megalia

@megalia (60)

Indonesia • Age 36

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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I am now afraid to make more friends again.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 16 Jan 12

Good day fellow mylotters, I am quite sad for what happened to the friendship that I have had with one of my good friends. That, our friendship just ruined by some issues and misunderstanding due to some situation. And...

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megalia I'm having the same experience with you.. It's even happened for many times.. In that time I really disappointed and make me decide not to make a friend with anyone.. But then I realize, people can't live in this world without others.. So that I decide to have...

10 Mar 12

indonesian salary

VRamone @VRamone (325) • Brazil 2 Mar 12

hello,i would like to know how much is considered to be a good salary in indonesia, and how much 1 indonesian money is to 1 dollar thanks!

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megalia If it is salary, I think it's depend on where u live. If you are living in the big city like Jakarta, 3 million salary won't be enough even you are single. But if it is in Medan city, 3 million is considered good salary for single person. Lets we take an...

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Afraid of confessing

leoifrah @leoifrah (31) • Hong Kong 27 Feb 12

I like this girl for over a year already but I never had the chance to tell her...I feel conflicted to tell her and its our last year so...

love

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megalia You have to try it man.. it's better for us to lose than never try right? who knows she likes you too.. and you two can be a good couple.. or maybe u can try to ask her for a date.. see whether she approve or reject it.. than u will know what is the answer...

4 Mar 12

Are you single right now?

blink69nix0 @blink69nix0 (847) • Philippines 8 Jan 12

Single person can do anything, they are free to do whatever they want in life. No one will disturb them, they can go anywhere,everywhere, elsewhere. They found happiness and peaceful when they are in our society.Their focuses on...

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megalia Hi friend... for now, i still enjoy my single life even sometimes i feel lonely and nobody share something fun with me. because i ever have a bad experience in a relationship. do ever heard that someone have been sue because she don't want to marry a...

2 Mar 12

being single.

Andy30 @Andy30 (3) 25 Dec 11

how many of you feel that being single is a blessing n why ?

blessing

single

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megalia in my opinion it is blessing to being single even sometimes i feel lonely when there is nobody share something fun with me. maybe it is because i ever have a bad experience in a relationship. and when i saw many of my friend crying all the day when there's is...

2 Mar 12

Talking in Phone with Girl friend for hours and hours without any reason.

yaso4u @yaso4u (502) • India 24 Dec 11

It happens to everyone atleast once in their young age. Still there will be nothing to talk but will talk for many hours. Once started they will cover all areas starting from films, sports, politics, foods, cloth, home, etc etc....

girl friend

phone

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megalia in my opinion, it is good. cause we can know each other much more than before. but the risk is the telephone's bill will be very expensive. i ever spend $300 to $400 in a month. can you imagine how expensive is it if it is in Indonesia Rupiah? but even like...

2 Mar 12

Do you afraid of being single?

dandan07 @dandan07 (1906) • China 7 Feb 12

Last month was the Spring Festival, all the relatives get together to celebrate the traditional festival. Being single have been a big problem for me, all the relatives asked the same question that why you are still being single....

single

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megalia hi there.. I have read all of the comment on this discussion and i read that u never been in a relationship... i have some suggestion for you.. first, maybe u can try to find a right person (i mean don't simply choose one person to be in a relationship, cause...

2 Mar 12

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Working on Valentine's day

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 15 Feb 12

That is what happen if you are single, and you have no one to spend the Valentine's day with. Yesterday, after my full - time job, I went to my part - time to work extra hours to earn some more money, since yesterday expected to...

work

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megalia Same here.. i also don't have anyone to spend on the valentine's day. actually i ever feel lucky that i don't have boyfriend, cause i saw many of my friends facing a lot a lot of problem in their relationship. some of them will act like crazy when they broke...

2 Mar 12

My friend is coming home, but is it too early?

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 29 Feb 12

I posted the other day about my friend that had a head injury a couple weeks ago and now has no memory of any of the people in her life. Well, she's supposed to be released from the rehab facility tomorrow. Her condition has not...

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megalia it's so sad.. I think it would be better if her family and friends accompany her. and remind her with every thing that she usually done in her daily life.. maybe like, what she like to do, or maybe bring her to the place that she usually go or like to go (I...

1 Mar 12

What was your fist car?

loboluke @loboluke (34) • United States 29 Feb 12

Everyones will always remember thier fist car. In my opinion it holds a special place in my heart. When i turned 16 my parents bought be a 2011 jeep grand cherokee str8. This is one very special car to me because it represents not...

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megalia My first car is 2004 Mitsubishi Grandia. My mom bought me this car when I was 18 years old. I remember in that time I still learn how to drive.. I love my car very much.. I wake up early to wash my car every morning.. Till one day I fall down when I climb up...

