Polgara

@Polgara (31)

Germany • Age 45

Joined myLot 12 years ago

The Sorceress

findyouronlinejob.blogspot.com/

Polgara's Activity

Anti virus programs

jenrl17 @jenrl17 (420) • United States 28 Mar 12

I would like to know, what is a really good antivirus program out there. I realize no program, whether it be antivirus, malware, spyware, etc is 100% proof, but I am looking for a really good one, one that catches the hardest...

10 responses •

2 people

Polgara As someone who has been married to a programmer/administrator, I surely know which AV is the best there is. Kaspersky Internet Security is the number one, and every IT professional uses it. It is the stronges AV there is, protecting you not only from viruses...

28 Mar 12

•

1 comment

busy boyfriend..

scorpio04 @scorpio04 (84) • Philippines 28 Mar 12

hi..do you think i am a bad girlfriend?? if i am get angry to my boyfriend because he don't text me because he is so busy with their business..but i am not asked him to text me every seconds or every minutes just want him to text...

8 responses

Polgara Putting to much pressure on your boyfriend will not help you, or him, or your relationship. If he already has pressure at his work, he needs to be free of the pressure in his private life, and it is up to you to make it for him. You can tell him that you would...

28 Mar 12

•

2 comments

Is it Rght to Defend Yourself?

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 28 Mar 12

I'm asking this from the Christian perspective. Is it permissable to defend yourself if you feel you life is in danger? Should you defend someone who is vulnerable and weak from violence? What is your take on this?

16 responses •

4 people

Polgara As a Christian and devoted believer, I can tell you that it is alright to defend yourself when you are in danger of being abused and/or killed. Christians should once and for all understand one important fact about God: He had said: Work six days, and rest on...

28 Mar 12

•

1 comment

I texted my ex boyfriend an he replied an agreed to meet me. doest it means???

nicegilr @nicegilr (214) 27 Mar 12

I have been with my ex boyfriend for about 4 years an a half. but i broke up with him its been 4 month now. I miss him so much. He never call me , text me. But last night i text him and tell him that i miss him and that i want to...

30 responses •

7 people

Polgara It can mean that he still loves you and wants you back, but you cannot know it for sure before you meet him. You can only be sure that he wants to see you again. So, meet with him, have a talk and ask him. Then you will know for sure what he feels about you....

28 Mar 12

•

1 person

Have you ever heard of PayPerPostForum.com?

SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3527) • Davao, Philippines 26 Mar 12

Hello, MyLot money makers! I just found PayPerPostForum as I was looking for sites that pays you to post using the MyLot search bar... Actually, I already found it before but it just came to my notice now. And then, due to not...

6 responses

Polgara Well, for what I have heard, it is not a scam. If a site doesn´t ask you to pay a membership fee before you even get a chance to earn something, then they should be fine and safe to use. Never pay anything in advance, except when you are absolutely sure about...

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

Can people change ?

vertu007 @vertu007 (683) • Romania 26 Mar 12

People try to change, they try to be better, to work smarter, harder. Do you think people can change if they don't have a good reason, a tragedy, a revelation ?

15 responses •

2 people

Polgara Yes, people change, not always, and not easily, but they do change, for better or worse, depending on the person and circumstances. Life is a process of learning, or at least it should be. We learn something every day for the rest of our lives, and our lives...

26 Mar 12

How to add my paypal account here in mylot??

smilemoon @smilemoon (766) • United Arab Emirates 26 Mar 12

Hello, please tell me simply step by step how to add my paypal account?

4 responses

Polgara Click on Preferences on the top of the page to customize your profile. Once there, choose Payment Information tab. Fill in the blanks with your infos, confitm your PayPal email, and click the Update button. Let me know if it worked!

26 Mar 12

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Should I keep the relationship with them?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 24 Mar 12

Previously, they used to be our neighbors. We helped them a lot because of their difficult circumstances than we do. They have to feed two children and one of them sick. Now they have moved elsewhere. They sometimes call us....

life

neighbor

relationship

9 responses •

2 people

Polgara It is obvious that they have been using you. And maybe not only you, but other people as well. Now, when they have moved, you maybe should keep in touch with them, call them to ask them how they are, but carefully, don´t let them use you again. Or, you should...

