nicole84

@nicole84 (31)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How long are your responses? Do you worry that they are sometimes too long?

brokentia @brokentia (10389) • United States 22 Jan 07

I know sometimes I am not in the mood to read. This is not good when I am on myLot and find that I do not get much done of those days. But then there are other days that I not only read but I write a lot. Not just a lot of...

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nicole84 I typically try to write at least three or more sentences. Often they can run together but i think that is ok. The answers that are excessively long i usually do not read. I think that 3-8 sentences is usually enough to convey your thoughts accurately

22 Jan 07

do you think that your life is worth living?

suzyangel08 @suzyangel08 (616) • United States 22 Jan 07

i surely do... i hope you too:)

living

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nicole84 absolutely, life is about fulfilling a quest, whatever your quest may be. I am trying to fill my life with as much fun and learning as possible and i hope others are too.

22 Jan 07

Are kids' birthday parties getting out of hand?

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 22 Jan 07

I was just reading a recent news article about a family that went all out trying to put together a ballerina themed birthday party for their child. This mother drove all over town trying to get together figurines for her...

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nicole84 Your right, people do get out of hand for their childrens parties. Parents need to remember that it is not about how much gifts they get or if the theme is right , it should be about showing love to the child and letting them know that this is an important day...

22 Jan 07

What song are you listening to at the moment? Why?

Craig747 @Craig747 (488) 21 Jan 07

What song are you listening to at the moment? Give us the title and artist. Why are you listening to it? Is it because you just bought the new album, or is it becuase you are sad and the song cheers you up? It could be that...

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nicole84 The album i am listening to mostly now is Damien Rices 9. It is a beautiful collection of songs and i listen to is daily. It conjures up emotions inside of me that usually remain hidden and his voices just puts me at ease.It makes me daydream and any music...

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Depression. Do you ever feel the need to end your life?

pix_trix @pix_trix (447) • India 22 Jan 07

Life is a roller-coaster ride. we all experience the ups and downs. the ups are generally handled very sportingly, but when we face the downs-- thats where the problem starts. it starts off with being irritated with everything.....

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nicole84 I felt that way alot during my teen years and i sought medical help for myself. I was prescribed prozac and after a while i didnt need it anymore. now i am not saying that prozac is the answer for you but seeking professional help is a good way to start your...

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Childbirth... Natural vs. C-Section

miteemiget @miteemiget (31) • United States 22 Jan 07

I am absolutely scared to death to have a natural delivery. Although I do plan to have an epidural. I also plan to ask my Dr, if I have a choice, or if c-section is a last resort only.... I've been told that it's not childbirth...

childbirth

delivery

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nicole84 i was born through c-section and it is still childbirth. You are right the miracle is the baby not how it comes out. I am scared to have natural delivey too and i think that c-sections are the way to go. My mother tried to do the natural way the first time and...

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Time has been our friend

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 29 Aug 21

Well, I don't know when I last posted about my son's case, and I don't feel like looking, but this is one situation where delays caused by Covid and other things have been our friend. He had a district attorney appointed who had...

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nicole84 Well, I don't know when I last posted about my son's case, and I don't feel like looking, but this is one situation where delays caused by Covid and other things have been our friend. He had a district attorney appointed who had a Brady violation in his prior...

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Are you jealous of the time your significant other spends with his gaming system

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 22 Jan 07

I've found lately that nothing irritates me more than when my husband is playing his video games (playstation or pc games in our house). He will sit for 3 or more hours totally engulfed in the game. Nothing seems to be...

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nicole84 Oh yeah I have experienced that plenty. Boys love their game time and sometimes nothing can get them out of it. I have tried saying naughty things in hopes of peaking his attention but in the end i got tired of playing second fiddle. The relationship didnt...

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The weatherman said we´d have sun tomorrow.

marguicha @marguicha (223863) • Chile 28 Aug 21

After a week or more of rain or gray skies, tomorrow we will have sun. And the first thing that I will do tomorrow is to prepare a load of clothes for the washing machine. I have a couple of garments that need a "hand treatment"...

