ritak3

@ritak3 (52)

India • Age 42

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All about Weddings!

mrsrealo @mrsrealo (21) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

weddings, tying the knot, marriage.. be it simple or grand, civil or church, i've always enjoyed attending weddings. more so when preparing for my own :) in your case, what do you prefer? an intimate wedding or a grand one? how...

preps

weddings

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ritak3 i dream for my wedding to a grand one but in real i feel that spending on marriage so much, instead we can plan something good for living after all marriage is an anouncement that these people are getting married and will be sharing each others sorrow and...

14 Feb 07

"Feb Fury" whats the weather like in your area?

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 14 Feb 07

I know that cleveland got nailed and other parts of OH...as well as many parts of NY..Chicago got blasted too from what i understand.....Well I'm in Western New York (in between Buffalo and Rochester and about 5 - 7 miles from...

life

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ritak3 well better you take care of yourself. i am from india and live in bangalore so the weather is kind of normal. i mean not too hot and not too cold. its pretty hot day time and mornings and nights are pretty cold so weather looks normal here. i have never seen...

14 Feb 07

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Ever feel like your gonna fail something so bad there is no point in trying???

killahclaire @killahclaire (3665) 6 Feb 07

I get this all the time. Must have something to do with low self esteem or something, which is strange cos if you were to meet me you wouldn't think i was like this at all. I'm not a nervous person or hesitant. I speak boldly...

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ritak3 well there is nothing wrong in trying anything. i was like you couple of yrs back but i have changed myself because just because u think you cannot do it you miss many things. so i believe that we should give trial for anything and everything, now its on the...

6 Feb 07

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why do women likes to play games

theoneandonlyiceman @theoneandonlyiceman (149) • United States 3 Feb 07

I have goten out of a relationship in May and all women including my ex who I try to date and dated says they want a good guy,But when I try to be the good guy they don't want that. They want a bad boy who treats them bad,abusive...

women and there games

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ritak3 its not just girls who treat guys like that but if you ask girls, they expect something from guys. i understand that you get to know your girls expectation and accordingly you behave. but lemme tell you something you dont have to behave, you need to be...

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friends vs family

cfrdjlilbrat @cfrdjlilbrat (248) • United States 3 Feb 07

i find myself in a bind lately. i have been living with friends for a while now and out of the blue they said that i have to find somewhere else to live because they are going to be taking in a friend's son and the only place for...

family

internet relationships

online friends

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ritak3 Dear friend, really we cannot compair family with friends. but what i believe is, as we have some responsiblity towards are family at the same time we are responsible for friends too. i really dint like your friends asking you to get out of house. and i can...

4 Feb 07

My Baby Girl's Pink Monkey!!!

ronita34 @ronita34 (3922) • Canada 4 Feb 07

When i went grocery Shopping a couple of weeks ago now i bought my baby a pink monkey. She has grown so fond of this stuffed pink monkey and i think it is the most adorable thing. My oldest daughter which is now 5 has never had...

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ritak3 i m not married so i dont have kids but my sister in law's kid loves soft toys. this kid is 3 yrs old. just because of her i started loving pink color. recently i bought her a new teddybear of pink color, she just loves it. so i guess kids they like soft toys...

4 Feb 07

Will women ever be treated equally in this world?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 4 Feb 07

OK - so it is now my turn for a rant! I am a product of the 60's and 70's, where feminism was growing in the Western world, and we were bought up to believe that there was nothing a woman could not achieve if she out her mind to...

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ritak3 i dont think that can ever happen that womens will be treated equally in this world. the reason i have for this is, mens are really jealous of womens progresses and achivements. they just cannot see womens growing up in their life, as its a basic understanding...

4 Feb 07

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was shilpa shetty worth winning??

jaanemann @jaanemann (49) • India 3 Feb 07

i dont think so wat abt u?

big brother

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ritak3 Ofcourse she deserves it. She is been in herself. she never let herself down. she was very strong to handle all the controversy. She was the most beautiful person there. so i thing it was worth winning big brother contest.

4 Feb 07

Men and Make-up, Do they go together?

ukchriss @ukchriss (2097) 31 Jan 07

I think skin care is an essential element in men's grooming, in this day and age men should have a "common-sense" approach of buying moisturisers and other skincare products for sun protection in the summer months. I...

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ritak3 well the term make-up is not meant for boys. but this generation guys they just want to look like girls.

31 Jan 07

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How to control the tensions? I'm suffering with so many tensions.

KrishnaVeera @KrishnaVeera (4133) • India 30 Jan 07

Dear mates, now a day's m suffering with so many tensions, work tension, loneliness here m alone no one is there with me to share my feelings, because my parents are staying in my native place. and i have no girl friend. family...

tension

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ritak3 Hey there, everyone has tensions in there life but that doesnt mean that you suicide. you are alone so its good you can enjoy your life much better. try to have some good friends. visit them on weekends. if you dont have any girl friends thats not an issue...

