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melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

insecure over an ex

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melloncollie Thanks dear friend! It really is amazing how people see each other eye to eye. I am ever so blessed to have someone like you.

7 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie You think? So what's the best way to deal with it then? Act what? I fear that if I let this all pass.... time will come when I would feel numb already. I'm like this now because I care a lot about our relationship. If she's not happy with me, I guess I would...

7 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie Believe me when I say that I have been doing the best I can. I have never been this GOOD. I am trying my best to show her that I am willing to do anything for her. I just don't feel she ever appreciates them. Because it is rooted in her mind...

7 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie I thought so to. Maybe it wasn't such a good idea talking about past relationships. Maybe we should have not done it. Of course I want to be her No. 1. Who wouldn't. Securing myself in that position means a lot. SECURE. SECURITY. It of course means that...

7 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie Thank you for that wonderful response. You are right. Insecurity is something we do have to deal with ourselves. I've tried to bluntly ask my wife for help. But I always feel like I'm being shoved away. That I shouldn't be opening it because I know what...

6 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie I tried to tell her every day but she just replies in defense sometimes even in anger. I cannot make her understand. Signs of cheating? Who me? Or her? (1) Depression - yes I think I am depressed. Started drinking again every day. (2) Signs of cheating...

6 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie Yes that is true. I read one article awhile ago about rekindling passion in relationships. It tells a lot what a man and woman really needs about each other. You are right. Being with me is not enough. I also have an aching need to feel it. I really don't...

6 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie That's what she always tell me. "Don't dwell on the past." Like what I mentioned earlier from the first comment... there are signs which are very difficult for me just take for granted.

6 May 10

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 6 May 10

My wife and I have been together for quite some time now. We've been through a lot already. But somehow whenever I hear about her ex-fiance, I still feel really insecure right into the pit of my stomach. I know I shouldn't be...

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melloncollie One question still remains... what if she just married me because I'm the one who's always AROUND?

6 May 10

umit_umit @umit_umit (1984) • India 5 May 10

well i was shocked when i saw my cousin being beaten by her husband!!after he was drunk abused and hit her!!she told me not to call 100 or women cell!she say next time!whatever may be the reason but one shoul not assault the other...

100no

time to call

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melloncollie Nice to know all is well umit! Good job for being 3 things now... a good citizen, a concerned relative, and of course... a helpful person.

6 May 10

umit_umit @umit_umit (1984) • India 5 May 10

what all of you have to say in this concept the marriages based on the adjustments are false and fickle!!they break very soon as the true nature of the poerson thinking to be an adjustment shows the true colour one day!!what do...

adjustments

break

marriages

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melloncollie Yep.. and once it becomes easier for us to be able to relate what we feel then without hesitations we can already tell our partners why we need to go out with our friends once in a while. Or why we constantly wake them up for a quickie. Because...

6 May 10

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8108) • Philippines 3 May 10

[i]Every beginning has an end... [/i] Perhaps every one of us is expecting for a happy ending. But somehow there are mix... Happiness and sorrow. A love that doesn't last may be not pure after...

break up

mature content

pure love

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melloncollie That's the best way I know how to handle heartbreaks. It works for me. I just don't know if it would work for others. I try my best to savor the feeling. If I'm hurt, I embrace pain. If a window opens for me to smile even for just a while... I seize it. At the...

6 May 10

redhotpogo @redhotpogo (4401) • United States 4 May 10

If two people really love each other, but just can't seem to make things work, when is enough enough?

couple

love

relationship

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melloncollie Yeah.. I guess you're right. I still wouldn't know when enough is enough. One tough question. Like asking ourselves, "How do we know if we are already giving too much not to leave ourselves some pride?" Phew! You got me thinking there buddy!

6 May 10

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 3 May 10

Do you have your proper diet everyday? A balanced diet is one that includes all the food groups of the food pyramid.We should then base our daily diet in moderate intake.Some maybe a meat lover,seafood and vegetable. I cannot...

food

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melloncollie Yess cloudie... It is really, really hot in here. I sure am glad it started drizzling a bit.

6 May 10

bonnie @bunnybon7 (50973) • Holiday, Florida 4 May 10

I know this is funny coming from a woman but i have to see what my friends say about this. Last week my friend said her fiance told her she better not let herself go after marriage, as men are always concerned that...

beauty

thinker

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melloncollie Wow. Honestly bunnybon7, that's a great lesson that I have picked up over the years dating several women. "Never go for the one that turns my head around." Yes. They always end up to be the boring ones. Or the one without brains. No offense...

6 May 10

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