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nicole84 After a week or more of rain or gray skies, tomorrow we will have sun. And the first thing that I will do tomorrow is to prepare a load of clothes for the washing machine. I have a couple of garments that need a "hand treatment" before I dump them in the...

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I think it is better if the guys are older than the girls in a relationship

platinumsinger2007 @platinumsinger2007 (29) • Philippines 22 Jan 07

I think it is better if the man is older than the woman because men should do the decision making and they should be the wall of the relationship. If girls are older than the guys, they tend to be control freak. Then they come out...

men should be older

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nicole84 a relationship should not be about who is the leader, in fact i believe that a relationship is an equal partnership. Maybe having an older guys is good because they are more mature (i hope) but i know that i dont need someone else to make my decisions for me.

22 Jan 07

Mylot Question, Why Can't We Edit Our Discussions?

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 22 Jan 07

I published a discussion last night for a gift in a jar recipe and forgot one of the most important ingredients. I had to email or other wise contact everyone on who commented on the discussion with the corrected version. This...

mylot

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nicole84 i have found many times where i needed to change something on a post but realized it too late. I also know that sometimes a person changes their opinion on something so it is important to be able to change or delete something you post. Maybe if enough people...

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Color of your wedding gown

jessmtiu @jessmtiu (251) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

Would you prefer the traditional white gown or something entirely different and eye-catching? My wedding gown was made in ivory and had a long train and cathedral veil. Everyone said it was a beautiful gown. I agree 100%. I know...

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nicole84 I myself would prefer a white dress with some color added to it, In my mind i see a white dress with a pale yellow bottom and a pink ribbon. I know many people like to keep it traditional but i love color too much to exclude it from such a happy moment.

22 Jan 07

Halo halo in the morning

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 17 Mar 21

Good morning~ not really fond of halo halo because of the beans, but this one doesn't have. we got it because it was so hot. Halo halo for breakfast.

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nicole84 Good morning~ not really fond of halo halo because of the beans, but this one doesn't have. we got it because it was so hot. Halo halo for breakfast.

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The Divorce Letter!

penny78256 @penny78256 (288) • United States 19 Jan 07

I don't know if this has been posted here before or not i couldn't find it and thought it was cute so thought i'd post it to give someone a laugh it is long. Dear Husband, I'm writing you this letter to tell you that i'm...

jamacia

joke

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nicole84 That is great! I love how it works out for the husband at the end. This is a good example of how it all can go wrong!!

20 Jan 07

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Who's got an album from Damien Rice?

jajatisalgoe @jajatisalgoe (646) • Belgium 16 Jan 07

Are there people who have already bought an album of Damien Rice, so yes, which one?I've got the old one 'O', it's very good, don't have the money to buy the new one yet. Which one do you have? And which one is the best you...

damien rice

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nicole84 I have O , B-sides, and the new album 9. i absolutely love all of them. If you buy b-sides be sure to expect something a little different for damien rice but also a few different versions of a song from O. 9 is also beautiful and completely enchanting.

18 Jan 07

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I Cut Back on Smoking!

blogyourself @blogyourself (1577) • United States 18 Jan 07

I'm so happy!!! I usually smoke about a pack of cigarettes each day, but not this week. The funny part is that I had no intention to cut back at all. Instead, my goals were to drink more water and exercise. Well, because I am...

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nicole84 good for you. it sounds like a reallyhealthy way to kick the habit.

18 Jan 07

Do shops like Walmart and Starbucks kill local business?

ugachaka @ugachaka (297) • United States 18 Jan 07

I had an economics professor who refused to step foot inside a Walmart because of the detrimental effect it had on local ma and pa operations. There is a Walmart being built just down the road from me, but a bunch of shops lining...

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nicole84 In some places a walmart can bring employment and money into the community but it should be up to the community to decide if they want to bring in a huge corporation that may eventually shut down local operations. Its a double edged sword.

18 Jan 07

Is Jessica Simpon hotter than Shakira ?

nishikanta @nishikanta (607) • India 18 Jan 07

i like jessica simpson, her music is too good to listen. her latest video is great.

music

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nicole84 shakira is way hotter than jessica simpson. she looks great and she can dance circles around jessica simpson

18 Jan 07