30 Jan 07

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Saying THANK YOU...how important?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 29 Jan 07

Sometimes in our busy lives, we often forget how to appreciate what we have. We often forget how to say thank you on receiving grace, service given by someone or any small favors. How important is saying Thank you? I know I...

appreciate

thank you

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ritak3 saying thankyou is really really important. it brings reason to smile for both the person, the one who says it and the other who accepts it. it doesnt cost anything and doesnt deduct anything. sometimes people remember your thanks and they please you well...

30 Jan 07

Not invited to my Uncles wedding?

linzmcwilliams @linzmcwilliams (1552) 29 Jan 07

My Uncle was married for the second time a few months ago. My grandparents, uncles, aunties and cousins all live in Scotland but my close family live in the North of England. My parents were both invited to the wedding but my...

invitations

weddings

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ritak3 i can understand your situation. your uncle dint invite you for his second wedding it was only because his new wife dint want. But you should not be the same person. I feel that as they are elder to you you should always respect them as you have been always....

30 Jan 07

Is suicide a suitable end to a sad love-story????

techsam @techsam (158) • India 28 Jan 07

Recently, I came across a guy who tried to commit suicide just because he couldn't take in the fact that, he had brolen up with his girlfriend, and to top it she had started dating soemone else. The break up happened 6 months...

people

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ritak3 i guess he was trying to suicide because he must have thought that he cannot live without that girl. he dint give it a thought, that girl is enjoying her life and she is free, so your friend should have taken time to come out of that pain and tried for some...

28 Jan 07

kids and men and women with out food

sweetrosemary @sweetrosemary (484) 28 Jan 07

how many starving people are their in the world, and who do we blame do we blame our goverment or do we blame oursalfs for the food we have and waist it when a poor childo would love to the same food we do, how many of feel guilty...

kids

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ritak3 wasting food is something not respecting food. its so difficult to get food. i know people are starving and at the sametime somebody is wasting food. if you buying it you need to pay and get it, and if you cooking it unless you cook it properly, take time to...

28 Jan 07

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Why do we have to fall in love?

lovevargas @lovevargas (41) • United States 28 Jan 07

I've been asking myself this question all night long. It's not that I'm against love or anything, but my god, I can't seem o get it right. I'm currently dating (2 1/2yrs.) this guy, Jason, he's 7 years younger than me and at first...

love sucks sometimes

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ritak3 you need to have clear discussion with him. take time and talk to him. talking can bring out many stuff. if you feel that he is lieing then tell me that you feel so. love is something which makes you accept anything and everything bad of that person but you...

28 Jan 07

parent-children relationship, is going good or bad???

makaira @makaira (1158) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

how is your relationship with your parents??? and to parents how is your relationship with your kids? do they change in time? doe it get better or is it getting worst? for me, my relationship with my parents are doing well.. as...

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ritak3 hey friends its the same with me. well it depends upon your parents how they bring us up. my parents have been more closer to me as i grew up. they tell me everything that i could face on this earth. they know my friends let them be my boyfriends, they got to...

27 Jan 07

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What would you ask God

Jemina @Jemina (5770) 11 Jan 07

If God would grant you one wish/request what would you ask? Sorry, you cannot ask for wisdom coz that was already taken by King Solomon.

prayers

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ritak3 i would ask god to bring some people on earth, who are honest and lovable. now the world has become so currupt. its so difficult to find a true person. we just cannot beleive on any one. we need to have different thoughts to deal with anyone. so i would...

27 Jan 07

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" Stop Pointing Fingers To India " Enough Of It !!

jaizdeep @jaizdeep (397) • India 26 Jan 07

For the past few days i have been continuously observing that people are posting topics blaming either Indians or India.... Either its about them smelling bad , Girls being aborted by pregnant women, Indians spamming, playing...

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ritak3 well said. i know this is really really bad blaming or pointing any one specialy the complete country. if they have any problem with indians why do they discuss about them. they can just keep it with themselves. they dont understand that they have the same...

27 Jan 07

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What would you do if you won a lot of money in the Lottery?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 26 Jan 07

I guess we've all thought about this sometime. So tell me what would you do if you won the Lottery - say about £2million (that's about $3.5million I think!) - but enough money never to have to work again. Personally, after I had...

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ritak3 i would definately give it to my dad. i am only daughter and i know till now my dad had struggled and brought me up. as he has lot of dreams which he couldnt do because of looking after me. i am sure he will make best use of that money. i would pray to god...

27 Jan 07

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