29 Feb 12

How long will it takes you for a normal shower?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 21 Aug 09

It takes 30 minutes for me. I do a lot of thinking and get lots of ideas when I am in bathroom. If I am in a hurry I can take shower in 10 minutes, but not less than that. I wonder how my room mate takes shower everyday in 5...

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megalia for me it just take 15 to 20 minutes if in normal condition, if in hurry, it takes 10 minutes.. i can't stand longer than that in bathroom.. he8..

21 Aug 09

Does listening to foreign music make you want to go to that country?

animegirl334 @animegirl334 (3263) • United States 21 Aug 09

When I listen to Japanese music, I always think of what it would be like if I had vacation there. Do you ever feel like going to some country because of it's music?

music

vacation

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megalia hallo, hm.. actually i don't think so. i think i can feel so if i watch the drama of the related country. for example, when i watch the taiwanese drama with the title "dreams link" they make the drama in Paris. makes me really want to visit Paris cuz the...

21 Aug 09

We Are Not Getting Young, Save Money For The Future!!

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 21 Aug 09

We are all aware that every year, our age adds up. From time to time, we get to have some problems physically.What I am saying is some of us got already some problems with hearing, just an example. As early as today, we should...

future

save money

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megalia Yes! we have to save something for our future.. i have this attitude since i was 5 years.. actually not saving earning yet, cuz i just save the money from the red envelope and it just once a year when we celebrate chinese new year.. he8.. but now, i save half...

21 Aug 09

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Do you prefer to drive your own car or using public transport to work?

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 4 May 09

When it comes to saving some money during this economic downturn, what do you prefer to use to go to work? If driving own car, you will need to buy gas and pay parking fees. All these expenses are quite expensive. But, if you are...

car

public transport

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megalia Actually I prefer to use public transportation to save money. But in Indonesia, we need to drive our own car. Because there is a lot of criminality when we use public transport and the transportation fee is not that cheap if we compare with driving own car. I...

22 May 09

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Are you afraid of rejection?

arkansos @arkansos (545) • India 15 May 09

There are a lot of my friends who are afraid of rejection. They wouldn't ask for things they are supposed to get, won't do things in the fear of rejection. A simple example would be one of my friends didn't ask for extra chicken...

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megalia For this case, I will not be afraid because we already pay extra money. So it is our right to get extra chicken. I think I also will ask for the extra chicken same like what you did. hehe..

16 May 09

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When you are out from home, where will you put your cell phone?

myfb2009 @myfb2009 (8296) • Malaysia 14 May 09

If i am busy, i will just hang my cell phone around my neck with a necklace. So, i won't forget to bring it whenever i am out from my home. Sometimes, i will put my cell phone inside my handbag. When i wear short or trousers, i...

cellphone

out from home

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megalia When I out from my home, I will put my phone inside my trouser pocket or if i bring a handbag, I always put my phone inside the handbag even I'm wearing trouser. Actually I don't really like to put anything in my trouser pocket, cuz it's very disturbing me.

16 May 09

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what are your goals in life right now??

kath_b @kath_b (116) • Philippines 14 May 09

Have you achieved everything that you want right now? or is there more that you want out of life? tell me your hopes and your ambitions now.... for me, i am satisfied with my life however, i feel there could be more to it. =)

goals in lfie

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megalia Hm.. I haven't achieve any goals of mine. I hope I can give a happy time for my parent. I want to earn much more money to bring them go abroad for holiday, and I hope I will have a good husband and make my parent no need to worry about my life and my future...

14 May 09

who is the most important people to you in your life?

fanxiangqian @fanxiangqian (185) • China 14 May 09

From birth to now,we have come across a great many of people,most of them are just passing traveller to us,some are acquaintances of us,the last are our friends and relative.now i want to know,the rest os the little part...

influence

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megalia Hm.. I think I love all my family member. My mom, dad, and my little brother. But the most is my mom of course.. Because she really there when I need someone to talk to and she always give me a wise suggestion and when I have a problem, she always help me to...

14 May 09

would you go abroad away from home to earn a living?

kath_b @kath_b (116) • Philippines 14 May 09

this question usually goes out to those who live in the third world countries like mine and we have to have to go abroad to earn much more than what our jobs here can offer in our country. so are you willing to do that to earn...

earn a living

money

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megalia Ya, I will go abroad to earn much more money. And now, I'm preparing myself to go abroad to work. I just waiting for doing thesis and after I graduate, for sure I will go abroad and work there.

14 May 09

Have you ever forget to wash your faces or brush ur teeth before sleep?

janet8893 @janet8893 (283) • China 12 May 09

Last night, I was so tired after running, once I step into my dorm, I wanna throw myself to bed. After resting for a while, I nearly fell asleep. I was so tired and not willing to get up again to wash my faces. But i didn't,...

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megalia Last time when I work very hard and go home at 12, I feel very tired and directly take a rest and lay on my bed. Actually I just want to lay for 10 minutes, but because I feel very tired I fell asleep and when I get up, it's already morning. And I have to...

13 May 09

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