oceaneyedgrl

@oceaneyedgrl (15)

United States • Age 37

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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The Wrong Day Care

zac1117 @zac1117 (12) 26 Mar 11

When it came time to put my son in day care I didn't thank much about it. I never thought anything bad would ever come from it. My wife and I did not take the time to research the day care she was referred to by a co-worker. That...

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oceaneyedgrl I am so sorry to hear that you and your family have experienced this kind of behavior from someone you entrusted the care of your child to! It is so sad, and I hope that your child did not have any long standing issues from his experience, and if so, I hope...

30 Jul 11

What are your thoughts on child caregivers?

oceaneyedgrl @oceaneyedgrl (15) • United States 30 Jul 11

I work in the child care profession. I have learned in my experience that a lot of people have different views about this. Some really believe that we make a difference in the lives of children and also their parents. But, I have...

child care

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sids

oceaneyedgrl @oceaneyedgrl (15) • United States 29 Jul 11

How many of you know what SIDS stands for, do you know what it is, do you know the precautions that you can take to help prevent it? Have you experienced it? What is some information you can share, what can you do to spread the...

sids

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oceaneyedgrl you are right, there is nothing for sure that you can do to prevent SIDS. Without knowing a true cause, how can you know a definite way to prevent? BUT, there are precautions you can take that MAY lessen the risk. Thank you for your response, and also for your...

30 Jul 11

sids

oceaneyedgrl @oceaneyedgrl (15) • United States 29 Jul 11

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Would you still pursue a person you like even if he/she is already attached?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 29 Jul 11

By attached, i mean that the person is currently in a relationship.. but of course not married. I mean i have heard quite a lot of third party reasons for break up and i wonder why would this happen if people who knew that...

cheating

relationships

third party

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oceaneyedgrl As far as the third person goes, it is pure selfishness! You wouldn't want someone pursuing your boyfriend/girlfriend right? So, why would you do it to someone else? A phrase to always remember in this situation is, "If he/she will leave the one they are...

29 Jul 11

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What do you think it happens to one that comitted suicide?

katie0 @katie0 (5203) • Japan 29 Jul 11

I believe that it's not something that can be choosen by us: death. That we have to wait for the right time to go but we can't take our life. What do you think it happens to one that comitted suicide? I think one wonder around...

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oceaneyedgrl In my religion, we have a very forgiving God! But, you must ask for his forgiveness and truly repent. Suicide is the ultimate sin, not only have you took it upon yourself to destroy the gift that He gave you (life) but, you can never ask for forgiveness. So, I...

29 Jul 11

Lately, I want to spend time at home alone, is that unhealthy?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 28 Jul 11

I got a several missed calls from my good friends, and a couple of voice messages wants me to call back. When I want to call back and pick up my cell phone, I change my mind again. I was thinking, what I should talk to them about?...

alone

friend

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oceaneyedgrl It's always good to have some alone time!! Everyone needs a break from the world sometimes. Yes that includes good friends and family. I think everyone is guilty of ignoring a few phone calls and texts from time to time. Lol, my favorite thing to say is oh, im...

29 Jul 11

making friends and how to use this

raiyen_yurka @raiyen_yurka (6) • Philippines 27 Jul 11

hello.. im just new and i like to make some friends here... and anyone there could guide me how to use this one?.. thanks!

about mylot

friends

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oceaneyedgrl Can someone please tell me how to start a discussion? Lol I'm new, and I know how to respond to discussions, but, can not figure out how to start one?!! Thank you!!

28 Jul 11

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How unaware we are of the effect our childhood has

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 28 Jul 11

What brought this to my mind was watching a video on how the things that went on in our family effected my attitude toward many things in my life. Money was the subject in this video and I was asked to return to the first event in...

parenting

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oceaneyedgrl This is so very true. But, I believe that it is a very complex topic. I grew up in a very broken home. My childhood consisted of mental and physical abuse at the hands of my parents. They were drug addicts, we were poor. I had to skip school to care for my 3...

28 Jul 11

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when your friend is dating someone not worth it, what will you tell her?

sakurabella @sakurabella (12) • Philippines 28 Jul 11

I have a friend whose boyfriend is, on my opinion, not worth it. he doesn't allow my friend to add male friends in facebook. he orders her to go home directly after office. He doesn't allow her to mingle for a few hours with her...

sharing opinions

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oceaneyedgrl Well, first of all, I would like to say that your friends boyfriend is showing the first signs of becoming and abusive boyfriend. Controlling her is just the first step, later it will lead to him "punishing" her when she disobeys him. Unfortunatly, the fact...

28 Jul 11