lorelie78n

@lorelie78n (145)

Philippines • Age 46

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Now he's back!!!

chechuva @chechuva (1275) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

just few days ago, i shared that my boyfriend is not coming back, he's not talking to me in 5 days and our relationship is ending.... now he's BACK! he just arrived yesterday, without even saying anything to me! i was so...

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lorelie78n Sorry to be very blunt, hope I don't make any offense. But girl, the mere fact that he didn't tell you he was back without the intention of surprising you, means he really didn't intend to see you. It's time to move on. I think it would be wise that you...

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Would you marry someone who isnt financially stable?

jaghead1179 @jaghead1179 (199) • Philippines 3 Aug 08

For me its a big NO...a constipated wallet means constipated issues. im not being self righteous and materialistic; he doesnt need to be truly rich, but he should at least have some savings before he settles down. having money...

issues

savings

wallet

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lorelie78n For me its essential that my partner to be would have stability. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually and most of all financially. Love is not really blind I believe, but its the lover that is blind. Love is indeed essential for a successful marriage. Lovers,...

4 Aug 08

My daughter is dating a black guy and I don't mind

cyntrow @cyntrow (8523) • United States 30 Jul 08

No, I don't want a pat on the back. That is not what this is about. Race has never been an issue to me. It's the way I was raised. Curtis and his family have lived next door to us since I first moved in here. In fact, I knew his...

racial differences

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lorelie78n Race is not really an issue in our family. But religion would be more of an issue. Since we are devote Catholic, my parents especially my mother would like as to be with someone who shares the same views as we have. But as far as dating, base on my experience,...

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Why people commit suicide?

CopyPaper @CopyPaper (228) • Philippines 25 Jul 08

I'm really curious why there are some people decided to commit suicide? I happen to have a friend who's brother committed suicide yesterday afternoon. I am so sad because I really feel sorry about the family left behind and the...

commit suicide

sin

suicide

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lorelie78n I think people usually resort to suicide because they feel they don't have anybody who they could talk to. Usually its not just depression which drives them to commit suicide. Few factors can be pressure (family or peer), loneliness and low self worth. The...

26 Jul 08

do you easily trust other people?

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 25 Jul 08

hi guys i just wanna ask if you trust easily..do you easily trust others easily? and what is trust for you? well for me i trust easily but if once break or betrayed me i will find a hard time for accepting your apology how bout...

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lorelie78n I am not the type who gives my trust that easily. I only trust people who I have known for a number of years and also earned my trust. Trust is not something given, it is earned. Trust can be earned when one prove themselves worthy of giving that trust....

26 Jul 08

Isn't 8 years old a little young?

lilybug @lilybug (21107) • United States 22 Jul 08

My son is 8 years old and has already developed body odor. He needs to wear deodorant everyday otherwise when he starts to sweat he stinks the place up. Isn't 8 years old a little young to need deodorant?

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lorelie78n Yes he really is young to developed such a thing but it is not that impossible. What you need to do is to analyze his diet. Body smells could be developed with the type of food that we eat. You also need to observe if your son is indeed very healthy. Illness...

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White Pride mother loses custody...

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 22 Jul 08

In Winnipeg Manitoba a woman lost custody of her children. Her young daughter had drawn a swastika on her arm and went to school. The teacher scrubbed it off. The mom drew it back on and sent the kid to school. The daughter was...

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lorelie78n First and foremost the symbol of swastika is not really a symbol of pride but it is a symbol of hate. Hate for the Jews and in return thousands were gassed and killed just because they were Jews. It is but right for the children to be taken from their...

22 Jul 08

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I want to save my marriage - ideas?

ebsharer @ebsharer (5515) • United States 22 Jul 08

My marriage is on the rocks. We are in marriage counseling now and after only one session I think I am more confused then ever. Let me give you the short of the story. My husband came to me about 6 weeks ago and said he wasn't...

marriage counseling

marriage counselor

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lorelie78n A marriage counselor can really be helpful in your situation. He/she could be the arbitrator. It is helpful that you really do communicate what is really the root cause of the "divorce suggestion"One thing that is bothering me though. How can a marriage with...

22 Jul 08

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is reading novels a waste of time??

antony2best @antony2best (583) • India 7 Jul 08

well most of you will disagree with me but i think it is waste of time.you are not going to pass exams or earn money reading novels.it is like watching a movie. after reading you forget about that and start reading another...

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lorelie78n For me its not really a waste of time. Its a good way to use your imagination. You get to choose how the picture of the story goes. It also does help improve in ones vocabulary. If I don't get to understand a particular word, I do consult the dictionary and...

