him to his appointment. He can't explain why either. I think it's just the general thought of...

4 Jul 07

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can a internet love be a true love??

jobenmakapangyarihan @jobenmakapangyarihan (546) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

when i was watching a show(it's topic is all about couples love),one of its guest was a couple who had fallen in love by the us of the internet. their story is like this: the girl was so depressed due to her brake-up with her...

thanks

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Ih8work6 No I would not call it true love, I would call it infatuation. How can anyone be in true love just chatting to someone. My opinion is you need to get to know the person. Also they can tell you anything they like and it could all be a load of crap. Nothing is...

4 Jul 07

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Abusive Men

jhoannapena @jhoannapena (342) • Philippines 4 Jul 07

Why do some men take joy in hurting women? Why do they hit women and children? What is the rationalization with this attitude? Please discuss.

men

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Ih8work6 I think men that hit women and children are weak and cant control their temper and need some type of counselling. Some men are so insentive they wouldnt even know if you or the kids were hurting. They seem to keep alot to themselves which turns into...

4 Jul 07

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Thumbsucking: how to stop it?

jonaida @jonaida (574) • Philippines 4 Jul 07

My baby starts thumbsucking now that's why I give her a pacifier but my dad says it has bad effect to my baby. We've tried placing calamansi extract(orange) to her fingers but it has no effect. Some say to put pepper to her thumb...

thumbsucking baby

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Ih8work6 What bad effects does your dad think will happen if you give your baby a pacifier? I have 2 girls one 16yr and one 19yr and to this day they have never had any problems (teeth,swallowing) due to them having a pacifier. This is just a suggestion as it helped on...

4 Jul 07

TODAY is my first day as a non-smoker,

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 25 Jun 07

I havwe finally kicked the weed. I got hold of an inhailer and it works for me, what worked for you ? blessed be

life

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Ih8work6 Congradulations well done. I hope you can stick to it. I have tried several times to quit and I always end up back at it. I have gone through a detox program, cold turkey. Strong will power and you can do it.

25 Jun 07

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I'm trying to give up smoking without NRT.

nancyrowina @nancyrowina (3850) 23 Jun 07

I gave up smoking for about 4 months using nicotine patches and had started to feel much better. Over Christmas I had a couple of joints (In England we smoke them with Tobacco) and got hooked again. Today I've decided I want to...

cold turkey

giving up smoking

no nrt

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Ih8work6 I wish you all the luck this time round. I have been in the same boat several times myself and found it hard to give up the cigs when you are smoking joints. Just a suggestion if you feel like a cigarette instead of putting on a patch try the nicorette chewing...

25 Jun 07

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Would you let your doctor boyfriend check your sister?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 4 Jun 07

I have a boyfriend taking up medicine. We always talk about what specialization he is going to take. He always joke around saying that he wanted to be a gynecologist to check my sister out. Even if it was a joke, I sometimes get...

boyfriend

doctor

sister

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Ih8work6 No I would not let my doctor boyfriend check out my sister or allow my sister to do so. Let him know how you feel and if he has any concideration for you he will stop joking around. Learning medicine, surely there are other jokes he could have said. I think he...

21 Jun 07

What to do now??? Let her cry on my shoulder or tell her you I told you so?

Erilyn @Erilyn (3020) • United States 20 Jun 07

I started a discussion a little while back about someone I knew who after knowing a guy for a week moved in with him and his kids. She had his kids calling her mommy and said that hey were her kids all the time. Now they have...

cry on your shoulder

forgive or not

friends

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Ih8work6 I think you should forgive her. Life is to short to hold grudges. We have all done something in our lives that we regret but at the time it seemed the right thing to do.

21 Jun 07

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I feel like i'm a total loser

hey_baby @hey_baby (425) • Philippines 2 May 07

everytime i look at my friends photos in friendster or in my egroups, they look so happy. one of my highschool friend is living the life i wanted. she's in new york, a housewife, got a handsome doctor husband, and just recently i...

life

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Ih8work6 Hey dont feel like that life is to short to be miserable. You have to make the most out of what this world has to offer, if you sit around and wait for things to come to you, you might be waiting a long time. Sounds like you need to get out and let your hair...

21 Jun 07