nikkitanae

@nikkitanae (35)

United States • Age 46

Joined myLot 12 years ago

The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook.

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jealousy

angelwithkids @angelwithkids (1256) • United States 19 Feb 13

I'm at the point that I'm beginning to dislike my son's g/f. She went through his phone behind his back. She found a text message between him and another friend. In it, he tells the other friend that he missed her and that he said...

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nikkitanae Depending on how old your son is we as mothers need to step back and let our kids make there own choices. Yes. You can talk to them and let them know your thoughts. But that is ALL we can do. It hurts to see through "our eyes" what we wish our kids "could see"...

5 Mar 13

feeling sad, because I lost an exam ;(

alilin28 @alilin28 (1527) • Uruguay 5 Mar 13

dont you ever feel sad when you lost an exam in your studing time? an important exam??? The only thing I will do, would be study more and more.

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nikkitanae Dont allow situations to bring you down. Always remember that, "things happen for a reason". Sometimes things happen to better ourselves. To learn from them. To grow from them. Never beat yourself up over things. Move forward and look ahead. Ask yourself: What...

5 Mar 13

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If a total stranger asked you for money, would you give it to them?

Karen Waterson @rosekiss (30414) • Eugene, Oregon 5 Mar 13

hi everyone: This question came to my mind when today, leaving Walmart, a man stopped me, and aske me if I could give him some money for bus fare. I told him that I don't keep money on me, but even if i did have any, not sure i...

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nikkitanae Helping people is great. When it comes to moeny people shy away from it because (like you said) you dont want to put it into there hands for them to do drugs or whatever with it. You could have given him a ride, or called a male relative/friend to see if they...

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when we don't have any one else to turn to but God

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 4 Mar 13

This is the kind of feeling or situation I don't want to get but i do found myself in that position a lot of times. Like now my few friends are out of touch. One had relocated in far place already as his parents wished so he can...

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nikkitanae NO MATTER WHAT you should always turn to God. Whether you are up or whether you are down. People get to a place in there life when they come to realize they need God, only to call on him when things arent going good with money, friends, jobs, basically the...

5 Mar 13

Pray, not Worry!

devonavis @devonavis (1854) • Greece 28 Feb 13

Do you worry that much? Do you pray? Do you pray instead of worrying? Worrying indicates that we are trying to solve our problems on our own. On the other hand, praying is an indication of our faith in God. When we pray, we...

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nikkitanae I like this! This is awesome! I teach my kids that God is in control of EVERYTHING. That their is no one above Him. Not even ONE!! God allows things to happen in our life to show US what kind of spirit we have that is not from God and to pray over that spirit...

28 Feb 13

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i don't want to hire you back

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 27 Feb 13

i had a student last year who was not good with her job duties. she was on a student grant so i kept her on just because of that. she keeps emailing me asking to come back this summer. not sure how to politely say you were a...

work

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nikkitanae If have to be honest with her. She will not go away until you sit down with her and BE HONEST. Tell her whats going on. That she wasnt great at her job. Honesty goes a long way. Maybe she doesnt know this about herself. Ask her if she KNEW what she was doing...

28 Feb 13

should you give up when you find yourself in such situation

susan0908 @susan0908 (14) • China 27 Feb 13

Should you give up when you find yourself in such situation you can't make any progress in doing something even if you tried,how can you go through so many difficulties you have to face?would you choose to hold on or drop?

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nikkitanae Hey Susan. You would hold on of course! If you drop, then you have given up.... My daughter recently signed up to play basketball (only because she had a new pair of jordan sneakers). Once she was in the game (for the first time), she realized that she...

28 Feb 13

going in an hour early

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 27 Feb 13

I read the schedule wrong went in an hour early. I ended up coming back home for the hour it's a 7 minute drive home, and another back. I forgot my phone charger as well, I usually sit on my phone when no customers are around (I...

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nikkitanae Atleast its a 7 minute drive back and forth. My husband drives about an hour and 20 mintue to and from. I always take my charger with me. Oneday my car stopped working while I was taking my kids to school. I was fortunate to pull over to a good spot. Called to...

27 Feb 13

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I WiSh I Could SeW!

momalisa65 @momalisa65 (1971) • United States 27 Feb 13

I would be so happy if I could sew, and make my own clothes... things that would fit, and were made just for me... out of material that I like. When they taught us how to sew in home-ec at school, I always broke the sewing...

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nikkitanae I would love it and it would save me money. Using that sewing machine would save me money on clothes and blankets, socks, etc. I can use a needle, but the machine? NOT! lol I read on yahoo how this husband and wife live on 14, 000 a year. By doing this, they...

27 Feb 13

Breaking A Habit (Part 3)

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 26 Feb 13

Well, my friends ,I've made it another day without smoking! *pat on the back* I still get the urges to light up a cigarette first thing in the morning, after I've eaten and while I'm waiting for the internet to load. Yesterday,...

exercising

quit smoking

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nikkitanae I really do applaud you on quitting! Im 34 now, but I used to smoke. I stopped about 10 years ago maybe 12. I started smoking because the guy I was dating at the time had me stressed out. We were living together and he smoked. So I smoked. We were living with...

27 Feb 13

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Have you ever missed out calculating your budget?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 26 Feb 13

I really have budgeted my money and thought it would really be quite alright to spend a little for something. hay i think I have miscalculated my own money and have gone about $20 over budget starting April. I hate it when I have...

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nikkitanae My husband and i just started budgeting the money coming in. We went to MINT.COM. This allowed us to add our bank accounts and credit cards to it so that we could see where all our moeny is going. Not using cash and just using our debit/credit cards to keep...

27 Feb 13

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