lovely0583

@lovely0583 (57)

United States • Age 41

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Suicide .....

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 31 Jan 07

Do you know of anyone who had commited suicide or talked about trying it ? How has the impacted your life and were you able to get over the pain and anger ? I have a child living with me that went through the pain of losing an...

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lovely0583 Oh I have attemted suicide many many times with pills, but nothing seriously happen to me other than felt numbed all over my body and gruggy. After that nothing seriosly happen to me, I tried cutting my veins but when I held the blade I can't just do it. A lot...

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Will he just never grow up?

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have another problem with my fiancee!! IT's been a reoccurring one. Cleaning. HE does the surface things, like sweeping, wiping off the counter, loading the dishwasher, making the bed, straightening up... but nothing like...

relationship problems

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lovely0583 baby, you are glad he manage to do some other household chores. the rest dusting and etc etc. Just do it and stop arguing. You are lucky to have a boyfriend that is like that. The husband of my friend is worst my friend's work 5 days and only comes in their...

31 Jan 07

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Is the war on Iraq Justified

Booker_t79 @Booker_t79 (200) • United States 31 Jan 07

we invaded IRAQ to overthrow saddam and find and destroy the weapons of mass destruction (which by way we havent found yet in more than 3 years). Was it the right move logically not patriotically? Isnt it true that we are only...

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lovely0583 before the war to iraq is really justied but now, it's just a political and a some what economical thing. Some people in high power have some agenda behind the wars in Iraq, possibly to have control on the Oil Industry in that country.

31 Jan 07

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Nearly 30

morfessa1 @morfessa1 (190) • Australia 30 Jan 07

I have a sudden urge to change everything in my life. I don't know where this urge has come from but I've had it for 6 months now. My job and infact the industry that I work in is no longer satisfying. I want a total...

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lovely0583 I think you are just having a scared to get to the number 30 age time of thing. You may not know but unconsciously you are having a 30th b-day to come freaking effect. Try to think of what oy uhave done in your life, your success and goals in the future. Just...

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Does it annoy you when.....

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 31 Jan 07

...you're sitting in the cinema watching a movie and somebody behind you starts kicking your chair (I mean repeatedly kicking it), or puts their feet up on it? What do you do? I am absolutely SICK of it. Why do they do it? Why...

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lovely0583 well it happen to me also, someone in my back is keep on kicking my chair and I give her a lot and then she still do it every now and then, she is too bus having a touchy sessions with her bf. that after more than 10 times she kick my chair I finally told her...

31 Jan 07

I can't gain weight! HELP!

Itzfockinyung @Itzfockinyung (45) • United States 31 Jan 07

I can't gain any weight if my life depended on it. I'm 5'7 and 120lbs. That is my figure for the past 4 yrs. All i eat is fastfood and drink lots of soda. At one point of my life i went to Mcdonalds twice a day for a month...

cant gain weight mcdonalds fastfood skinny thin f

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lovely0583 change the foods you eat, most of them is no good in gaining weight. They are yummy but they wont help you gain and have a healthy body. Start eating some veggies, a little meat, and high protein foods etc etc

31 Jan 07

women should not preach

haqueen @haqueen (236) • United States 31 Jan 07

i thought pple read the bible ..but pple seems to read wat they want how do u get in to a church and litsen to the preaching of a woman... god forbid...it is written that women should keep quit in the church and litsen and...

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lovely0583 well I guess women preach a lot in daily livwes, at work, school even at church and etc etc. I guess it is because when women preach and say something to an audience, I believe that being a woman is amazing. And part of that is we have the charms, the power to...

31 Jan 07

Relationships : Is money important?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 30 Jan 07

Would you date/marry someone who didn't have any money? Would you date/marry someone who you thought was just ok, but had a lot of money? I know a lot of people are all about the money and how much someone has. I think that is...

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lovely0583 well if that someone is hard working and knows his ways in life. Sometimes love and being just hard working is not enough. Specially talking about marriage, if yo uare just panning to have 1 child it's okay to marry someone who is just doing okay. But in...

