rojane

@rojane (500)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

I thank my God upon every remembrance of you. - Philippians 1:3

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Does Success In Life Means Having Lots Of Money?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 17 May 07

Hi there! I was just wondering if success = money. For me you can succeed in life and not be rich. We are here for a purpose, and not all of us are meant to be rich people. I learn to be contented with my life. Just do what you...

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rojane No. For me success is not equal to money. I think success would equate more to happiness and contentment. If we had done our purpose in this world, with or without doughs, we're gonna be happy and content with our life. Thus, we feel the fulfillment and we can...

20 Jun 07

How old were you when you got your first kiss?

Bee1955 @Bee1955 (3882) • United States 1 Jun 07

You know what I mean - not from Granny Sue or Auntie Lou. I was 15.

first time

kiss

kisses

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rojane Oh gosh!I read all the comments here and I realised that I had the latest age of having a real kiss. I was 23 then!I had it with my first bf, of course. We were inside this movie theater and he kissed me right there. And I can say that it felt so good, so...

20 Jun 07

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Are you a Spender or a Saver?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 12 Jun 07

In my group of friends there are people i'd define as Savers, and others i'd define as Spenders. Savers also spend of course, but they have a more conservative vision of things, so they always save a bit just in case. Spenders...

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rojane I am under the category of Spender. How can I justify it? I've been working for 6 years now and the content of my ATM is only the paycheck for this month! See? And I pray to God that I'll be able to save some for the future just in case. Oh, I hope that I can...

13 Jun 07

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Beach or Swimming pool?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 12 Jun 07

I know people who love the beach and prefer swimming in the salty water rather than in a swimming pool. But also know others who prefer a swimming pool without waves etc. I personally prefer the beach big time...i feel like more...

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rojane I'd prefer beach over swimming pool. I love the feel of the sand beneath my soles, the waves that cradles me like a baby. Also, I love to see the breathtaking sunset as the sun kisses the sea just over the horizon. I love seeing and watching those various...

13 Jun 07

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What is your most common sleeping positon?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 10 Jun 07

When you sleep, you position yourself in a way that you are most comfortable with. What sleeping position are you most comfortable with?I like sleeping sidewards with my legs curled. What about you?

sleeping position

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rojane I also sleep the same as Terry (the first one who commented on this post). I sleep on my side, slightly curled up with a pillow in between my legs. PLUS one more pillow at my back. So 3 pillows total. Hehehe. I just love being surrounded with pillows when I...

12 Jun 07

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Love someone who doesn't love you back?

araphoenix @araphoenix (209) • Philippines 30 May 07

have you ever experience this?

love

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rojane I loved someone before who told me that he loved me too. That he'd never leave me. I believed it coz it all seemed so true. Or maybe I'm just gullible coz it turned out that he didn't truly love me. He had cheated on me and I admit that it hurt. I know that...

12 Jun 07

Odd Habits

blackkatdreamer @blackkatdreamer (1461) • Canada 24 May 07

during "that time of the month" do you have odd habits? crave odd things? my craving will range except for two particular cravings.. Chocolate and medium rare steak.. what do you crave

crave

habit

mensa

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rojane On those days before I get the monthly curse, I always crave for food. Nothing in particular though. Any food will do. It's like I'm starved to death that I eat a lot - anything that's been offered or that's available at hand. I don't know why but it seems...

12 Jun 07

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What do you think about Christian Missions?

vivienna @vivienna (582) • Venezuela 12 Jun 07

This question is, of course, for Christians in first place. Do you support missions? Are you in contact with some missionaries? Would you be a missionary? Do you think that there are sufficient Christian missions? In second...

christian missions

missionaries

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rojane Hi Vivienna. I do support Christian missionaries out there. I may not be in direct contact with them but I help through giving out some monetary help. In our church, when a missionary presents his mission and asks for prayers and support, our pastor would...

12 Jun 07

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When someone knocks at 4 am...

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 5 Mar 07

You were sleeping like an angel on your bed. Suddenly you were woken up by your door bell ringing. You rubbed your eyes and realised that it was not a dream after all. You waited a few mins but the bell just kept on ringing....

