joyito

@joyito (21)

Nigeria • Age 45

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Further Study In Age 27

Lucas818 @Lucas818 (377) 3 Feb 12

Hi Mylotters, Really need your opinions on this situation I'm having right now. I'm 27 years old now, have been working for 3 years after graduated from a university. Somehow, I feel like going on to pursuit another degree,...

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joyito Education is a life long process.At 27 years of age i don't think you are old to pursue a degree if you think you want to further your education. see in life what matters is what you feel is good for you not what other people are doing.so go ahead take another...

4 Feb 12

Responsible parenhood......Does it requires the right age and the right time?

myzhian @myzhian (584) • Philippines 2 Feb 12

This is an issue concerning Parenthood and family matters having many forms of discussions and point of views from different family cultures and traditions around the world! Does parenthood really needs to meet certain...

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joyito marriage and parenthood is not a child's play so a certain age should be attained by a couple for effective parenting to take place.the act of parenthood requires a lot of of maturity understanding and patience which a minor can not have so it really requires...

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Responsible parenhood......Does it requires the right age and the right time?

myzhian @myzhian (584) • Philippines 2 Feb 12

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joyito parenthood is not a child's play it needs a lot of maturity and understanding.the couple must posses the needed in the parenting tasks as a lot is involved in both child bearing and child rearing processes. they is a certain age when one can boast of the...

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Catholic School or Regular School? Which do you prefer?

aicasalinks @aicasalinks (303) • Philippines 31 Jan 12

My eldest son is graduating from Kindergarten2 this March. He will be Grade 1 this June. I am still thorn and confused as to where school I will enroll him. I am thorn between Catholic school run by priests and nuns and regular...

catholic school

private school

school

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joyito if you want to inculcate good moral behavior into your child then the catholic school is where to send your child to. apart from that good quality education can be obtained in the catholic schools. although there are some extra curricular activities that can...

3 Feb 12

What would your life be without Facebook?

dodolbete @dodolbete (30) • Indonesia 1 Feb 12

Weeks ago there were a news which said Facebook will be closed down. Several days later there were another news which said the first news is hoax. Some people said, if Facebook really closed down then that's a good thing, while...

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joyito for face book to be closed down then i an in trouble. face book is the source of my livelihood. i come to facebok not only to have fun but also to make money. if it closes down i become unemployed again so i pray it does not close down.

3 Feb 12

I got pity to a baby who was abandoned.

joylynsebog @joylynsebog (72) • Philippines 3 Dec 11

I am seeing a 3 month old baby everyday in a specific place. This baby was born premature and the family could not sustain the needs of the baby anymore. What happened was that he was abandoned. He is staying in a specific area...

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joyito Mmmm what will i say. Its really sad to see a baby abandoned to cruel fate in this world all alone. This baby needs the love of a loving and caring parents who will take care of him. Its a pity. I pray God will intervene.

3 Dec 11

what will you do if someone break up with u

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 9 Nov 11

if someone break your heart and break up with you .what will be your reaction

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joyito wow i just remembered when i had a break up. its not an easy situation to cope with. i felt sad, emotionally disturbed. i was depressed but still life must go on so i had to pull myself together to move ahead.i cried all day and when it dawned on my i was...

11 Nov 11

Why some people fall for those people who treat them bad

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 10 Nov 11

Here is a question, it might be related to myself too. I saw some people, those people might also include my friends, they always fall for people who also treat them bad in a relationship. Even though they are not happy with it,...

love

relationship

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joyito its an individual decision to make. i cant see the reason why i will enter into a relationship knowing fully well i will be treated badly its not wise an i can't do it.but if you find your self in such a situation tell yourself the truth and quit.

11 Nov 11

Chatting in facebook is just waste of time.

Arya @arya007 (306) • Tirupathi, India 31 Oct 11

Many of us spend more time in chatting in facebook.It is just waste of time. What do you think about this?

chatting

facebook

waste of time

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joyito well if you have not discovered the money making tool face book provides it becomes a waste of time but if you realize you can make real money using face book then it becomes a money making machine for you

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How cellphones helps people every day?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 26 Sep 11

Few people only use the old ways like writing sending letters to friends,family,and etc. Now,you know that cellphones is now easy to use, you just type the message and then sent it. It also us in something very important like...

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joyito cellphones can be used for various things. It has the bad and good ways quite alright but the advantages outweighs the disadvantage. i agree it is used by some bad people to perpetuate some crime but still its uses in communications in terms of efficiency and...

