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joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Oct 09

If you have been in a relationship that just doesn't seem to be working because of various reasons even though you have tried everyhing, when or how do you decide it is time to end it and move on? How do you know that it still...

beakup

divorce

mariage

relationship

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joy4you It's just me, that's why I have decided to end the relationship and move on. Things have been happening with me exactly as you have described it, but now I am emotionally ready to move on and will. Thanks.

6 Feb 10

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Oct 09

If you have been in a relationship that just doesn't seem to be working because of various reasons even though you have tried everyhing, when or how do you decide it is time to end it and move on? How do you know that it still...

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joy4you I have been thinking about this myself and came to the conclusion ... cut the cord and move on. I gave it my honest best but it's just not working out, I have to stop trying at some point and move on to another relationship that I would enjoy being in, feel...

6 Feb 10

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 11 Jan 10

If your partner was unfaithful to you, dishonest, betrayed your trust, uncomitted and all the other things that one should not do in any relationship. But one day he/she comes to you and asks you to forgive and forget everything...

betray

cheat

deceive

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joy4you It is definitely not easy or sometimes even impossible to forget when you have been betrayed especially by someone you trusted with all your heart. But if that person is genuinely sorry for their actions then you should forgive, but if you can't then it is...

6 Feb 10

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 11 Jan 10

If your partner was unfaithful to you, dishonest, betrayed your trust, uncomitted and all the other things that one should not do in any relationship. But one day he/she comes to you and asks you to forgive and forget everything...

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1 person

joy4you Thank you all so much for your comments. I guess the general idea is that if you care about a person/relationship then you might be willing to forgive, but provided only that your partner is sincere about mending their ways. Sometimes we tread on peoples...

6 Feb 10

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Aug 09

Do you easily forgive and forget. What if you knew your partner was lying or has lied to you, do you forgive and forget in the interest of keeping the relationship together? or do you confront your partner and threaten to even...

betrayal

cheating

lies

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joy4you Maybe I should start another discussions, but, why do people always assume that it is the guys who cheat ?!!

17 Aug 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 17 Jun 09

What would you say is the single most challenging thing in a relationship? From my experiences I would say that it is "expectations". Be it your own or of your partner, an imbalance of expectations in a relationship...

relationship problems

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joy4you Been there done that, yes I believe once a trust is broken it is very difficult to rebuild it even more so when the person doing the cheating has all the excuses in the world to justify their action and not a single apology. Sometimes it makes you wonder if...

17 Jun 09

MyPrime @MyPrime (39) • Philippines 14 Jun 09

Just want to know how much husband reacts if they find out that their wife cheats on them.

cheat

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joy4you My view is that you talk it out with your wife first expaining the effect it will have on the kids and if she is really interested in have a relationship with you or for that matter why has she the need for an affair? If things don't work out still I would say...

17 Jun 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 15 Oct 08

when you sleep with your partner or spouse what position do you sleep in, do you sleep facing each other or backs turned towards each other, or one person facing the other ones back. Do you hold hands or maybe one of you sleeps...

sleep positions

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joy4you That's sad to hear, maybe you could tell your husband that you go to sleep faing each other and in the middle of the night he might just roll over, since you are asleep you won't notice. You might consider using a mouth wash before going to bed if you have bad...

17 Jun 09

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med889 @med889 (5941) 6 May 09

Well this is what I think because if the person are not mature enough and understanding then the relationship is bound not to be too successful. What do you think?

relationship

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joy4you thanks for the best response. Cheers and happy mylotting

7 Jun 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 31 Jan 09

Many a times we find that we are in an unwanted situation in a relationship or the relationship is just not what it used to be or has turned sour. At times like this the strength of your relationship is put to the test and it all...

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joy4you Is love really the most important thing in a relationship? what if you loose your self respect, dignity and honour in the process then is the relationship still worth it just because you love your partner very much? I am just saying this for the sake of...

10 Feb 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 31 Jan 09

Many a times we find that we are in an unwanted situation in a relationship or the relationship is just not what it used to be or has turned sour. At times like this the strength of your relationship is put to the test and it all...

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joy4you "trust in one another" well said, thanks.

10 Feb 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 31 Jan 09

Many a times we find that we are in an unwanted situation in a relationship or the relationship is just not what it used to be or has turned sour. At times like this the strength of your relationship is put to the test and it all...

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joy4you I agree, sometimes these words are just hollow and have no meaning unless you can put them to practice and thats where most people fail.

10 Feb 09

joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 16 Nov 08

How has life been for you, which 4 letter word would you choose and why. For me life has been hard however being in love has taught me a lot of things about my self and my outlook towards life. My wife is now...

life

outlook

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joy4you Sometimes the negative points of life take control of ourselves and at times like these you look for support from your loved ones, but at times you find your self alone and have to look for strength within and pray that you find that very special someone...

25 Nov 08

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Linda4ualways @Linda4ualways (2282) • United States 20 Oct 08

I have 3 boys and one thing I always taught them was to not hit girls. Well guess what: these girls are tough.......tough and mean. I witness girls beating up on boys and they do it because they know that the boy is going to hit...

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joy4you Thanks for the best response

29 Oct 08

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 27 Oct 08

there are times in our lives when we get to mend or fix our hearts that were "broken" once. The pain was not that easy to bear and you didn't really knew where to start.how did you able to cope up then?

broken heart

mend a broken heart

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joy4you Thanks for the best response, certainly made my day

29 Oct 08

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joy4you @joy4you (641) • India 24 Oct 08

If apartheid is defined as the discrimination of people based on the color of their skin then are not the beauty ads of today racist? The color of the skin that I am talking about is dark skinned and light skinned people of the...

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joy4you I know there are products for every type of person and all want huge sales figures, it is just that the ads should be more carefull about the kind of message they deliver especially to our younger generation. Everyone is made to believe they are ugly unless...

27 Oct 08

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