ranjan001

@ranjan001 (50)

India • Age 70

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How can you give advises if you are not a good listener?

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 17 Sep 12

Have observe other people who are just butting in while in the middle of the conversation then in the end they thought they have been giving advise that help the person but it was just end up to a mess conversation? More so it...

advise giver

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ranjan001 Yes I quite agree that it becomes very irritating when some people hate to listen and not only interrupt others but like to hog the conversation totally.In fact if you notice most disagreements stem from very poor listening.Listening is probably a skill that...

18 Sep 12

Second child in the family is always the most successfull

redrose88 @redrose88 (92) • Singapore 5 Apr 11

have read on some research journals that say, the second child in the family is always the best in the family or the worst. there are the most daring and stubborn headed in the family. they either excell in life or they would...

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ranjan001 From personal experience I can say in a familly of three or more siblings the second child is usually most practical and shrewd.One reason could be they are slightly neglected and therefore well prepared to defend or protect themselves.

6 Apr 11

I hate Adsense and Chitika

jamed28 @jamed28 (1903) • Philippines 5 Apr 11

Well you know why! They suspend my account! I guess it is normal for these sites to suspend members and they never care if they lost a member, since they have lots of members out there. Now if you are thinking I violated...

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ranjan001 Yes I am not too pleased with what you have written.I regret when payment time comes most of these portals look for all possible grounds for rejection.Needless to say because of their unethical behavior people strt having a very low opinion of their working...

6 Apr 11

Cried again because of loneliness~~

sweetyethot @sweetyethot (1737) • China 23 Dec 09

I cant remember how many times I cried because of loneliness.I just cant help.I feel better after crying.Im tired of being alone.I need someone to spend time with,someone who could say nice words and show affection to...

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ranjan001 Yes we do feel terribly terribly lonely.That is the time when you must get out of your shell .Start reaching out to people.Start a joke and share it ,even though it is in the net.Try stepping out and going to the nearest tea-shop/coffee-shop for a coffee.You...

23 Dec 09

Do you Experience Control Freaks in your LIfe?

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 18 Dec 09

I do, and it gets to be a real pain. When I was a teacher, I often came across control freaks in my profession, usually school Principals. Lately, I have experienced the unpleasant side effects of control freaks in my life. My...

control

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ranjan001 These control freaks are essentially neurotic beings.I remember my ex-boss fitted to this description.Probably thought himself to be a real boon to mankind.His peers and subordinates could not have differed more.So the poor chap was hopelessly outnumbered and...

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Do you have a conscience?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 17 Dec 09

I call it as the "little voice" on back of my mind telling me the "right" from "wrong". The problem is, do you have it too? How can you tell that you had a conscience?

correct

wrong

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ranjan001 Yes I do have a conscience and I suppose most people do.The only thing we should bear in mind is not to give it breaks.We sometimes carry on with our wrong doings and condone ourselves by either suggesting the whole world does it or that nobody ia a saint.Yes...

18 Dec 09

Gone With The Wind Turns 70!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 16 Dec 09

Last night Gone With The Wind turned 70! What a great film! I remember my mom telling me the story of when she saw it in the theater.She and her mom went but didn't know how long the film Really was.They enjoyed the film but they...

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ranjan001 It was a trip down memory lane.I saw this movie almost 38 years back before joining college.I had seen this movie during winter in Shimla a town in the northern part of India.What a movie that was.What acting .Clark Gable as Rhett Butler was tremendous not to...

17 Dec 09

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which soaps do u like- reality based or drama???

samsense @samsense (55) • India 22 Feb 08

I watch TV not regularly but off late i have seen serials which are reality based ....I love to watch them as they reflect our own lives in one or other ways...

reality shows

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ranjan001 At times I feel either laughter shows or chat shows are worth watching.the typical soap operas are too negative.Either there is the conniving daughter-in-law or a manipulative mother-in-law and other shady charaters out to wreak vengeance that life becomes one...

16 Dec 09

Would You Support Your Child If...

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 15 Dec 09

When they were grown, they said they wanted to adopt a child??? I know they talk about how the parents feel in regards to adoption and how will they feel if they know it's not their blood. To me, personally, the feeling that you...

adoptive grandparents

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ranjan001 I personally feel as a father parenthood is a grat feeling.If for some reason my son wishes to adopt I for one would definitely encourage him because in that way not only will he be taking care of a life but also learn the joys of fatherhood.

16 Dec 09

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Do you often meet acquaintance in the street?

youless @youless (112595) • Guangzhou, China 15 Dec 09

It is very strange that I hardly meet any acquaintances in the street. Perhaps the city is large, or perhaps I have poor eyesights. I just can't meet the acquaintances. How about you?

acquaintance

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ranjan001 The reason may be because of our busy lives and population they are also ion the move.The ones we meet we do not always remember.

15 Dec 09

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Do you have a generous friends? or you are the generous one?

grecychunny26 @grecychunny26 (9483) • Philippines 11 Dec 09

I have sets of friends, I mean I have different groups. I am the one who is generous in one group of my friends. I am the oldest of them, when someone is in need of money I can lend a help but not in higher prices. On the other...