27 Sep 11

Laughing is Contagious

Bashful87 @Bashful87 (123) 21 Sep 11

My Uncle Goody is a very funny guy, whenever he's around our family would always laugh because of his jokes. Laughing is so contagious, have you experience such funny stuff around?

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joyito oh yes i am already smiling as i read this peice because my husband is a jolly good fellow, very funny,cracking jokes all round the clock. there is laughter in the house. where ever he goes he makes people to laugh and when he is not around we look forward to...

23 Sep 11

How Facebook helped me locate a friend.

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 23 Sep 11

Hi all! This is the real incident and I think those who use Facebook frequently or regularly will enjoy reading it more than those, who do not use Facebook. I had a friend who was my class fellow and we used to...

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joyito face book which is a social network is really helping people. it has helped me too to find my long lost friend.sandra was my high school mate since we graduated got married we lost contact. but alas face book made us to be the jolly good old friends again...

23 Sep 11

Caught Cheating!

MrsRich723 @MrsRich723 (602) • United States 18 Sep 08

I just answered a post about a man who walked in on his wife while she was "having relations" with another man! The person who made the post was the friend of the husband and asked what should he do about it. That got me to...

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joyito waoh, this is difficult to say but it can happen to anyone. if i find myself in this situation i will let loose the heavens. naturally i will react, cry,and rebuke my husband and walk away far from him to a church or anywhere where i can really stay on my own...

21 Sep 11

Is it okay for you to accept that your husband had a mistress?

mariahhh @mariahhh (1328) • United Arab Emirates 21 Sep 11

It's about my friend. Last year, she caught her husband talking to his mistress. She also saw some "evidence" like texts and e-mails to each other (when they would meet again, about their s*x life). She got very upset, but the guy...

cheating husband

mistress

trust issues

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joyito well to err is human and to forgive is divine. i will forgive my husband because it can happen to anybody. but where the problem lies is to forget it. because it is a thing of the mind and the mind is very deceptive. whenever he goes out my mind will be...

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We all make mistakes..how about picking up pieces?

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 20 Sep 11

honestly, it's the will to get up and move on that's hard to achieve.. there are experience that we don't let every body KNOW, I mean everybody not even to our close family members because it's just too damn...

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joyito mistakes are part of growth,at times experience is the best teacher but to continue with your life after a mistake requires a lot of courage and determination not to dwell in the past. you have to brace up your mind and know the mistake has already been done....

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Have you met people who looked alike?

bluemoonpavilion @bluemoonpavilion (4658) • Singapore 19 Sep 11

I encountered this really embarrasing incident one day. I saw this person on the street with another person and I thought, "hey, that's my friend, I should go and say hello" and guess what, I keep calling out her name and there...

embarrasing moment

people who looked alike

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joyito yes it happens i think we all have a look alike somewhere in this world. i was once embarrassed by a lady who came embracing calling me names that are not mine. when she was calm enough to hear me out i told her i wasn't who she thought i am. she was...

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Would you still get married?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 15 Sep 11

Ok, admittedly, this question is for people who are either married, or planning on being married someday. For people with no interest in ever being married (or ever marrying again), it's pretty worthless. If there were no...

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joyito i think i would still have gotten married even if there were no cultural or legal benefit attached to it.how boring it would have been spending the whole of your life with your parents taking orders. its good to get married have your own house make your own...

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Habit drinking

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 14 Sep 11

Drinking seems to become a habit of many people. They can drink anytime, anywhere. They'll drink beer or alcohol. Any events can be a reason for a drinking table: getting salary, seeing each others after a long time, to escape...

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joyito drinking has become a culture for men and women alike.in Nigeria the story is not different as you see mostly men retiring to the drinking joints after work and at times you see women too.i personally do not like drinking not that i don't drink at all but i...

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What is better Studying in night Or In early Morning?

vikku2001 @vikku2001 (258) • India 12 Sep 11

Hello I am quite of like to work in night and i also go to bed very late in night to sleep. But when its time come to study, I got some confusion.I like to study in night as i used to it.But some people says it is more better to...

morning

night

study

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joyito environment matters most, if you are living in a quiet environment studying in the morning will be ideal when the brain is cool. also if in a noisy area then studying in the night will be better. when all might have gone to sleep and the environment quiet for...

12 Sep 11