7 Jul 08

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Could i really lose my marriage by emailing another man?

patzel88 @patzel88 (3310) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

i've met this guy online. We email each other quite a bit and i've kept it quite innocent at late whereas before it was not very innocent.

marriage

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lorelie78n Whether or not you think it is an innocent affair, it is still cheating. If you still love your husband, better stop it now. The more you get stuck in the hole, the deeper you will be sucked in. In the end, you might be too deep to even get out from...

2 Jul 08

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Do you think Hollywood is lazy? I just read they are remaking

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 1 Jul 08

1981 Clash of the Titians. It is slated for 2010 release. I absolutely love the original. I cannot believe they are remaking this movie.

remake

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lorelie78n I don't think it is being lazy, I think fresh ideas are starting to run out. Same is true for music, movie and tv shows. Its not just in Hollywood, even here in the Philippines we can see revivals as well. I think all the legendary composers, all the award...

2 Jul 08

Australia

andyhehe @andyhehe (19) • China 1 Jul 08

what is the weather like there? Any who knows something more about Australia? IS it a good place for living? I really want to go there.

australia life

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lorelie78n I have been to Melbourne and Sydney but I fell in love more in Melbourne than in Sydney. In Melbourne at times you will experience 4 seasons in a day. They don't have snow but fall and winter in Melbourne can be cold and wet as well. It rains instead of snow....

2 Jul 08

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HUGE blowout with my neighbor.

latoyahall @latoyahall (835) • United States 30 Jun 08

So I have been telling my neighbor for awhile now to leave her boyfriend. He is abusive to her, and I am very sensitive to that for reasons that some of my mylot friends will understand. We had an argument because I have been...

lost friendship

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lorelie78n A friend can only help a friend when that friend wants to be helped. But looking at your friend's attitude, I see that she really don't want to help herself. You have done your part, its time she does hers. If you remember the words of Babyface and Stevie...

1 Jul 08

To judge the life of another

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 30 Jun 08

Mama used to say " You have no right Raydene, You've not been in his mocs" when I would say something judgingly of another. Mama was right because we would have to know the wins and the losses. And the horrors along with the...

judging

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lorelie78n My mom always says, "Stop judging people and looking for their faults, in the end all the faults and judgment made will transfer to you" So I just follow this simple rule. "If you have nothing good to say, say nothing"

1 Jul 08

Steamy emails

ella1bella @ella1bella (839) 30 Jun 08

A work colleague and me have been emailing each other for a while,things have been getting pretty steamy and hes getting very graphic ,as to what he would like to do with me.So ive been afool and beleived him,but now he is saying...

emails

mature content

steamy

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lorelie78n Be advised that using your work computer is like having a spy 24/7 behind your back. The admin gets to read your letter. Its not only the guy who knows whats happening but the admin as well. You have been very foolish. You failed to consider whether or not...

1 Jul 08

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Parents have little time with children

chineseairhead @chineseairhead (756) • China 1 Jul 08

Often people take it as given that mothers were homemakers and fathers were breadwinners. In modern life, both parents have to work out for themselves within the give role of homemaker and career. I do believe children suffer due...

children

parents

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lorelie78n Both parents should assume responsibility in giving quality time for their kids. But if this is not possible, I think parents should at least explain the situation to their kids. The problem with parents is that they always think of their kids as kids. They...

1 Jul 08

If you are Tired and Hungry, would you Sleep or Eat first?

poohgal @poohgal (6845) • Singapore 30 Jun 08

A few weeks ago, I ended work late (around 1130pm). I had not had dinner and felt both Tired and Hungry. When I finally reached home, I quickly showered. After showering, I still felt very Tired. I decided to quickly blow dry...

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lorelie78n It really depends on how tired and how sleepy I am. There are times when I'm really so tired that I just have a quick shower, do some of my nightly ritual then go straight to sleep. But some times, I really am so hungry that even if I am so tired I can't think...

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How did you grow up? Poor, rich or in-between?

dragon54u @dragon54u (31634) • United States 30 Jun 08

I grew up with very little money, we were always struggling and although we had enough to eat sometimes we ate toast covered with gravy with a little meat. There wasn't much for clothes and such so I was never stylish and we...

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lorelie78n Back when I was still between the ages of 0-4, we have a very comfortable life. Well provided for and our things was really top of the line. But when my dad started screwing around and eventually left my mom for another woman, we then have to tighten our...

1 Jul 08

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do you judge others based on how many friends they keep? (in real life that is)

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 28 Jun 08

does having a lot of friends make you more attractive to people? do you think some one is more likely to be ok or cool because of the amount of friends? is that a sticker of sanity? i think you never really know till you are...

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lorelie78n Its not really quantity but quality of friendship. One can have many of friends but as the saying goes "When the going gets tough, who goes with you?" At times you don't really know who your real friends are until you are in trouble. That's the only time...

29 Jun 08

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