luvadeal46

@luvadeal46 (289)

United States • Age 54

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Who teaches better: one with masters degree or one with none?

mermaid911 @mermaid911 (798) • Philippines 3 Oct 07

Does it really mean that teachers who have more qualification, teach better than those who are less qualified?

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luvadeal46 I believe experience should be looked at when hiring someone for a position rather than does he or she have a master's degree. A degree is good and beneficial however a person that has years of experience working in the same field as the person who has a...

8 Oct 07

Mother has two sons taken away.

Dee351972 @Dee351972 (743) 7 Oct 07

Hi , yes i have a sister that had two sons taken away by the state. She lost all rights. Now she has twins and i just found out they are letting her have them. With just vistis in her home. Nothing really changed in her life. Just...

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luvadeal46 Hi I believe that their has to be proof that these twins are being abused.. I do not believe they can take the twins based on the fact that she lost her other two children.(I am not saying this is right but I do believe this is how it works.) What happened...

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Are you a frugal cook?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 27 Aug 07

So, what are your your best frugal suggestions for feeding a family cheaply? What frugal tricks have you picked up to help you stretch your grocery dollars until payday? Please share. Here are some of my best frugal cooking/budget...

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luvadeal46 Well my budget necessitates that I am... i started a post yesterday and asked if you had $110 to go you two weeks what would you buy at the grocery store....I didn't have to go shopping yesterday as I had the items to make corn chowder and biscuits and beet...

8 Oct 07

A Day with the Grandkids

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 6 Oct 07

Three of our grandchildren spent the night with us last night. Hubby did the fun stuff with them by chasing them around the house and acting like a goofball. The kids love it when he is a dork. Our oldest grandson wanted to...

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luvadeal46 Oh it sounds like a wonderful day...I cleared the cucumber patch by pulling all the vines up and picking the cukes off the vines... believe it or not...that is a memory I won't forget..My daughter was helping me..trying to carry the bucket and it was to heavy...

7 Oct 07

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Is it "immoral" to lock a 3 year old in their room, even to keep them safe?

Tatsuya @Tatsuya (1149) • United States 10 Mar 07

Here's what's going on. My 3 year old gets up in the morning, knocks down the baby gate and gets into stuff. She doesn't wake me up at all, even though I've told her to. So far she's gotten into nail polish, lotion, and a bunch of...

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luvadeal46 umm.. I just posted about your three year old pulling all the clothes out of the drawer. It sounds like to me that you have a busy little beaver....Personally I would take everything dangerous in the house and put it out of her way.. things such as nail...

7 Oct 07

Problems with cleaning...

Tatsuya @Tatsuya (1149) • United States 7 Oct 07

Every morning when I wake up, I awake to a mess. My 3 year old keeps getting into her sisters clothes and throwing them in her bed. Every morning I spank her butt for it, not too hard, just enough to let her know it was bad. Every...

3 year old

mess maker

not listening

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luvadeal46 First off.. stop the spanking, it obviously is not working. I mean if she did it and you spanked and she stopped then spanking would have worked.. However you have stated that it keeps happening even with the spankings..I would then go with the other opinions...

7 Oct 07

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America's most frugal family - what do you think?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 3 Sep 07

As I am quite bored at work today, I've been surfing the Internet, and come across some information about this family. I'm sure my American friends are familiar with them, although I had never heard of them before. Here is a link...

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luvadeal46 Hi I try to be the frugal type because my dream is to be able to not work and be able to stay home with my kids...and eventually dh can start up his own business(he hates his job, but is responsible). However I am not very good at it.. I try and try and...

7 Oct 07

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Different opinions on kid's education and what will you do?

freebreathing @freebreathing (419) • China 1 Oct 07

I do have some different opinions on my kid's education. Just now my wife beat my her son for not doing homework seriouly. I hate this action and blamed her.However most of the time she doesn't accept my suggestion and sometimes...

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luvadeal46 You never did state whether your wife spanks your child or if your wife beats your child. How old is your son? It is never okay for anyone to beat a child whether he or she is not doing their homework or anything else for that matter. I am apalled that you are...

6 Oct 07

Britney Spears Loses Custody

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 1 Oct 07

Acoording to TMZ.com, Britney Spears has lost costody of her two sons. While I am sadden to hear of any mother losing her children, the needs of the child must come first. If a mother is not able to meet those needs, then the...

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luvadeal46 Britney lost her children because at this point in her life she is unable to parent them. However I am not sure that her ex husband has the ability to parent them either. It's a hard situation..I see children on a daily basis that would be better off in a home...

3 Oct 07

Do you think Britney lossing physical custody of her 2 kids is fair?

MarieJ23 @MarieJ23 (1040) • United States 2 Oct 07

When I woke up today, I opened the tv to a news channel and one of the hottest issue right now is about Britney Spears lossing physical custody of her children to her ex-husband. The good thing maybe is it's just...

