rafichang

@rafichang (35)

China • Age 44

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have you watched transformers 3?

ludihu @ludihu (37) • China 28 Jul 11

have you ever watched transformers 3 or not? how do you think about this movie? I myself did't watch it yet, but I heard there are a lot of advertisements in the movie. Is it worth to spend money in the cinema theater?

movie

tansformers

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rafichang I dont like transformers. It seems like two giant robots performing wrestling

31 Jul 11

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what do you do to pass a sleepless night?

ludihu @ludihu (37) • China 26 Jul 11

i frequently suffered from insomnia. last night it just happened again. i dont know whtat to do. some time i get up and read a book or watch some tv. but normally i just felt too tired to do anything. i am a new one here. i am...

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rafichang try some yoga, some of that are specially helpful for going to sleep. it is useful for me anyway

27 Jul 11

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My Love Problem

Wyrus168 @Wyrus168 (131) • Malaysia 9 Apr 08

So, I'm into this girl, Esther Tay, the most beautiful being that I've ever seen. I've been falling in love to her, for like... 5 years, since the day I met her. I only talked to her a few times before, but I just do not have the...

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rafichang my suggestion is very simple- dont try to play,just be honest and ask her out. she will be moved if she feels your honest love

9 Apr 08

Broken hearted

lean_rose @lean_rose (262) • Philippines 10 Jul 07

Is there someone who doesn't experience being a broken hearted?I think none...right?We need to be broken apart to be whole again..in that way we learn a lot of things that would help us facing the problems that coming into our...

broken heart

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rafichang my herat had just been broken i dont want learn anything i just want to stop crying

10 Jul 07

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"It's better to have love and lost, than to have never loved at all."

jcvernz @jcvernz (477) • Philippines 10 Jul 07

Let's talk a little bit love this time around.Hey guys give your opinion/views on this.For me i do believe in this qoute.Id rather to love a person and if loving him by setting hime free then i would do it because that's how great...

lost

love

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rafichang well, but the hurt is so hard lasting so long sometimes, I would like to think maybe it would be better if i just didnot meet with him and love him

10 Jul 07

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What would you do if your husband/wife criticize your body?

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 9 Jul 07

A lot of people around the world are very conscious about the way they look. Some people (not all) regard obesity as something to be avoided because it will bring more negative effects than staying slim. A lot of hearts have been...

body shape

criticism

obesity

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rafichang no body is perfect, i think there are too many things more important than appearance. If he thinks the appearance is heavier than your relationship, then its really a big problem

9 Jul 07

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Do you think you are a lucky person?

mailovee @mailovee (265) • China 23 Apr 07

I think I'm a lucy person althoug not lucky to everything ,if you are lucky when you meet important things I think that's enough. I'm kind of like this when I apply for high school and college I get to get into better schools than...

people

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rafichang oh, dear, i bless you. i think i am just like your unlucky classmate.

24 Apr 07

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do you believe in luck and destiny

palpalsky @palpalsky (899) • United States 21 Mar 07

hey folks do you believe in luck or destiny ..do you think some are bron lucky while some no matter how hard work they do ..results are not upto the the mark

luck

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rafichang yeah, i totally agree with it. I just failed, but i dont blame myself, anyway, I have already tried my best. There is just a lack of a little bit luck. i am not a god, i can not create destiny for myself.i know it, altough can not help being sad...

24 Apr 07

It is not destiny that determines love, it is choice....

cheenlly @cheenlly (3476) • Philippines 23 Apr 07

This was caught my attention and somehow realize something. Perhaps if you read it, it will caught yours too. Its said that - It is not destiny that determines love, it is choice. Our so-called destiny is a lie. Relationships...

choice

destiny

love

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rafichang I bless all of you who believe in this. but for me, sometime, i have to give in my destiny.

24 Apr 07

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what do you do if you are allergic to penicillin?

bgerig @bgerig (1258) • United States 23 Apr 07

I am highly allergic to penicillin. What other medicines do you take instead of penicillin? I think I posted that question once before but did not receive a lot of response as I recall.....However, I do have a second question. I...

allergies

medicines

penicillin

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rafichang dont warry, i am also allergic to penicillin. every time when i need anti-biotics, my doctor always can find one for me.

24 Apr 07

Chewing with mouth open

engineous @engineous (396) • Australia 17 Apr 07

What do you think of people chewing or talking with their mouth open? Do you think this is a disgrace? My sister chews with her mouth open and I can not stand it! She sometimes makes these funny noises when she chews; but when her...

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rafichang I don't like this kind of behivior either, but one of my friends also is doing this. every time, when i take lunch with her, i feel terrible. i can not eat anymore with those noise. now, i have to find excuse every time for her invitation to any meal.

17 Apr 07

Can you speak in front of large groups of people?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 11 Apr 07

All through school and as a lil girl I have had extreme stage fright. I used to have it so bad that if I get in front of a group of people , my voice would tremble horribly and my mind would draw a blank. You ask "how did you get...

speaches

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rafichang heh;) me too, I can not sperk in front of many people. But my problem is a little different from you. For me, I can speak and I am not shy, but I always speak very quickly and disorderly, just say out whatever come in to my mind. Sometimes, I find people can...

12 Apr 07

Doomed to be Divorced?

hcromer @hcromer (2710) • United States 10 Apr 07

When I was 16, one of my co-workers (who was training to become a preacher) told me that since my parents were divorced that I had no hope of ever being in a healthy relationship in my life. I bawled my eyes out and it's still...

divorce

healthy relationship

marriage

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rafichang Of course this is wrong, don't believe any of it. On the contrary, I believe that people from divorced families could always hold a firmer relationship than anyone else, because they know the pain as a child of a pair of divorce parents and how hard they have...

10 Apr 07

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My ex is threating to take my child away..

mommey20032005 @mommey20032005 (264) • United States 10 Apr 07

We split up 3 years ago, that was when our daughter was born. When I tell him that in July I will be sending him divorce papers, he gets mad each time. He says if I do that and try to get child support, he will come and get her...

life

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rafichang I am so sorry to hear this situation from you. It sounds totally like what just happened to my brother. His wife is not a nice women and also tried everything to get the baby, while although she never loved the girl. My parents helped my brother raise the baby...

10 Apr 07