joy4you

@joy4you (641)

India • Age 44

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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is this happening with you.......if yes then think twice......

ritzz07 @ritzz07 (788) • India 1 Feb 12

HI FRIENDS friends i saw very few,in fact countable people love their partners truly. many girls pursue their boyfriends just for money....let me make it very clear-girls/boys who comes in metro cities to complete their...

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joy4you I think anyone entering into a relationship needs to step back and think properly about the "reason" why they would want to enter into a certain relationship....be honest to your self. A life long relationship is like two people rowing a boat, one can not...

3 Feb 12

How often do you email your near and dear ones?

ibiswas @ibiswas (422) • India 12 Oct 08

If you prefer to email your family, friends, colleagues how often do you do that? Since i am working around 17 hrs on internet, for me emailing is not a very difficult stuff and that i do very often. Interestingly my sister is in...

keep in touch

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joy4you When people are near and dear it does not matter the mode of communication, one always finds a way of sending them a message whatever the distance, time or situation. Sometimes you don't even need to do anything to send a message, near and dear ones know what...

9 Oct 10

Now It Was Proven....TIME REALLY HEALS...

elleb0418 @elleb0418 (1107) • Philippines 6 Jun 10

Seeing someone who gave you heartaches and pains, and never heard and never seen for so many years,is like seeing a dead man rising from his grave...so scary!!! But that was the day I accepted it was a challenge and that day also...

time heals

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joy4you Time does heal...if you let it !! There are many things we can do or rather not do that helps wounds to heal faster. A lot depends on our state of mind, the most important being our willingness to accept the situation and move on, I guess this is what people...

7 Jun 10

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Don't keep your hope too high

swetashah @swetashah (345) • United States 6 Jun 10

There is one thing I learn from life, especially you might get hurt easily. Don't ever keep your hope too high, or you might fall too fast. That might be the Golden words I heard from my friends. Once I have a high hope on a...

hope

life

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joy4you It is natural for us to hope and have high expectations but more importantly we should have the right expectations and also expect that things may not always work out the way we hoped they would and be able to deal with such situations. Many times you are...

7 Jun 10

journey

yushen1008 @yushen1008 (357) • Philippines 6 Jun 10

as i was seated on the bus this morning, i never realized that my thoughts were travelling back to one of my painful memories of my life... the one who will hurt you the most is the one whom you love the most - it was about...

father

journey

love

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joy4you It is only harsh times that test us to all our extremes, and if we are able to survive we evolve into better human beings, wiser and stronger. There is no bigger wound than that of betrayal especially from someone close to you, and it takes a long time to...

7 Jun 10

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Do you think a" lady" still exists in this world and what is a lady all about?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 22 Mar 10

I started a discussion on "do you think there is still gentleman exists in this world?" and the response was so amazing and many answers were pretty interesting.But I would like to take this chance to started up a discussion about...

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joy4you Yes there are ladies in this world unfortunately they are going the way of the dodo. I think a lot about being lady like the the way in which parents have brought us up and also the kind of company we keep. Nowadays parents actually teach their girls that if...

22 Mar 10

Do you classify persons who wear glasses as nerds?

damalimcpherson @damalimcpherson (251) • Jamaica 3 Feb 10

Do you classify persons who wear glasses as nerds and why?

people

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joy4you I wear glasses and have been told quite a few times by people that when they see me the first impression they get is that of a nerd. I guess people have just been conditioned to think that way. May I need to change the type of glasses I wear

6 Feb 10

Friend's partner cheating - would you tell him/her?

amarkovi @amarkovi (63) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 4 Feb 10

Recently I have witnessed something and implications are really bothering me: after some suspicion I learned that my friend's housband is cheating on her. She is a good, long time friend of my wife and me - he is her housband...

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joy4you How about trying to talk to the cheating husband as a friend and try to make him see his mistake and talk him out of it, If he is still not interested in mending his ways then his wife will realize her mistake the hard way as such things can not be hidden for...

6 Feb 10

Do you think"Sorry","Please forgive me","are hard for you to say it out?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 6 Feb 10

There are some culture in this world,it is hard for them to say "sorry" and "please forgive me"Because their culture always make people think that they are something and they cannot be wrong.Sometimes,it is hard for them to admit...

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joy4you Sometimes you have to say these words even when you think you might be right and your partner is wrong. However if you find that you are the one who is giving in all the time and your partner has too big an ego admit their fault once in a while then they don't...

6 Feb 10

What is your current prayer to God?

cecillecarmela @cecillecarmela (3818) • Philippines 6 Feb 10

MY current prayer to God is to give me the light to see the right direction in my life. An opportunity just knocked at me the past few days but I'm not really sure if it's really for me. So there it is I'm praying for God's...

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joy4you Somehow every new phase of my life starts with a struggle which I eventually come out of, but it drains me emotionally. I am at one such struggle now and pray to God to give me strength to overcome this difficult period in my life.

6 Feb 10

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Do you trust your couple after he/she having affair?

fchalida @fchalida (196) • Indonesia 11 Jan 10

If my hubby having affair with other women, i feel this world will fall down. I don't have imagine what can i do without him at beside me? but if he having affair at behind me, i will not forgive me ever. And i will take divorce...

lovers

relationships

wife

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joy4you Trust will definitely not be the same but if it was a one time affair and the partner is truly and sincerely sorry for their actions then it might be worth giving the relationship another try. In a marriage things may not be so easy/simple.

11 Jan 10

im dying

kaorulen @kaorulen (258) • Philippines 11 Jan 10

i didn't know that letting go of some one you love is not that easy... every time i did that i ended up crying... remembering all the memories we had share makes me step backward. every time i close my eyes i see him. love songs,...

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joy4you cry it all out then take a deep breath and move on. More than anything believe in yourself and your strength. Spend time with your friends, do things that make you happy and try to keep your mind on other things. Let time heal your heart, of course it also...

11 Jan 10

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How much privacy do you require in a relationship?

jesssp @jesssp (2712) • Canada 22 Dec 09

In your relationship or in ones you've been in where do you draw the line when it comes to privacy? Is privacy something that you still cherish even when you've been together for a long, long time or does the need for it fade with...

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joy4you I guess it all comes down to TRUST If you partner is cheating on you in the name of privacy then of course that privacy is not legitimate. When there is trust in a relationship each partner can allow the other . some privacy for their own "me" time but...

22 Dec 09

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