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ranjan001 Generosity is the essence of friendship according to the writer Oscar Wilde.Well we have all sorts of friends.My friends are varied some are generous some are not so.I suppose people are different.Some are generous with their time,some with well-meaning...

11 Dec 09

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Do you think buying toys for kids is a waste of money?

corrycrystal @corrycrystal (1775) • Malaysia 1 Oct 09

During my niece 4th birthday, she received lots of presents. While she was having fun unwrapping all those presents, a couple, my sis's friends, were arguing about buying toys for kids. One of them was saying that all those toys...

buying toys for kids

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ranjan001 No I do not think that buing toys for kids are a waste of money.It depends upon your selection.Jigsaw puzzles can often develop the sense of problem solving and spatial sense at an early age.Kids who are older say ten to twelve can enjoy monopoly and now there...

11 Dec 09

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Real cash PTC is SCAM.

cognoscentethelegend @cognoscentethelegend (1209) • India 9 Dec 09

Hi, Friends you have heard about the ptc site called Real cash ptc. They are paying high to their members. Only low amount for upgrading their account. I have joined before 15 days and i have reached the minimum payout. When i...

realcashptc

scam

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ranjan001 yes friend you are right.A whole lot of sites have mushroomed overnight and offering the world in the guise of earning offers.This is one con game which we need to be aware of.After all our time and effort should not go down the drain.

10 Dec 09

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When did you start drinking?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 9 Dec 09

I'm an alcoholic before.. I start drinking when I wash second year high school and never stop drinking until I have health problem cause by drinking.. I drink almost everyday when I was in College.. that why it took me ten years...

alcohol

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ranjan001 I have in m existence of 55 years witnessed people adults with families falling a prey to this deadly habit.Is there anything more pathetic than to see a friend all of 48 years just walk out of his family consisting of a wife and two children a son and a...

9 Dec 09

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What can you say about real online Jobs???

rjvb26 @rjvb26 (2518) • Philippines 6 Dec 09

Ok here is the catch to this topic. I know a lot of you are talking about real online jobs. Well i have found one earlier, it is not just any PTC, Blogging and Advertising, it is a real online job. Now, they pay as much as $300 a...

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ranjan001 Yes these days whoever is a little net savvy he or she would like to make a beeline for an online job.Needless to say a lot of confident tricksters are there so one has to be very very selective.The reason being you will end up running around all to no...

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Do you keep clocks or time piece in every room.

neelimaravi @neelimaravi (1793) • India 4 Dec 09

Clocks are one of the few basic and major requirements in people’s lives. It is with the help of a clock that people reach the right place on the right time. If all the clocks stop working all on a sudden, the world...

clocks

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ranjan001 Yes clocks have their utility.They are found in every room in a house and are necessary.In fact many companies promote themselves by gifting clocks to their customers.So if you are in sales or marketing you may fall short of walls where you can hang those...

5 Dec 09

What is it with Politicians they they have to Sexually Compromise themselves?

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 2 Dec 09

How often have you heard of a Politician who gets himself into a sexually compromising situation? I say himself, because Ive not heard of a female politician being in that situation, but please correct me if I'm wrong. I think...

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ranjan001 This depends on the person.Let us admit power is a heady concoction of position,stress,vulnerabilty.A politician fails to see himself as a common man.He woukld like to believe he is the ALMIGHTY.What happens he statrs with a mild fling then gets caught in the...

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who is the best singer????

nitin9977 @nitin9977 (30) • India 27 Nov 09

Acc to u who is the best singer(male/female) in film industry.......

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ranjan001 In my opinion Sonu Nigam is a singer of rare caliber.He is not only very gentle but very courteous with fans and the general public.His voice as got such a smooth and beautiful flow and so very expressive.The song Sandesha aatee hai of the film Border...

27 Nov 09

When did you cry last time?

borhan @borhan (1338) • United States 26 Nov 09

In every life, there are some episodes of crying. We cry for many reasons. Sometimes even with a success, we cry. Crying is not a bad thing. It releases the load of heart. It makes the heart and mind light, releases stress....

cry

tears

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ranjan001 Yes it is really a good thing to cry at times.after all one has to release one's emotions in an appropriate manner.I must confess crying does not come to me so naturally.Is it because I had been made to believe that males do not cry.Sometimes some thoughts...

27 Nov 09

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Is the world really ending in 2012?

itsmauricecassidy @itsmauricecassidy (298) 9 Nov 09

So many reports are saying that the world will end in 2012 and which is also what scientists belief however I think it is just another stupid fact that is not even true. This has happened before and the world did not end. Now...

2021 end life people death

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ranjan001 Look this world ending by 2012 is also some rubbish by the so-called prophets of doom for reasons best known to themselves.I remember when I was in class 10th in 1969 it came in the papers that 1972 will witness 3rd World War.Inwhich case we are all...

10 Nov 09