joy4you

@joy4you (641)

India • Age 44

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Discussions (34)

joy4you's Discussions

Murder !!!

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 6 Feb 10

Has your relationship been murdered? What killed it? Are you over your first relationship and thought about what killed it? Sometimes it's not a single incident but a series of unfortunate events and circumstances but if you...

breakup

forgive and forget

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 11 Jan 10

If your partner was unfaithful to you, dishonest, betrayed your trust, uncomitted and all the other things that one should not do in any relationship. But one day he/she comes to you and asks you to forgive and forget everything...

betray

cheat

deceive

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1 person

Time to move on...?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Oct 09

If you have been in a relationship that just doesn't seem to be working because of various reasons even though you have tried everyhing, when or how do you decide it is time to end it and move on? How do you know that it still...

3 responses

Good guys finish last

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 17 Aug 09

Do you believe that good guys finish last. If you are a good person, very honest and helpful and never break any rules etc do you think people will take advantage of you. Do you think in todays world you need to be a bit sly and...

4 responses

forgive and forget?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Aug 09

Do you easily forgive and forget. What if you knew your partner was lying or has lied to you, do you forgive and forget in the interest of keeping the relationship together? or do you confront your partner and threaten to even...

betrayal

cheating

lies

1 response

Biggest challenge in a relationship?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 17 Jun 09

What would you say is the single most challenging thing in a relationship? From my experiences I would say that it is "expectations". Be it your own or of your partner, an imbalance of expectations in a relationship...

relationship problems

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1 person

Foundations of a strong relationship?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 31 Jan 09

Many a times we find that we are in an unwanted situation in a relationship or the relationship is just not what it used to be or has turned sour. At times like this the strength of your relationship is put to the test and it all...

4 responses

Plans for your valentine?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Jan 09

Valentines day is coming up and I was thinking of doing something special for my wife byt can't seem to fix on anything in particular. There are the usual gifts like flowers, teddies, sweets and choclates or maybe a romantic...

2 responses

Opposites attract?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 27 Nov 08

Do you think in a relationship the partners should be opposites or a complimentary pair or should both of them have same likes, dislikes and interests etc? Complimentary pairs may have more variety of skills in their...

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5 people

What do you come home to?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 27 Nov 08

After a long hard day at work when you enter your hose what is your first expectation from your partner, what do you look forward to, to go back home to? For me I look forward to a nice warm hug from my wife to take away all my...

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1 person

Life is a 4 letter word

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Nov 08

How has life been for you, which 4 letter word would you choose and why. For me life has been hard however being in love has taught me a lot of things about my self and my outlook towards life. My wife is now...

life

outlook

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1 person

Do you enjoy fireworks?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 29 Oct 08

Yesterday was Diwali and I got to light several fireworks and celebrate with my near and dear ones. while I enjoyed the noisy ones they like the "light" ones, none the less it was good to share the event with them. How did you...

diwali

diwali fireworks

fire works

6 responses

Beauty ads are another form of apartheid ?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Oct 08

If apartheid is defined as the discrimination of people based on the color of their skin then are not the beauty ads of today racist? The color of the skin that I am talking about is dark skinned and light skinned people of the...

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2 people

Do you wake up in same direction?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 21 Oct 08

Do you wake up with your head facing the same direction you went to sleep? I remember as a kid sometimes I would roll around in bed so much that when I wake up in the morning my head would be at the other end of the bed than when...

5 responses

Everything is fair in love ...?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Oct 08

Do you believe that everything is fair in love? Does it justify going against your parents or leaving your family to be with your loved one in case your family does not approve of your relationship. If you loved someone you could...

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1 person

What position do you sleep in with your partner

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 15 Oct 08

when you sleep with your partner or spouse what position do you sleep in, do you sleep facing each other or backs turned towards each other, or one person facing the other ones back. Do you hold hands or maybe one of you sleeps...

sleep positions

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1 person

No more topics to discuss on mylot ?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 13 Oct 08

Do you think it is possible that mylot will run out of new topics to discuss? What I mean by this is that, we as human beings share a lot of things in common and experiences in life, now assuming all duplicate discussions are...

3 responses

When life gives you a lemon

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 8 Oct 08

What do you do? When life turns out in a certain way over which you have no control, for example you might be born in a poor family, you are not beautiful/handsome, not too intelligent, in a forced relationship, never won a...

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1 person

Do you practice what you preach on mylot?

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Sep 08

In many if not all of the mylot groups I see people asking for and giving others advice on various issues, I do it my self. what I would like to know is how many of you actually do what you write here on mylot or tell others to...

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3 people

How far would you go for love

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 15 Sep 08

I have heard that everything is fair in love and war. Do you believe this and how far are you willing to go for love. Many would probably say they would die for love but what if you had old parents to look after and you were...

hurt

love

relationship

2 responses