laydon

@laydon (25)

United States • Age 65

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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is it fair to blame youself?

lossforredwords @lossforredwords (3620) • Philippines 9 Dec 06

i have this friend and shes having a bad time.. and shes blaming herself for all the frustration and unwanted situations that sorrounds her. im the only one that she can rely on for advice and i dont know anymore what to say......

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laydon This is serious...she needs proffesional help. Depression is a serious illness, and can be controled, with the proper professional's. I suffer from clinical depresson, and have had it controlled for quite a few years. No one could say anything to get me...

10 Dec 06

The Environment

nancygibson @nancygibson (3736) • France 9 Dec 06

How seriously do you take your responsibility to respect the environemnt? Do you do your best to use only what resources you need, not damage nature and actively do things to compensate for what you do use (like planting trees to...

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laydon I recycle, don't use any chemicals on my lawn, vegetable, or flower gardens. Just mulch my leaves with the lawn mower(I don't understand the desire to rake and send them away). Use all leftover foodstuffs for compost. Drive a sub-compact car. Don't leave...

10 Dec 06

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If you are not having anymore children are you sad about it?

surveygrrl @surveygrrl (1270) • United States 2 Jan 10

I know that our family is complete but I still get sad about it. Our baby is almost 8 months old and I can't believe it. He is growing up way too fast. I am happy for my friends being pregnant but at the same time a little bit...

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laydon I know that our family is complete but I still get sad about it. Our baby is almost 8 months old and I can't believe it. He is growing up way too fast. I am happy for my friends being pregnant but at the same time a little bit jealous. I know my family...

2 Jan 10

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do you sleep daytime,generally when and how long ?

Thyme1 @Thyme1 (48) • China 2 Jan 10

I generally sleep enough and well at night .But no matter how long and well i sleep at night,i want to go to bed around two o` clock in the afternoon.If i don`t sleep,i feel i am in low spirits and do things without...

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laydon I generally sleep enough and well at night .But no matter how long and well i sleep at night,i want to go to bed around two o` clock in the afternoon.If i don`t sleep,i feel i am in low spirits and do things without efficient.Sometimes i have no time to rest...

2 Jan 10

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paid to write article...anyone know where i can do so?

px_yeap @px_yeap (269) • Malaysia 2 Jan 10

i'm interested in writing articles, i'm wondering if anyone knows where i can get paid writing article? or any of you is an article provider that provide articles to write? i could write in many different topics.

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laydon i'm interested in writing articles, i'm wondering if anyone knows where i can get paid writing article? or any of you is an article provider that provide articles to write? i could write in many different topics.

2 Jan 10

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Fishies!!

midnightuser @midnightuser (252) • United States 9 Dec 06

My boyfriend has two fishtanks. At first we were justing putting a few fish in at a time. I decided to buy to black mollies, a male and a female. That was my first mistake, they mated, and then they mated. No we have a fishtank...

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laydon Privately owned pet stores will take them, I've never been paid for any fish by a pet shop though. I think seeing the babies if wonderful.

10 Dec 06

Sendiong messages to 'friends'

Always smiling @allknowing (138314) • India 5 Dec 09

Is it possible to send a common message to all friends here with just one click? When the friends' list is long it becomes easy if you have a common message to be sent to all in the list if there is a provision to do it with just...

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laydon Is it possible to send a common message to all friends here with just one click? When the friends' list is long it becomes easy if you have a common message to be sent to all in the list if there is a provision to do it with just one click.

5 Dec 09

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can you hit your own father???

arvee17 @arvee17 (730) • Philippines 9 Dec 06

just this evening, my family and i were watching this program on TV (similar to a documentary) about this family who had its father to have a stroke four months ago. instead of taking care of him, the wife maltreated him and...

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laydon I condone no violence at all, I'm a pacifist. However keep in mind, before judging anyone, you don't know the whole story. Was the father abusive? It doesn't justify their behavior, but it may give some insight to their mental health issues.

9 Dec 06

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Why do bad things happen to good people?

mellbrb @mellbrb (250) • United States 8 Dec 06

There have been a lot of thoughts going through my mind, and the minds of my family members lately. For the past few months we've been struggling, not only us, but most of the family and friends we know as well. It seems everyone...

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laydon Actions are "good" or "bad" not things. The car stopped because machines wear out, luck has nothing to do with it. Financial troubles are cause by too much outgo, or not enough income, not luck. You are lucky...to have the desire and ability to help others,...

9 Dec 06

Do you like eggs?

Ethanael @Ethanael (81) • United States 9 Dec 06

As far as I can tell, people are split about 50-50 as to who likes eggs and who doesn't. I like eggs in many different ways...the only way I don't eat them, that I can think of, is over-easy or raw. Do you like eggs?

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laydon I love eggs, and eat them in any form. I make my own eggnog for a quick meal. Egg salad, fried, poached. scambled, over easy, soft boiled, hard boiled, quiche, and in omelets. I have eggs 3 to 4 times a week

9 Dec 06

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Cell phones – Addiction or Necessity ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 9 Dec 06

The wide usage of cell phones in todays world makes me wonder if they are an addiction or a necessity? A cell phone has soooo many uses that I don’t even know where to start from but like it was when cells started coming in to...

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laydon Cell phones have become an obsession instead of a tool. What does everyone talk about? I have a prepay plan because I may use my phone 2 or 3 times a month, I never receive calls. I make my calls from home. When I'm driving, I'm watching the road. When...

9 Dec 06

Gowtham gambhir is back

sundarboss99 @sundarboss99 (30) • India 2 Dec 09

The rising legend of the Indian cricket team Gowtham gambir is back with his remarkable form by crossing two centuries in two consecutive test match. by this he won the International test cricketer of the year award. Thus we wish...

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laydon The rising legend of the Indian cricket team Gowtham gambir is back with his remarkable form by crossing two centuries in two consecutive test match. by this he won the International test cricketer of the year award. Thus we wish him for his best features.

2 Dec 09

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Can these two people keep their friendship?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 8 Dec 06

I have 2 people who I am very close to. One is my daughter, the other is her exboyfriend. They were together for about 6 1/2 years. The relationship fizzled for one reason or another. The friendship that the 2 of them shared...

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laydon Maybe, but it depends on what they each want and what they require of their friends. If one of them cannot get past the anger of the breakup, friendship will not work. If they both agree they are better off because of the breakup the chance of remaining...

9 Dec 06

Tattle Tale

courtlynne77 @courtlynne77 (4839) • United States 8 Dec 06

My three year old is a terrible tattle tale. It is to the point where I am going crazy. I have tried numerous times to explain to her the difference between telling and tattling, but everyday is filled with "he looked at me" "he...

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laydon She does this to get a response, and your giving her the response she finds rewarding. "he looked at me" = did that hurt you?..no..he can look anywhere just as you can "he touched my toy" = did he break it? if no...it's OK "he's looking at my picture" =...

9 Dec 06

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How much money do I deserve????

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 8 Dec 06

I have 2 children with my ex-husband. I have had custody of them since the divorce 9 years ago. He has been in and out of their lives and has never really paid his child support(he only pays a couple months a year, if that). He...

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laydon Go through your states (if USA) child sevices. Child support laws are in writting, down to the amount of child support. You can go to your local library and look it up yourself. It's displayed as a graph with your salary down and his salary across. where...

9 Dec 06

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