pinkfray

@pinkfray (24)

Age 35

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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How much should a sale associate "assist" you while you are shopping (clothing)

devildog683 @devildog683 (74) • United States 1 Sep 10

My wife and I run a clothing store. I have always wondered how much people want to be assisted when they enter the store. I usually just give them a greeting and leave it at that. I know when I go to the mall, I hate it when the...

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pinkfray someone to greet you by the door and let you know his/her name, and that he/she is available if you need help is good enough. also, i appreciate the ones who inform you which section is on sale, where the new arrivals are, etc. small talk is good, makes...

2 Sep 10

Is it unhealthy to drink cold drinks everyday?

yoursjannat @yoursjannat (839) • India 1 Sep 10

Hey MyLotters, This is a serious issue.My sister's child has become fond of drinking cold drink.Whenever he figures out a tag "Coca cola" being written on it,he sceams like hell like "Mummyyyy,Coca,Coca,Coca....",meaning he wants...

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pinkfray my nephew had his own coca cola phase wherein he was ADDICTED to it. that was when he was turning three. my aunts decided to introduce him to chocolate milkshake (actually, milkshakes of different flavours and colours) and since then he loved it! i know it's...

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do u ever hold your girlfriend purse ?

aayaan001 @aayaan001 (29) • Singapore 1 Sep 10

is it really looks bad to hold ur girlfrind bag .. i dont think so my hubby holds my bag so many times he never complainss...

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pinkfray i'd like to answer for my boyfriend (LOL!) i asked him this question once for he never seems to be bothered at being seen holding a really girly bag. he said that as long as i am with him, that people see him with a purse in my presence, he couldn't care...

2 Sep 10

How do you feel about establishments who says something about your tips?

jennbart @jennbart (1330) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

There are parlors, salons and other facial centers, spa's that say something sarcastic things when you tip them. How do you feel about them? Do you still come and visit them after that?

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pinkfray as long as they're not making it mandatory to tip i'm not complaining :)

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Guys meeting gals and the way that times have changed.

crazydaisy @crazydaisy (3896) • Canada 1 Sep 10

Isn't it sad how sometimes a guy can't even buy a gal drink without them saying; Hey, are you trying pick me up, or what?"...or... How sad it is that a guy can't even whistle at a gal without her getting upset? Have times...

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pinkfray the way i was brought up my parents instilled in me fear of getting too physically close to a stranger. perhaps it's in my asian culture? add to that, i've seen a lot of violence on tv. there's always something bad going on somewhere, and often facts are...

2 Sep 10

should I go apart with her?

hbsztsyx @hbsztsyx (85) • China 1 Sep 10

I have a girlfriend who is very nice to me expect for sometimes her unreasonable angry. After many times discussions, she swears not be that again. However, it roots in his character and not so easy to change, it happens again ans...

love

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pinkfray it's up to you. it's not for us to decide which direction your relationship with her goes. you're the only one who knows if you truly wanna break up, or if you wanna keep the relationship and work things out with her. you've been together for three years so...

1 Sep 10

Using the Foot to Flush the Toilet

kyel_11 @kyel_11 (1069) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Are you also doing the same thing especially in public toilets like in malls or other establishments? I remembered that my mother taught me to use my foot in flushing the toilet when i was still a kid. She said that the handle of...

flush toilet

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pinkfray i do that too, giving the toilet a lil footsie

1 Sep 10

how many languages do you have to use in your daily life????

abj163 @abj163 (1037) • India 31 Aug 10

i have to use 3 languages in my daily life.....marathi my mother tongue language at my home .....hindi indian national language with friends....and english in my professional life means in my college and on mylot,internet...

languages life daily home national friends

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pinkfray i'm only fluent in two languages: english and filipino. there's also a dialect in the filipino language that i speak and that's bicolano. so english when i'm out with friends filipino when i'm with my filipino friends bicolano when i'm with my parents

1 Sep 10

How will you feel if you made your mother cry?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Our mother took care of us when we us ever since her egg and our dad's sperm fertilized.., it isn't easy to carry us nine whole months.., and have to endure the aping of giving birth and staying awake really late just to make sure...

hurting our mother

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pinkfray it's heartbreaking. i already saw her cry and it hurt me to the point where i almost reached out to hug her. don't call me cold-hearted or ungrateful, but my brothers and i, we're not one to expose sympathy to my mom through physical affections. sure, we love...

