liumirror

@liumirror (138)

China • Age 50

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Change Or Make a Change!

Bamboee @Bamboee (645) • United Arab Emirates 6 Jan 12

I would like to know my family of lotters that has it ever happened to you.. That your in a situation and your stuck with the thought, that should you change yourself, or make a change in the person him/herself.. for...

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liumirror I think it is unfair to you if you always change yourself for your husband,but your husband not change for you.Between man and wife ,they should respect and love each other,instead of change your personality for him and make yourself uncomfortable.

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what should I do if I love a man but he does not love me?

mgx682 @mgx682 (28) • China 29 Dec 11

Several days ago, I have met a man online, who is also looking for love. I fell in love in the first eye, he is a man who is humorous,lively and reliable. After less than one week online chatting, he suggested that we should have...

miss love

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liumirror It's so pity!But I think it 's difficult to find a couple that they truly love each other.But face the reality.I think you have two ways to deal with it .First,since he don't love you ,you should search other man who love you really and deeply.Second, maybe...

29 Dec 11

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my girl friend is up set of me

ahmed2114a1 @ahmed2114a1 (80) 9 Dec 11

she did answer my phone and i can't find her , because she want some money what i have to do ?

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liumirror How long have you start your relationship?I mean as lover.Do you really know what her thought?If you don't I think you should care her more.

27 Dec 11

What to cook this season with limited budget?

snowhybiscuis @snowhybiscuis (1882) • Philippines 22 Dec 11

I have limited budget for this season but I am thinking of cooking foods that doesn't have expensive ingredients. I may be cooking spaghetti, prepare macaroni salad, steamed fish and chicken lollipops. Though I really want to...

food

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liumirror I think you could buy some vegetalbe and reduce some animal food such fish or chicken lollipos.I think animal food only one is enough.Some popular fruit is necessary.

22 Dec 11

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I really dont know what to cook for Christmas day.

safety69 @safety69 (592) • Taiwan 20 Dec 11

Its wednesday already and I havent decided if I will make dinner at home. I ordered some tamales tradditional food from latin countries) but thats too little I guess, I was planning to invite my brother in law but I dont feel like...

ideas to cook christmas dinner

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liumirror Merry Christmas,sagety69.I am a Chinese.In my country ,Spring Festival is equal with Christmas.But recent year ,in my country many people also celebrate Christmas.Spring Festival ,We have chicken ,meat,beaf,fish,duck,egg,and some traditional food.I think it is...

20 Dec 11

what is best way to court your inspiration???

katipunero5 @katipunero5 (277) • Philippines 19 Dec 11

i want to court my dream girl. and looking for a unique way to do it. give me an idea

life

lover

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liumirror I think you shouldn't look for a unique way to do it.First you should know the girl you love is love you or at least favorable impression to you. If you think the girl have a good imprssion to you ,then you can be in touch with her step by step.If not,I think...

20 Dec 11

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depression :(

abhi285 @abhi285 (159) • India 17 Dec 11

i think depression is a silent killer its the most negative thing in a persons life it often ends up ruing up one's entire life. According to me its a stage in one's life where he can only see the negative thing in one's life and...

depression

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liumirror Depression is bad mood that always happened in our life.Because in my country there is a saying:there always so much disappoint thing and so little satisfatory result in our life.But without ups and downs,our life will be dull and bland.Furthermore,we feel...

18 Dec 11

Two Sizes Smaller!

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 17 Dec 11

I have been working so hard to lose some weight for the past few weeks. Today, my boyfriend and I went shopping and I was so happy with what I have found out. I am now two sizes smaller. I am so glad that my hardwork paid off. I...

losing weight

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liumirror Maybe I am thin(my height is 162mm,my weight is 47kg),it is lose weight is amazing.Around me ,some girl have not need to lose their weight because they are not fat just plump.I think I am very thin and my body is weak.In short ,healthy is very important.

17 Dec 11

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Disappointment is inevitable

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 4 Dec 11

We are living in this world that we can't avoid things that happen in life..Disappointment can happen at any time that we don't expect to happen.. And a number of things we can be discourage/or disappoint but it is up to us if we...

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liumirror In my country ,there is a saying:Life doesn't always work out the way you plan.Disappointment is inevitable.Disappointment is really unpleasant.yet,anyone know depression is more terrible than disappointment.Life is continue because there is hope in everyone....

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I'm really nervous today...

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 14 Dec 11

Today my boyfriend had to go to the military processing center and get his full physical before the army accepts him. It's also the day he'll be picking his job and he'll be told 3 places he's likely to get stationed. I'm really...

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liumirror Although,I don't know he like combat job.After all combat is not good.I think you should let him know what you want and your opinion.Lover should communiate and understand each other.Although I nerver fall in love with anyone.