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rojane If someone knocks on our door at that certain hour, I'm afraid but I can't take the courage to open it up. Fear of the unknown is the answer. Maybe the first thing the knocker will get from me are these words, "Who's there?" If he/she answers and I know...

12 Jun 07

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would you forgive your partner if he/she cheats on you?

ifinallyfoundmybaby @ifinallyfoundmybaby (1742) • Philippines 7 Jun 07

probably yes, or it depends on the situation. nobody's perfect...I've been there. It's hard to give the trust back. but he should prove and assure you that it won't happen again.

love

partner

relationship

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rojane If ever my partner cheats on me, yes, I will forgive him. But that doesn't mean that I will still stay with him or get back to him. I can't do just that. Paranoia will hunt me like hell and I can't bear being paranoid forever. Like I often said, loving someone...

8 Jun 07

do you think you can still feel happy without love?

angela2006 @angela2006 (1845) • China 7 Jun 07

to me,love is so important that I am afraid that I can not live without love.yes,we have friends,parents,brothers and sisters,carrers and so on,but without love,I think happiness will be lack of something although love is only one...

happy love

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rojane No one can't live without love. Love is everywhere and falls into a variety of categories. There's the love for our parents, love for our family, love for our work, for our country, for our pets, for the nature, for our hobbies, so on and so forth. But if...

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Why do we tend to carry the past forward??

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 6 Jun 07

I live my life mostly stuck in the memories of the past. I tend to think that every single person is the same. Each time someone wrongs me, takes me for a ride, etc., i tend to imagine that others will do the same. History may...

emotional baggage

emotional pain

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rojane "I forgive yet can't stop carrying my past forward with me? What is wrong with me?" - It's because you forgave just for the sake of forgiving...just for the sake that you could tell yourself and others that you had forgiven. But the truth behind it is that...

8 Jun 07

the secret of getting a lot of response is now revealed...

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 2 Jun 07

I was a newbie before in MyLot... Like you, I'm also wondering how to get a lot of response for my discussions. That time, the members that are always in the hot topics were lordwarwizard, becuttieusa, and easy888. I must...

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rojane WOW!!! You are so GENEROUS! Thanks a lot for sharing your tips and well, the blessings! Hahaha. I've been here a month now and your tips are such a blessing. Now, I am rating other comments + and also give my own comment even if it's just a one-liner. And as...

8 Jun 07

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Who has a problem with one liner responses?

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 31 May 07

I was wondering because some people dont like one liner responses.I dont have a problem because sometimes you can actually get your point across with only a few words.With some discussions you dont have to go into details all like...

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rojane Personally, I don't have a problem with one-liner responses. I also do that! Hahaha. But that is only if the discussion is very well detailed and well said that I have nothing any more to add up but just a simple, "I agree with you....blah-blah-blah." I know...

5 Jun 07

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Mr. Clean

makingpots @makingpots (11915) • United States 5 Jun 07

Mr. Clean Magic Eraser is awesome!! Have you tried it? I am amazed at all the things I find it is able to clean. As a mommy of a 2.5 yr old I need it often. It will get crayons, markers, pens, pencils off of everything. A...

parenting

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rojane Wow! If it can erase everything, well that must be really great! I think I should try it too coz our house is full of marks and drawings everywhere. Well, my 4-year old niece and 2-year old nephew did a lot of their own "art designs" on the walls and tables....

5 Jun 07

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to all the world, which country has the most beutiful women?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 1 Jun 07

Sounds silly doesnt it? But is beauty determined by the culture we are brought up in? will for example Chinese men find chinese girls the most atractive? will western Europen men find western European girls most atractive? what...

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rojane I don't know but I think it biased if we base the beauty by what our culture brought us up. I am a Filipino but personally, I find Mexican women beautiful. Not that I'm saying that Filipinas are not, coz the truth of the matter is, there are also a lot of...

5 Jun 07

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where would you like to go if you are the richest man on earth?

periwinkle_0023000 @periwinkle_0023000 (1) • Philippines 4 Jun 07

me if i am rich enuf to tour around the world i would go anywhere no exception...

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rojane I would definitely go to Paris. It's my dream to see and touch the Eiffel Tower itself. Also, Paris is such a lovely place and so classical. I don't know but there's just something about Paris that make lovers fall in love with each other more. I guess it's...

5 Jun 07