1 Sep 10

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Are there homosexuals in mosquitoes?Can it stop dengue mosguito?

berting600 @berting600 (3453) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

As I read in a daily newspaper,that the Department of Health has find a way to stop the spread of the deadly dengue disease caused by these mosquitoes infected by the dengue virus.I do not know how effective the health...

homosexual mosquito

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pinkfray interesting. it might stop the spread of dengue by preventing copulation between heteros. Lawl

1 Sep 10

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I'm not flirting!!!

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5876) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

I wrote an article of the actual conversation this family man had with a woman he met in FACEBOOK. But he claimed he wasn't flirting at all... I'm not sure... Men, I need your views over this matter. Wives, do you agree with...

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pinkfray i think he was flirting. but the other party was entertaining, so that might be considered flirting as well?? idk..! o.o

1 Sep 10

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Mass Hiring

kyel_11 @kyel_11 (1069) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

My friend told me that there's a mass hiring in a particular company. I am thinking the possibility of applying in the company. However, the company is just far away from our home. Traveling everyday would be exhausting and...

mass hiring

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pinkfray if the expense of boarding or renting a house/apartment/room and traveling outweighs your gain, which is your wage, then i think it's not practical. but if you're only going for the experience, go for it! and you can always definitely decline an offer :) good...

1 Sep 10

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what you think about the law against using mobile while driving a vehicle?

aayaan001 @aayaan001 (29) • Singapore 1 Sep 10

driving required focus and your little wrong move can cost your life so its very risky i completely support this law

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pinkfray it's life-saving. drives phone companies to create more advanced phones. drives car companies to integrate mobile phones into the...dashboard...? (sorry, i have a limited knowledge when it comes to car parts)

1 Sep 10

which is the better way to improve communicative English?

sinaj292 @sinaj292 (602) • India 31 Aug 10

Nowadays it is a must thing that we need a good communication skill before going to get a good job..... am a graduate..... i studied in malayalam medium.. so am not very good in english.... but am able to do with english..... now...

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pinkfray when i wasn't fluent in english i would converse with myself, in the privacy of my room of course LOL. it may sound dumb but that was the best way for me to learn the language. however, pre-recording and then correcting mistakes is a good way of practicing and...

1 Sep 10

When do nice guy turns bad?

DenverLC @DenverLC (1143) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Do you think well breed individuals can turn into bad guys? What do you think may be the best reason/s?

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pinkfray i don't think there are guys who are absolutely bad (as there is always something in all of us), or evil, but only when they commit socially unacceptable actions do they become "bad"..right? right? and they turn into "bad guys" when they're imposing themselves...

1 Sep 10

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long distance relationship

rhinarea @rhinarea (311) 1 Sep 10

does long distance relationship last? my boy friend and i are in our 7 years and 5 months of being together and this September 15 he will go to Singapore for work i'm sad because of he will not gonna be here when i need him, but...

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pinkfray you guys are in your 7th year relationship and through those years you have hopefully gotten to know each other. trust has hopefully been planted so there must be no reason fo you to ponder if long distance relationship works. as you mentioned, his leaving to...

1 Sep 10

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How do you deal with these kind of people?

magojordan @magojordan (3252) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Most of the time at work, most of my officemates are really talking too loudly and they seldom disregard that some people are trying to concentrate on their work. Problem is on my last performance rating, I was commented on not...

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pinkfray i had a similar issue at my previous work where all were chit-chatting and gossiping on matters that weren't relevant in the work place. i was even thought of as a snub because i was focusing on getting the job done. i wanted to talk to my peers about this,...

1 Sep 10

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Are you still friends with your Ex?

ktmatunog @ktmatunog (912) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

we are. my friends say that you should not be friends anymore. because of the reasons that your heart might hurt more and to make you heart completely healed. but it depends on your current boy/girlfriend, it depends on you...

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pinkfray i dated two guys in the past. the first one i'm friends with, but the second one i'm not. i can't say one relationship differed from the other, or that one break up was handled differently from the other because they were fairly equally treated. for me at...

1 Sep 10

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