marcypayne

@marcypayne (50)

United States • Age 37

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Does human evolution happening today?

rbdescartin @rbdescartin (616) • Philippines 27 Jun 10

If human evolution is real, is there any people that is evolving today? Where are these that were the results of evolution? Who are these people there were the results of evolution? Where do these people live? What do they eat? Do...

evolution

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marcypayne If human evolution is real, is there any people that is evolving today? Where are these that were the results of evolution? Who are these people there were the results of evolution? Where do these people live? What do they eat? Do they cook their food?

27 Jun 10

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Loss of a baby...how to cope

jewel76 @jewel76 (2305) • Canada 2 Dec 06

My best friend lost her baby about a month ago. It was her first pregnancy, and it had taken quite some time before she became pregnant. Everything was going well, until she started her fifth month; out of the blue, on friday...

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marcypayne This is obviously a heart wrenching story. It brought tears to my eyes because I partially understand what your friend is going through. My husband and I were going through some really hard times and gave my youngest daughter up for adoption when she was 2...

3 Dec 06

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How to curb these kind of child tortures? Are these people humans?

findcutegj @findcutegj (1466) • India 3 Dec 06

I was browsing internet, when i came across to this horrible act but last year a couple residing in Florida named John and Linda Dollar. As i really hate child tortures, this really came up as a worst nightmare story which was...

child tortures

florida couple accused of torturing children

how to curb child tortures

walk in closet

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marcypayne oh my gosh this story brought tears to my eyes. the government should defintiely take child abuse more seriously. I do not believe that any child is ever at fault. We as adults are responsible for our own actions, and nobody can make us do anything. sure kids...

3 Dec 06

Do they expect that poor people should eat unhealthy

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 16 Dec 08

Our Women's Society have got together and made two hampers for two of the poorer families of our church. Now before this, we got a sheet from the city about what usually goes into such hampers and it was fill of the macaroni and...

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marcypayne Our Women's Society have got together and made two hampers for two of the poorer families of our church. Now before this, we got a sheet from the city about what usually goes into such hampers and it was fill of the macaroni and cheese, canned beans, chips,...

16 Dec 08

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at what age do you tell a child that they're adopted.?

HomerBundy @HomerBundy (1325) • United States 26 Aug 06

is it their right to know as soon as possible.?

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marcypayne I think you have to put yourself in the child's shoes. How would you feel if you were adopted and your parents kept it from you for 10- or even 17 years? I would feel like they had been lying to me all along. I think it is best for them to know from the start,...

29 Nov 06

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Do you like to have your own or just adopt child

abijan @abijan (494) • Malaysia 28 Nov 06

Which do you prefer, to adopt a child or to have your own?

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marcypayne I personally would rather have my own. But I think that if you have the money and dont mind, that adopting a child from another country is the best gift you could give them- a shot at a real life! So if you can afford it- more power to you! This world is...

29 Nov 06

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What do you think of Open Adoption?

caseynelicia @caseynelicia (323) • United States 28 Nov 06

Back years ago when people placed a baby for adoption you did not know where that child went. Now when placing a baby for adoption the birthmothers get to choose the family and have on going contact with the family and their...

adoption

closed adoption

open adoption

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marcypayne I myself am a birth mom and I chose the route of open adoption. Aside from the fact that I am now fighting my decision because the agency completely took advantage of us, I believe that open adoptions are a good thing- for every one involved, and if the...

29 Nov 06

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Older women Younger men..

bhchy1 @bhchy1 (6047) • United States 29 Aug 06

Do you think it's OK for women in their 40's to date men in their 20's? I would feel like his mother persoanlly..so...

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marcypayne I think that as long as both parties are over age 18, it's whatever floats their boat, ya know? I agree, i would feel like his mom, too, so of course i would never do that, i myself like oder men (actually- i only like my husband) so i couldn't imagine being...

17 Oct 06

would you disown a friend if you found out he/she was gay

gayboy17 @gayboy17 (2) • United States 21 Sep 06

tell what you would do

friendship

homosexuality

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marcypayne Although I myself do not agree with homosexuality, I would never disown a friend that I just found out was gay. That would be like them disowning me for finding out I was a Christian and they were a Muslim. Just because we are different, does not mean that we...

13 Oct 06

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height difference between couple

tanveer146 @tanveer146 (536) • United States 11 Oct 06

what is the most ideal height difference between couple. I say not more than 3 inches.

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marcypayne i dont think there is an ideal height...i say that if you belong together, u will fit perfectly in eachother's arms...my but my hubby and i are btw 4 and 5 inches apart.

11 Oct 06

How tall or short are you?

Sm00tH @Sm00tH (2037) • Belgium 24 Sep 06

I'm 2,02 meters or 6ft6 how bout u?

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marcypayne 5 ft 7 in....im 19 and have been this height since 7th grade...i think im done growing...up, anyways.

11 Oct 06

Giving birth to twins at home?

crunchymama @crunchymama (158) • United States 4 Oct 06

Do you think it's a good idea? A friend is PG with twins and considering a homebirth.

childbirth

twins

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marcypayne I know that in the old days, everyone gave birth at home, so im sure that if thats what she really wants to do, it can be done. but she really needs to think about the fact that what she wants is not the important thing here, that what is best for those babies...

11 Oct 06

What's the best thing you see in your partner.

sherinek @sherinek (3320) • United States 26 Sep 06

Mine is so helpful

life

partners

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marcypayne My husband is loving and compassionate. He always puts mine and our children's needs in front of his own, and he always at least makes an effort to understand where i am coming from in various situations. He is the love of my life, my best friend, my sould...

11 Oct 06

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