Leca

@lecanis (16647)

Murfreesboro, Tennessee • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

I am me, what more can I tell you?

Responses (5713)

Leca's Responses

Cliques: Have You Ever Been A Part Of One?

TexanTornado @TexanTornado (5573) • United States 6 Sep 15

I know a good amount of people hate the word 'clique', but the reality of the matter is that they do exist. Taken from the Merrimm-Dictionary: clique - [i] a narrow exclusive circle or group of persons; especially : one...

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Leca The point when a group becomes "exclusive" is pretty much the point where I bail. While I have been a member of a lot of social circles - and drifted between them a lot - I tend to get frustrated quickly if it seems like someone who wants to join or be...

7 Sep 15

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Changed my profile photo

Ebenz @writerjo (2540) • India 6 Sep 15

Yes . Just now I have changed my profile photo . I liked this . I have also checked some of our members also changed their profile . Normal is boring . This looks somewhat meaningful than the previous cartoon image . He was a...

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Leca I like your new pic! I should change mine, it's years old and a reference to a series I'm not even interested in anymore, but mine would probably just be another anime image because I'm a nerd.

6 Sep 15

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Where Things Get Hairy in the Gay Marriage Issue

Four Walls @FourWalls (68980) • United States 6 Sep 15

I saw a discussion from @TiarasOceanView about an Oregon judge who is refusing to perform any marriages because his religious beliefs prohibit him from marrying gay couples. Personally, I don't think this is an issue:...

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Leca My question with these kinds of stories is always: who would even want someone who believes their love is a sin involved in their marriage ceremony? I certainly wouldn't want to be married by someone who felt that way, and I don't really understand anyone...

6 Sep 15

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How long should we wait between discussions?

Arthur Chappell @arthurchappell (44998) • Preston, England 6 Sep 15

I could easily blitz my pages with fresh discussions, but is it wise to pause between posting new ones? Many readers probably only notice the most recent postings so we could well end up competing with ourselves by posting too...

blitz

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Leca I think it depends on how prepared you are to deal with responses. It's possible that you won't get many, but having too many discussions at once can mean less time to keep them going, which is rude as well as inefficient. I'm just dipping my toe back in...

6 Sep 15

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How Do You Respond When Kids Say Something About Special Needs?

dashboardc33 @dashboardc33 (314) 26 Aug 15

My daughter is five and is very curious. When we go to the YMCA sometimes there are special needs children and adults there. I always try to veer her attention the opposite way so she doesn't say anything about them. I don't...

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Leca There isn't one answer for this because it really does depend on the child's maturity level and ability to understand things. If you're worried about approaching the situation then and there, getting a book with a special needs character or watching a show...

6 Sep 15

Would you be okay having a transgender kid?

Steven Royce @RainbowFilledBuckets (1) • Alachua, Florida 5 Sep 15

I'm sure we've all heard about the recent stories of Caitlyn Jenner coming out as transgender. Now, I know this is a "hot" topic, but I'm very curious to know your opinions about transgender people. If you had a kid who was...

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Leca As someone who experiences dysphoria myself, I would definitely be understanding and supportive of a transgender child. I'm not entirely sure about blocker shots though, simply because I'm not sure what the medical ramifications are. That would take some...

6 Sep 15

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You are never lost, you're just here somewhere

adnileb @adnileb (5276) • Philippines 29 Feb 12

So, after many months of being an inactive mylotter, here I am again. Well, I'm not promising to as active as before because I am still dealing with the other aspects that invades my mind. Like being addictive to something else....

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Leca Aha I guess I'm not the only one with this kind of nostalgia happening! It's always so strange to be away for a long time and then go 'oh wow mylot', isn't it? I had some really good friends here a while back too.

29 Feb 12

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Are You Shocked At How Many Self-Service Tills There Are In Stores Now?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 29 Feb 12

I would say that B&Q started this trend off as many of their stores have been "re-vamped." Yes, "re-vamped" meaning, "getting rid of some of our staff." Personally, I don't like the idea. For starters, there are...

staff replaced by machines

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Leca To be honest, I have friends with anxiety disorders that love these things, because they can go to the store for their necessities without having to freak out over dealing with people to do so. I think it's nice as well for when you don't have a lot of time,...

29 Feb 12

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Do you eat late at night?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 10 Feb 10

I used to,but stopped because it makes me very,very sick to eat at a late hour.The food don't agree with me late at night.It ends up keeping me awake for hours because I get sick.My answer to this question is I do not eat late at...

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Leca I've never had any real problems eating late at night, but then I don't keep a very regular schedule either. It's much easier for me to eat late than it is early; if I eat early in the morning I often get sick, even if I hadn't eaten since dinner early in the...

10 Feb 10

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Could you be friends with an atheist?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 10 Feb 10

Especially when you are a firm believer .Believe me I dont descriminate against people based on their beliefs but I would have trouble being friends(and I am talking close friends) as least I may be uncomfortable. Mind you I...

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Leca I'm friends with plenty of atheists, personally. Granted, I'm also friends with people from many different religious beliefs and walks of life. Most of the time, such things don't really come up in everyday conversation. If they do, it's in a very casual...

10 Feb 10

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Do U have any Fear to Share Email With ur Online Friends

sunnycool @sunnycool (12714) • India 10 Feb 10

There been a study on this issue----in which a whooping 75% of the netigens fear to share their email with their online friends with whom they spend so much timeevery day. I personally do not have any fear or...

shareuremail

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Leca I've never really understood this either. I only share my phone number or physical mail address with people that I absolutely trust, but email isn't so personal a thing for me. I mean, it's not like they're going to be able to use it to somehow show up at my...

10 Feb 10

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What Do You Want?

polachicago @polachicago (18716) • United States 9 Feb 10

What do you want in your life? Can you precisely define what that is? I would like to have enough support to run animal sanctuary. I mean enough, so I wouldn't have to think how I can provide food for my four legs friends....

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Leca Honestly, I just want to be able to provide for my son and not have to worry about whether he has food, medicine, transportation, schooling, etc. Right now we're in a rough situation of not having transportation, and I might be losing my job because the state...

10 Feb 10

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What's the worst job you have ever had?

lilyrayne @lilyrayne (107) • United States 10 Feb 10

I am currently in what has to be the worst job I have ever had!! By far, I have to dress up in an outfit/costume..yeah it sucks! Whats the worst job you have ever had?

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Leca Working in tobacco, eww. I hated working on tobacco farms when I was younger, and in the area I lived in, everyone had to do it. Tobacco is just gross, and it's too easy to hurt yourself doing it. My hands would be all cut and scraped up every year, and...

10 Feb 10

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Will you boycott an entire company just b/c you had a problem with 1 product?

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 10 Feb 10

I spend a lot of time writing and reading reviews, so over the years I've learned that every company has their "lemons", but it doesn't mean that the entire company stinks. In reading reviews, I find a lot of people will say they...

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Leca I'm too lazy for boycotting myself. Boycotting requires that you actually pay attention to what brand you buy every time, and keep up with what company makes what product. I'm just not that involved in shopping. If I bought a product that I didn't like, I...

10 Feb 10

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can you wear mismatched socks?

macdingolinger @macdingolinger (10386) • United States 10 Feb 10

this came up in another discussion. Someone said that they wear mismatched socks. I can't imagine that! I would almost rather go without socks than to have them annoy me all day! does it bother you to wear mismatched...

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Leca I wear mismatched ones pretty often. They don't have to be exactly the same to me if they're the same general color, or if I'm going to be wearing them with pants that will mostly cover them anyway. Not only that, but I sometimes were mismatched socks on...

10 Feb 10

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