14 Dec 11

what is the best way to win over people

srinivas2036 @srinivas2036 (188) • India 5 Dec 11

I have seen many people who are sincerely loving another one. but not able to express it properly and also many people who got rejected though honestly loved. And i have seen many cases of people who are not serious but making a...

love

people

winning over people

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liumirror I think If someone love another sincerely. Some day the another person will know this even the person really love him or her.Because feeling is a delicate and complex thing. and because person love another person don't mean the another person must love him or...

7 Dec 11

I am very proud

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 6 Dec 11

Three days ago, I fainted. I am proud of my son. Home from school, my child find myself, in a state already fainted. My son woke me up to put telon oil, in my nose. I never teach my son. My son said he has seen on television. I...

my son

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liumirror YOu should praise your son because of his behaviour.(this thing you already done,because all of us know this ,and I really envy you have so clever son )and you could courage your son still keep the good habit which to study from TV. Because around me , many...

7 Dec 11

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Do you watch cookery shows on TV ?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 26 Nov 11

I like watching some of the cookery shows and some of my favorite cookery programs are Nigella's kitchen,Floyd's India which has become even more popular after his death in 2009 and some of our local cookery shows.I also make it a...

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liumirror sometimes I watch cooking shows on TV,not often.I like cooking something that look like nice and the smell is so sweet.But there always some seasoning I can't find it in my place.It really made me drepressed.

27 Nov 11

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MyLot has helped me a lot!

Elizabeth White @Masihi (4413) • Canada 26 Nov 11

I really like Mylot, it's really helped me talk stuff out and look at my life from another perspective. So many times I've had to keep things inside and when I did talk to someone they couldn't give me an outsider's opinion...

fresh perspective

mylot

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liumirror period of this time,I am so busy that I can't go this net.I also think mylot as a place which I can read some people's opion about life,work and other things.I can tell other people my happy and sad things or somethins pulzzed me.

27 Nov 11

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Should a dying person fall in love?

boyuancy @boyuancy (1708) • India 21 Nov 11

For example if a person is diagnosed with cancer and has a few months to live, should he/she fall in love or get married? What do you think? Isn't it selfish or the person's part? What if the person has never experienced lve and...

death

love

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liumirror I don't think the person should fall in love ,not to mention marriage. Unless, the parter know the situation,and he or she would like to love and marry with.Else it is unfair to the healthy person.

21 Nov 11

Someone can help me???

cikryah @cikryah (183) • Malaysia 21 Nov 11

Today I would like to share with you all the things that happened today. Sadness, frustration, fear, worry, depression, anger and so forth my feelings are mixed now. Too many things that make my mind becomes increasingly...

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liumirror Sometimes,I also worry about money.Maybe someone's ability to make money.I remember when I was a child,I so fear to ask for money to my parents that I am very frugl,but sometimes some money you must to spend. I wish you have a good luck.

21 Nov 11

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I killed myself already!

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 10 Nov 11

I meant, I killed my old self..and Now I am a new person. I have had a lot of things happen to me in the past, and in the recent months and I know that I have gone through hell.. and maybe i am just a few more steps closer to...

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liumirror First,congratulations.You decide to let unhappy time got away.I also have unpleaseant time .Yesterday ,a customer blame me without reason.It reminder me of so much bad experience that tear from my eye.But life is going on.Tear is do nothing except let your bad...

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How can I prove to my girl that I am not cheating?

oiixdaii @oiixdaii (1059) • Philippines 2 Nov 11

My girlfriend always accuses mo of cheating. Ever since we started our relationship, I never cheated on her. I gave her my password, showed her my cellphone, showed her my telephone bills, gave her my cellphone over the weekend...

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liumirror I think it is a behaviour that your girlfriend love you so much.But it is really uncomfortable,which always saying you cheat her.You should tell her your feeling about her mistrust.In my country there is a idiom:To measure another's foot by one's own last.You...

8 Nov 11

i am stupid

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 7 Nov 11

Today, I did a stupidity again. I forgot to include the meat into the cupboard. And now, my husband was very angry, I feel very stupid. I always forget something. Now, I can not do anything, but hope, meat is not eaten by cats. I...

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liumirror It is a trifle.Someone would be do some mistake.Don't blame yourself,just careful next time.

8 Nov 11

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Have You Heard of Pesceterian Diet?

CAPirani Photography & Art @capirani (2840) • United States 7 Nov 11

Over a year and a half ago I started eating seafood, eggs, and dairy along with vegetables and fruits as my main diet. It helped me feel more healthy and I also lost weight with it. Over time I would try some of the other meats I...

pesceterian diet

seafood

vegetarian

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liumirror Now it is fashionable to lose weight throught diet.But some experts say sport is the main way to lose weihgt and make body healthy .Of course diet is important too.I think if you feel ease and happy don't mind any diet.Just eat it .After all, most of people...

8 Nov 11

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