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luvadeal46 In my opinion she deserved to lose custody of her children, however I am not sure that who they went with is any better. I am not sure what the reasoning was for losing her children, I know that in the past she had taken drugs and of course there was...

2 Oct 07

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What do you do when your child's friend is not a desirable friend to have?

princesslee @princesslee (158) • Australia 30 Sep 07

We all like our kids to have friends, but what to you do when a friend is not the type of kid you want your child associating with? My son has a friend, Mark. Mark can be a really nice boy, & is polite when he speaks to others,...

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luvadeal46 i would explain to your son that throwing rocks is not appropriate behavior and will not be tolerated...I would then explain to your son that you are happy that he has found a friend but sometimes friends can lead you down the wrong path and that he is his own...

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Do teachers just suck these days?

AZmomof3boys @AZmomof3boys (94) • United States 25 Dec 06

Or do the school systems they work for? Is it possible to have caring teachers who go above and beyond within the constrains of a bureaucratic school district that's main goal is DO NOT LET THEM FAIL? Is it possible that...

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luvadeal46 Not all teachers suck... he he.. My daughter is in kindergarten this year and believe it or not she has the same kindergarten teacher my husband did 33 years ago and she is still great...I love her to peices...however you are right... the school system needs...

26 Dec 06

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HUSBANDS SPANKING THERE WIVES

Crystalwatson345 @Crystalwatson345 (441) • United States 1 Dec 06

oK before you deam me CRAZY let me tell you about a little I am 23 I am a Female I am married and I get spankings from My husband Not play or bed time ones either Before you critize Me know that when I got with him before we...

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luvadeal46 Okay you posted to this discussion and people gave you their answers and if you don't like them then you shouldn't have posted. Sorry but when I read this i had to reread...and then I was like okay... not playing with a full deck of cards here... either one...

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To spank or not to spank?

shannon154 @shannon154 (132) • United States 13 Dec 06

What form of discipline works best for your little ones? My son is 2 yrs old and laughs when we put him in time out but with a simple swat(in which we only use as a last resort) we then get his full attention. We also use...

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luvadeal46 I spanked with my first son but did not or do not spank with my second and third child. My oldest is 17 and he was 6 almost 7 by the time his brother came along. At the age of 5 or 6 I stopped spanking because it was not working. I look back and my oldest...

14 Dec 06

Baby's toes are gnawed off by a six week old pit bull puppy.

lizabeth @lizabeth (666) • United States 13 Dec 06

I just heard on the news tonight that a six week old pit bull puppy gnawed 4 toes off of a baby. The parents were asleep by the baby during all this. Now, the fate of the puppy is being decided by a judge. The parents are going...

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luvadeal46 Yes, this is definitely abuse. How could a parent sleep through their baby getting their toes gnawed off by a puppy. makes you wonder if they were under the influence. I am sorry but who would not hear their baby cry..i cannot even begin to say what should...

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Have you seen this.....Mom allegedly used baby to beat boyfriend

hazydazy @hazydazy (783) • United States 8 Dec 06

ERIE, Pennsylvania - A woman used her 4-week-old baby as a weapon in a domestic dispute, swinging the infant through the air and striking her boyfriend with the child, authorities said. The boy was in serious but stable...

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luvadeal46 Wow... this has me in tears and then to have someone say she didn't mean to do it, it was an accident is beyond belief.. This mother has taken a perfectly innocent human being and completely ruined their life. I mean chances are it will suffer many different...

14 Dec 06

WOW!!! The things kids learn at school....

jesi06 @jesi06 (279) • United States 14 Dec 06

My 9 year old daughter came home today from school. When asked how her day was she excitedly told me of a new joke she learned today. Although my mind told me not to ask....I as a parent HAD to ask. So she says "after everything I...

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luvadeal46 Oh i have many stories to tell you...but won't but you get the drift and when I mention it to the teachers or to the bus garage they basically tell me that i baby my children to much... ugh! I have taken care of the bus issues, they do not ride the...

14 Dec 06

More month than money?

trenea7 @trenea7 (86) • United States 7 Dec 06

I keep close track of my spending and we manage to raise our family on one teacher's income. However, there are many months when unexpected expenses come up and suddenly we're in a "more month than money" situation. What do you...

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luvadeal46 he he he... this makes me laugh I had one of those moments the other day...counting change to buy kitty food and dog food...and saying man I am so glad payday is two days away...I have even had to take in returnables for gas..those are the days....so I...

13 Dec 06

Interracial adoption. For it or againgst it?

killailla @killailla (1301) • Canada 31 Oct 06

I have been thinking alot about having another child, I am getting married in a few months, and alreayd have a 5 year old. I am white, my son is white and my fiance is brown, so I am very very for interratial marriages. I have...

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luvadeal46 Follow your heart... I mean people will say anything. There are people out there that will tell you its wrong to pray outside of your home, smoke a cigarette, or drink alcohol.. you are the only one that can say whether it is right for you. In another post...

12 Dec 06