nkfengshan

@nkfengshan (33)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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girl's best friend.. diamonds?

tigeraunt @tigeraunt (6326) • Philippines 4 Sep 10

dont get me wrong. but i always see that phrase and sentence. do you really think it is true? how about girls without a diamond..does that mean they dont have best friend? i find it not true. although diamonds maybe expensive.....

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nkfengshan Diamond is a symbol of fortune. No money, no happiness. Diamond is not the best friend, but money is.

5 Sep 10

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life changing decisions - how do you handle them?

jd107nette @jd107nette (1454) • Philippines 4 Sep 10

everyday, we ought to makes decisions which will end up changing our lives in the future... some of these decisions - the major major ones - form what we will be. in making decisions i know we have to seek for the correct...

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nkfengshan Going ahead is the best way when you get confused. Nobody can get the best answer before the result appears. I prefer regretting for having done to for not having done.

5 Sep 10

Are you afraid of death?

getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 3 Sep 10

Hi, Death is as real as birth. For one who is born, death is quite inevitable. We can't avoid death. All we can do is to pray so that we may die in peace. In Norse Mythology those who die in violence go to heaven. In ancient...

death

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nkfengshan I am afraid of death for I having not create anything. Life between birth and death is a period of time. During the period, one who get more will face death quietly.

5 Sep 10

Rich relatives.Do they help you?

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 31 Aug 10

It's nice to have rich relatives, especially when you struggle to pay the bills.I don't have rich relatives, or I was never introduced to them.(What a shame).Do you have rich relatives?Do they help you when you're in...

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nkfengshan I think it is right to keep in touch with rich relatives and rich friend. They can help you in urgency. But like you, there are no such people around me.

1 Sep 10

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at what age did you started working?

lilmuchang @lilmuchang (261) • France 28 Aug 10

I am feeling very old right now, I am 24 and I have yet started my career. I am still a student, struggling to get my Master, and longing to enroll myself in the adult life. So eager to earn money, and be rich!! Get a house, with...

career

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nkfengshan I started my career at age 25. For some reasons, I am 3 years older than my classmates. So I fell it's too late when I enroll myself in the adult life. But regertting is only a way to waste time, of no use. You cannot change the past. What you can do is...

29 Aug 10

rich become poor

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 28 Aug 10

What will happen tomorrow, we will not know. Life is full of question marks. If now we are rich, we do not know if tomorrow still rich. If you are in a position as a rich man, and for any reason you become poor. How you feeling?...

poor

rich

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nkfengshan Make an insurance plan when you are rich. If you were poor tommorrow, you would benefit form it.

29 Aug 10

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Should there be a limit how many discussions you can post on myLot per day?

T_Diamond @T_Diamond (965) • New Zealand 28 Aug 10

Correct me if I'm wrong, but is there a limit how many discussions one can post per day? If there is a limit, should it be lowered/raised? I know several mylotters here who start 10+ discussions a day. In...

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nkfengshan According to Pareto Principle, 20% users commit 80% discussions. It's unfair to set a limitation on the number of discussions one post per day.

29 Aug 10

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The biggest change in your life.

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 27 Aug 10

I don't think that there is a single person in the world that hasn't been impacted by the downturn that the worldwide economy has faced in the last several years. That said, I would really like to know what the biggest change that...

changes

new lifestyle

recession

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nkfengshan I am sorry to say you are wrong. Many people have not been impacted by the downturn of economy. The government has the power to control the whole country. Nothing is out of control.

28 Aug 10

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A hero who become a criminal is a hero or a criminal?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 27 Aug 10

I just want to ask one thing. You are a hero fireman. You save 500 people in a burning hotel. Half of your body get burned. Now your country give you medal and honor but nothing more. You can't work as a fireman anymore because...

hero or criminal

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nkfengshan system criminal. A hero would become a criminal under bad system. A criminal would bceome a hero under good system.

28 Aug 10

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Have you ever over came a fear?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 27 Aug 10

I have lots of fears; spiders, heights, people, driving, etc. and I haven't over come my fear for any of these, rather some are fairly new fears. The only fear I've over come in life is my fear of the dark... and ghosts (as long...

fear

overcome

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nkfengshan Since I watch the teleplay Dwelling Narrowness. I have fear about my futere. I want to live in a big house.

28 Aug 10

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how to earn money through blogging?

bevz_28 @bevz_28 (42) • Philippines 27 Aug 10

i like to blog, but I wanna maximize on that like... other than mylot, are there other websites for these?

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nkfengshan I want to visit your blog. Could you pls tell me the web address?

28 Aug 10

Disappear with the flood

kevinll @kevinll (967) • China 25 Aug 10

We often heard that many people complained about their life. They have more desire can can not satisfy us all. Recenetly I heard many news about floods. Such as floods have isolated about 800,000 people in Pakistan who are now...

life

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nkfengshan Why people have so much desire? Because rich would be saved first in the flood.

25 Aug 10

Money makes everything....REALLY?

thebest1 @thebest1 (658) • Romania 24 Aug 10

It was an old song,remember? "Money makes the world go round"-i don't remember who sings it. But is it? Money are everything in this world? Ok,I know,power is to the people who have money...but I would like that these people at...

life

make money

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nkfengshan When you have more than 100 million dollars, money is only a symbol. Bill Gates said. However, if you don't have 100 million dollars, money makes everything. So, if you don't know what to do, go to get more money.

25 Aug 10

Giving too much importance to people ...

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 24 Aug 10

[b]In any relationship it does happen that sometimes we get carried away and end up by giving far too much importance to certain people in our lives than they actually deserve. When we look back later only we realise that we have...

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nkfengshan I am sorry to say that I cannot agree with you. It's good to give more and expect less. A chinese adage says: just take acts of charity without caring the future.

25 Aug 10

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Will you take a job to write articles for a web site?

wazaaa @wazaaa (185) • Bulgaria 24 Aug 10

Will you take a job to write articles for a website and wait for the site to start earning, so you can take the half of it's earnings. So my question is will you invest time for writing articles and wait 1-2 months for the site to...

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nkfengshan Wonderful! With time and artiles, you are able to be one shareholder of this website. Maybe there is to be a big fortune waiting for you.

25 Aug 10

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Would you travel far just to see your lover?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 20 Aug 10

Let's say you leave in 2 different parts of the world, lol, will you travel far just to see your lover? What was the craziest thing you've ever done just to prove your love? I've seen and heard some craziest love...

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nkfengshan Well, the farthest distance between my lover and me is Tianjin to Shenzhen, which takes 26 hours for a single trip by train. But this has already passed. Now she is in Quzhou and I am in Shenzhen. The trip from Quzhou to Shenzhen is 14 hours by train. We...

24 Aug 10

To Whom shall you open your heart?

shiyam06 @shiyam06 (2) • India 5 Aug 10

Hi, We all have our restrictions in sharing our personal things with certain people. We believe they will keep it secret and also we will get opinions or guidance in inthings we cannot share in general. So share your thought to...

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nkfengshan My friends often open his/her heart to me. But never do I.

24 Aug 10