26 Mar 12

•

1 person

is it necessary to use violence to educate your kids?

atwilson @atwilson (540) • Indonesia 25 Mar 12

kids are the next generation of the world. It is important to educate them from under age. but, is it neccesary to use violence? why?

5 responses •

1 person

Polgara A parent must discipline his child, that is for sure, but there are so many better ways to do it than violence. Violence is all together bad and wrong as a means of discipline. There is a huge difference between discipline and punishment, and violence has to...

25 Mar 12

•

1 comment

Vice of jealousy

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 19 Mar 12

I read in all books that jealousy is a state of uncertainty. That only those who are not in control of themselves and their qualities come to be jealous. Learn from books - and magazines doctor - if you know you're unique,...

5 responses

Polgara In your post you talk about two completely different feelings. Envy is not at all the same as jealousy. Jealousy has to do with love and being afraid that you might lose or share the person you love with somebody else. A boyfriend or a husband can be jealous...

21 Mar 12

How to change my avatar at MyLot?

Polgara @Polgara (31) • Germany 21 Mar 12

I don´t know if I am stupid or blind or what... I want to add a profile picture (or avatar) to my MyLot profile, but I don´t know how. I uploaded a picture I want to have as my avatar, but it shows only on my profile, and I don´t...

avatar

mylot

profile picture

1 response

Polgara Thanks a lot, as you can see, your How-to works ;) I am a memeber on so many forums and sites, but never have I had this particular problem... And when I know how to edit my avatar, then I can find the detailed explanation at FAQs, but this once, when I...

21 Mar 12

How to change my avatar at MyLot?

Polgara @Polgara (31) • Germany 21 Mar 12

1 response

Would you ever take back your boyfriend or husband who has cheated on you?

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I was reading a book that said that it's normal for a guy to cheat on you. Would you ever take him back if ever that happens? For me, I don' think I will take him back. I don't think I can do that. How about you guys?

boyfriend

cheater

relationships

43 responses •

6 people

Polgara A good question, Chloe. I was myself in the same situation when I divorced my ex husband because he was cheating me. I also asked myself the same question, and my answer was NO. And here´s why: Even if I could forgive that and take him back into my life, I...

21 Mar 12

•

1 person

Making Money Online

Brianad2012 @Brianad2012 (16) • United States 20 Mar 12

I understand there are no quick ways to make money online. But I have tried it all. Blogs: Hubpages, Triond, to Blogger. Answering Questions: Just answers, answer gem, to Webanswers. Rating/review sites: rate it all, epinions, to...

make real

money

online

20 responses •

1 person

Polgara Well, personally, I´ve been working for a couple of years now as a freelance translator, and in my experience, that is the best and the fastest way to earn money online, provided that you can speak two languages fluently. If you join a good translating site,...

21 Mar 12

Child Discipline - Spanking Acceptable form of Discipline?

bluepenguin77 @bluepenguin77 (30) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I have grown my childhood in '80s - and one way of discipline I have tasted was spanking from my parents. At my early age I don't have gasp the reason on why my parents would do that action every time I made some mistakes or don't...

15 responses •

1 person

Polgara Very hard words, Sherrybelle. Abuse??? Sorry, but there is really a big difference between spanking and abuse, even in the mind of a child, and I am speaking as one who were both spanked and abused in childhood. I never looked and I still never look at...

21 Mar 12

Is it wrong?

ats_gemelle @ats_gemelle (23) • Philippines 20 Mar 12

We've all done it and the person who says that he hasn't done one might be already dead or he must be some sort of alien from another galaxy. But the question that really bothers me is that why do i find it so hard to move on from...

mistake

wrong

4 responses •

1 person

Polgara Yeah, we all make mistakes, and honestly, I think we make mistakes more than we make the right things, as a matter of fact. After all, mistakes do not necessarily have to be bad and destructive. For example, the lightbulb was invented by mistake, and I have...

21 Mar 12

My Rules My Style

Toni @toniganzon (72281) • Philippines 20 Mar 12

For several years i've lived a life following certain rules. I had never broken any. Even as a child i was too scared to be different thinking I would be treated as an outcast. That was a sign of insecurity. As i grew older i...

life

rules

style

13 responses •

2 people

Polgara You are absolutely right, everyone should have their own personality and identity, and not just copy other people. Have you noticed that every famous artist, or singer, or composer, director, or any other creative and successful person, is rather "peculiar" so...

21 Mar 12

•

1 comment

•

1 person