leslie_stanfield

@leslie_stanfield (38)

United States • Age 37

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Brand toothpaste

happy6162 @happy6162 (3001) • United States 2 Sep 09

There are many brand of toothpaste to choose from now. I buy the cheapest brand I can fine and think it is just as good as the expensive ones. I buy Aims toothpaste. Do you buy the same brand your parents did or have you changed?...

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leslie_stanfield Aquafresh right now, but normally I get arm and hammer. When I was younger when we would run out of toothpaste we would just use baking soda, which did a great job without all the chemicals. I guess if you really want a white smile for really cheap go with arm...

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Running shoes?

leslie_stanfield @leslie_stanfield (38) • United States 21 Aug 09

I'm the Mother of 3 children. I've got a 2 1/2 year old boy, a 1 1/2 year old girl and a 2 month old girl. Needless to say I haven't had a lot of time to run in the past 3 years. I went out to Walmart and bought a pair of CHEAP...

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Would you get back wirth your ex? ...

lizzrr @lizzrr (135) 21 Aug 09

So a friend of mine talk to my ex because she asked for advice on what to do to her boyfriend. Then they end up talking about me, and to my surprise, my ex confess to my friend that he still loves me. I don't know if I should...

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leslie_stanfield It's kind of touch to answer this since I have no idea what the history is between you two. Did he cheat on you, was he truthful, was he immature, has he grown up, are you in a relationship with someone...etc? My best advise is if you generally like WHO he is...

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'Mate Poaching' - What is Your Say About This?

oindy54 @oindy54 (3445) • India 20 Aug 09

I recently read an article which says that research shows women like to target men who are already in a relationship.This quite surprised me because I personally do not agree with it.I mean I would not fall for a married man or...

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leslie_stanfield I don't think it's so much that women want to go after men that are in a relationship but that it's attractive to see a man who is mature enought to commit and love another woman. I think women who are ready for a committed relationship want a man who is at...

21 Aug 09

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Have You Ever Met This Person...

Chalea Hutchinson @zoey7879 (3092) • Quincy, Illinois 21 Aug 09

Often times they take jobs that keep them away from home such as mining, fishing, oil drilling,some shaman, military.. But they just can't seem to hold a relationship together when they're around their partner reguarlarly?.. Kind...

dating

fear of committment

jobs destroying families

jobs ruining marriages

jobs ruining relationships

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leslie_stanfield Everyone has their own problems in life and many wounds from their childhood. It's sad that there are people like that who don't have either the self esteem it takes to love themselves enough to be open for love, or who don't have the ability to trust another...

21 Aug 09

Destiny?!

mrshughes @mrshughes (352) • Philippines 21 Aug 09

Do u believe in destiny? I once had a relationship with a guy that i thought was going to be my husband...we got on very well and we thought we were compatible for each other. But for some reasons..it did not happen. I thought im...

destiny

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leslie_stanfield I definitely believe that things happen for a reason. I think that each person could be compatible with more than one other person but that through experiences and change our potential partners change. I believe that God won't give us something we can't...

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Would you stay with someone that has cheated on you?

ssilva @ssilva (16) • United States 21 Aug 09

I know a lot of couples who have been cheated on and lied to. Some of them are smart and leave their boyfriend/girlfriend and others decide to stay with them, because they are convinced they won't do it again. If your significant...

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leslie_stanfield It's hard to say....if it had just been a boy friend then I would be long gone, but I'm married. If you spouse ever cheated on me I don't know what I'd do. I love him so much, it would just sompletely crush me. in't think I'd ever be the same again. I have...

21 Aug 09

oh no, here we go again...

sulsisels @sulsisels (1685) • United States 15 Aug 09

Good morning all,,well its that time of year again here in South Florida,,,hurricane time that is..We are going to experience our first tropical storm this weekend and I have to tell ya, I'm a little nervous..We haven't had...

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leslie_stanfield I just moved away from FL which I am very glad about. I hope everything goes alright for you. Good luck!

20 Aug 09

Cellphone is a need? or necessity? What do you think?

nitin13techie @nitin13techie (393) • India 20 Aug 09

I think cellphone is a need nut is not a necessity unless you are staying away from your parents, or working in some business that wants you to use mobile. Mobile radiations are really very harmful. Care to be taken not to buy...

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leslie_stanfield My husband is in the Air Force so he is away from me and our children a lot. A cell phone has become a necessity, just like the internet, that way we can stay in touch. Now, I don't understand why children who want a cell phone because everyone has one need...

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Afghanistan The Future

DATEAM @DATEAM (27) • Malta 20 Aug 09

Well I was just watching sky news and they have a special feature on Afghanistan called "Afghanistan The Future" I don't see any future for this country. It is just a place where US and British soldiers are being sent and...

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leslie_stanfield How much do you really know about what's going on over in Afghanistan? Unless you are doing research, rather than just listening to what our so called reporters are telling us, then you really know nothing. Ask any solder who has been over there what they were...

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If i offered you £50,000 for cosmetic surgery ...?

polo_princess @polo_princess (803) 20 Aug 09

If i were to offer you £50,000 no strings attached as a gift for cosmetic curgery only .. Firstly would you take it and secondly what procedures would you have done? See it as your ticket to change all of the things that you...

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leslie_stanfield Personally I think it would be so cool, but I hate surgery so I wouldn't take it. If I didn't hate pain so much it would be great to get rid of the stretch marks on my stomach that my children created and I would get a chest job because they aren't as full as...

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What do you do when you get your pay?

meapas @meapas (2436) • India 20 Aug 09

What you do with your earnings? Come home and give it to your parents? or spouses? Or you keep it with yourselves? At our place we keep 50% and the rest is given to the head of the family for the monthly budget. I think this is...

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leslie_stanfield When my husbands paycheck get's deposited into our account the first thing I do is take 10% of the earnings and give it to charity. We then pay any bills we have. With what is left we split in half. Half goes into savings and the rest we have to use until the...

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What is your opinion about digging the past affairs of the spouse ?

emdee @mdvarghese (1789) • Bangalore, India 20 Aug 09

I have heard that some people immediately after the marriage are eager to know about the past affiars of the spouse. Sometimes this will lead to big fights and it will become a news. There are a lot of marriages will broke...

doubting

marriage

past affiars

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leslie_stanfield This is where society is so wrong. If people didn't do it with others outside of marriage than people wouldn't have trust issues with partners. It really is a huge deal when you decide to make love with another person. My husband and I got married right out of...

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What is left after the passion gone?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 19 Aug 09

Once, I met my friend. She told me that her husband was sick badly almost two years. He couldn't make love anymore because of his sickness. She looked depressed because of this. She is thinking about to get divorce but on the...

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leslie_stanfield It really depends on if they truly love each other or not. If she loves her husband than why is she thinking about dumping him in his time of need. It's not real love if they can't make it through tough times. There is more than one way to make love with a...

20 Aug 09

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