31 Jan 07

Do you think people that live in your country should have to learn the language?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 30 Jan 07

Do you think people that live in your country should have to learn the language? There are a lot of people in my country that don't speak English, but they get away with not learning it. You can live in communities where...

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lovely0583 Supposedly they should but if someone can't and won't really learn to speak english no one can force them, but they are not having a great life. it's not easy to live in a foreign country where you can't be understood and can't understand the people who are...

31 Jan 07

Is it hard to say "Sorry"?

peachtabernilla @peachtabernilla (305) • Philippines 30 Jan 07

honestly I only say "sorry" when I think at is my fault...but I don't say it when I think it is not my fault and I have nothing to do with it...Saying "sorry" is like admitting that it is your fault and ready to face your...

sorry

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lovely0583 Saying sorry is just a natural reactions to someone who knows that he is mistaken and admits to it. I guess if that person has an ego/pride problem who thinks of himself that is perfect then, that is when it's really hard to utter the word sorry. But if he is...

31 Jan 07

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How Many Post To Go Brain Dead In My Lot?

wmg2006 @wmg2006 (5381) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have tried so hard to do 100 responses in My Lot, but never accomplished it! I have found after 50 good responses my brain cells start retreating to somehwere deep in my brain. I can not even think logically much less...

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lovely0583 I think you are just feeling tired and you are overly get used to what is in here and the ideas, so maybe my time is coming also.

31 Jan 07

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Marriage after divorce?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have noticed that a lot of people say they don't want to ever get married again after a divorce.I myself am about to get a divorce and I have to say that I want to get married again.Just because it didn't work out on the first...

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lovely0583 I myself is on the process of divorce, at first I told myself that I wont get married again, but later on I realize I am being too hard on myself. Life is so loney without having someone special. And I say yes, I will get married again, but because of the...

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Helping the poor

sigma77 @sigma77 (5383) • United States 30 Jan 07

Lets say I am rich and that I wanted to help the poor. I want to help 1 million people or families. I would give them each $1,000 a month for 12 months for the next 3 years. That comes to a total of $3.6 billion. Do you...

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lovely0583 Giving them money monthly for 12 months in 3 years by $1,000 I hope they will see it as a help and not a pension and will finally make them help themselves. But the problem of most people who are in not so comfortable lifestyle is they are ussually lay back...

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Help-- Conflict with raising a child

KrisNY @KrisNY (7590) • United States 31 Jan 07

OK so it seems that I am having some conflict with my fiance over raising my daughter- She is not his child but has been with us since she was 3-- She is 10 now. It seems like every week- I hear from him-- You let her run your...

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lovely0583 well i think the problem is that yo uare between the two of them, he might felt who are too soft of your daughter. He loves your daughter and he is just trying to be a dad to her. He wants to be a part of your daughter's life as a father figure. And he...

31 Jan 07

Should children help with household tasks or they should only study?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 31 Jan 07

Although people say children should not have to work with household tasks, children will not learn to be independent unless they work to help parents in household tasks. By working with family members children will learn lots of...

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lovely0583 It is really necessary for children growing up to know how to do things in the house. And it is more advantage for a child to see what their parents are doing for a living. It makes them admire their parents- if not hate them. but the important thing is that...

31 Jan 07

does this upset you..

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 30 Jan 07

f you get dressed and make extra effort to look nice for your partner and he doesnb't notice..does it uoset you?

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lovely0583 yes, it's an insult for us women that we are making an effort and men that we loved don't see and recognize us. It's depressing. My God! ! !

30 Jan 07

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Work work and more work....Does it ever end?

carissa765 @carissa765 (1097) • United States 29 Jan 07

My dad used to tell me that "a man will work from sun to sun, but a womans work is never done." I recently have found that to be so true. My boyfriend goes to work for his shift comes home and will sit for the remainder of the...

cleaning

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who should help

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lovely0583 your making a superwoman out of yourself, relax and let others help coz if you dont let them you are just killing yourself and other's wont appreciate what you are doing for them. If they help and they don't do it right, teach them the way you want it to be...

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