@jumesbond on myLot

windowsRExp @windowsRExp (28) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 22 Feb 11

once i accidentaly spillt some clear water on my white sleeve.it became dark gray.then i purposly spilled water on my lemon t-shirt,it became realy dark yello,kinda gray-ish.thats realy annoying me,also when in school a drop of...

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jumesbond I don't know the answer, but at least we know it has something to do with light. Maybe, by filling in the gaps between the threads in clothes or other materials, the water prevents light from getting through making it darker. It's ironic because water on its...

22 Feb 11

aileen2008 @aileen2008 (838) • Philippines 29 Jan 11

I am 36, I realized that there are still places to see, things to do, knowledge to gain, more people to meet and more fears to overcome. I have been very busy and committed in working for my family and taking a rest during...

enjoy life

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jumesbond Yes, you did understand me right :). I'm trying to gain more of a sense of community (or wider family), which has been difficult especially since I move a lot. I'm actually considering joining an intentional community at some point if I get the chance.

30 Jan 11

aileen2008 @aileen2008 (838) • Philippines 29 Jan 11

I am 36, I realized that there are still places to see, things to do, knowledge to gain, more people to meet and more fears to overcome. I have been very busy and committed in working for my family and taking a rest during...

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jumesbond That's my plan every year. (But for some reason I always fail at it.) I'm getting better at "enjoying life more", though. I guess I just have to remind myself to enjoy life instead of working so hard! I guess what's getting in the way is that I have so many...

29 Jan 11

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theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 17 Jan 11

Hi all, Over the past so many months I have found so many discussions here at MyLot that have confined the meaning of the word “Love” applicable only to the Lovers. Even on generic discussions people tend to bring out their...

love

relationships

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jumesbond Why do you say you are unfit for today's meaning of love?

17 Jan 11

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 17 Jan 11

Hi all, Over the past so many months I have found so many discussions here at MyLot that have confined the meaning of the word “Love” applicable only to the Lovers. Even on generic discussions people tend to bring out their...

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jumesbond I agree with you. I think it's important that people realize that you don't have a "lover" to love or be loved. When people forget that, they think they need a "lover" to be happy and not alone. To be happy in life you just need people who you love and who...

17 Jan 11

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visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

Hi friend my last discussion today. I just remebered my school day when my teacher in science discussed about human race. In a current events published that human or men are from monkey evolution (one I...

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jumesbond People have difficulty believing what the don't want to believe even if there is proof and logic behind it. But, yes, we are related to monkeys. Just look at the way they move and their habits. Look at the Bonobo monkey especially. They make the same faces and...

16 Jan 11

sweetgarg @sweetgarg (392) • India 16 Jan 11

what do you think this is true or do you think differently

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jumesbond I was untrusting even before here was a boy in my life. The opposite was true for me. I became a trusting girl after I met a boy who I could trust. I think there were lots of other people in my life who taught me not to trust such as family and friends.

16 Jan 11

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Jlyn @Jlyn10 (11965) • Malaysia 16 Jan 11

Everyday you will hear people talk about this person and that person. Why can't they just talk about themselves? Why do you think people like to gossip about others?

gossip

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jumesbond I don't know. I have the same question! I don't like to talk about other people unless they are bothering me or I need to talk to someone about them. I think a lot of the time people like to talk about other people because something is bothering them. Someone...

16 Jan 11

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celeste2224 @celeste2224 (160) • Philippines 16 Jan 11

Smoking is one of the topics that has been unsettled for quite sometime now, are you pro or con smoking?me honestly I smoke and I smoke a lot and I know the consequences of smoking, the diseases that you can get through smoking...

consequences of smoking

diseases

smoking

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jumesbond I was born into the younger generation when everyone knew that smoking weakened your body. Many of my peers smoked anyway because it was a way to socialize. In my town, there wasn't very many fun things for younger people to do together other than do drugs or...

16 Jan 11

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 27 Dec 10

Hi all, Unfortunately I clicked the Profile Link at the top of my mylot page just now. Yes, Unfortunately it is not a typoand I found that I have aged and my age is 12 months as of now. Here is...

life

mylot

real world

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jumesbond I actually find that I can talk to people on MyLot more about problems in my life than my "real world" friends. I can come to MyLot to discuss things happening in my life that I can't talk to my friends about. I also like MyLot because people are from all over...

27 Dec 10

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jackjill123 @jackjill123 (405) • India 24 Dec 10

Money, love, enjoyment, and parents which one you will select first? which is more important in your life?and why? For me first and foremost is love.then parents then enjoyment,least preference is for money. because I love...

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jumesbond Love is first. It's very hard to be alone in life, and without love and good friendship life is pointless no matter how much money or enjoyment you have. Enjoyment is next for the same reason. If you can't get any enjoyment out of being alive, there is no...

26 Dec 10

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 23 Dec 10

Hi Friends, Today I was upset because of two things - On the real world, there was a suicide in our locality and on the Virtual world - My Lot has had many discussions on Suicides, and the Banes of Internet. I am pained and was...

grief

pain

suicides

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jumesbond I agree that it's all about pain. Thinking about other people who are suffering helps sometimes but other times it can make you feel worse because you can fear more helpless seeing another person struggling. Sometimes it helps to look at people that are happy...

24 Dec 10

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theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 21 Dec 10

Hi MyLotters, I have been reading many stuff these days on Positive Thinking and many advocates believe that you should start with the thought - 1. You Are Good. 2. Everything around happens for...

ego

egositic thinking

positive thinking

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jumesbond I don't think of positive psychology in that way. I think it's about not interpreting everything about you as bad or interpreting everything in the world as bad. For example, you have an allergy to peanuts. You could think that there is something wrong with...

21 Dec 10

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Vnyard @Vnyard (286) • Philippines 20 Dec 10

I had this question in my mind for some time now. I hear a lot of people say "make it happen" and this really made me ask myself, why are they always saying that? Can't they just accept the fact that some things are just not going...

accept

change

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jumesbond Well, I agree with "change what you don't like, but accept it if you can't change it". Hypothetically, we are capable of doing anything, but it isn't necessarily worth it. What if you would have to dedicate all your time to accomplish it? What if you had to...

20 Dec 10

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cssiduyz @cssiduyz (1053) • Indonesia 14 Dec 10

So many problems when we choose, process, until the serving dishes on the table meals. For example at the time of making rolade or cooking ground beef is rolled up, it is often not smooth roll surface. In fact, if rolade sliced,...

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jumesbond I will also toss the food in any order I like. I get lazy a lot, especially if I don't have much time. But, my meals are never as good that way as they are when I follow the right instructions.

16 Dec 10

marionnete @marionnete (1) • Philippines 16 Dec 10

answers could be ways , things, and actions/gestures done to show love.

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jumesbond I think the best ways that show loves are the ones that happen naturally, without you having to think about it. They will be able to tell if you love them.

16 Dec 10

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 14 Dec 10

This was an experience of long ago but one which burned me. Even Charred me. I used to receive gifts from relatives. One aunt particularly who would give us souvenirs and other gifts from her travels abroad. I thought at the...

crushed

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jumesbond I feel that way a lot of the time. When people give me gifts, I'm not sure if they are doing it because they care about me or because they are trying to claim something. It does make me uncomfortable when I receive gifts for that reason.

14 Dec 10

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