ryunix

@ryunix (25)

Canada • Age 45

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Only two children and their parents turned up at a birthday party!!!

Madona1 @Madona1 (2096) • Gibraltar 23 Jul 07

One of my friends just held a birthday party for her 6-years-old girl yesterday afternoon. They had sent out the invitations to about 20 children 2 weeks earlier, and well prepared the party in her house that has a garden. To...

parenting birthday party

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ryunix I would not invite 20 kids :) but rather the people that are actualy the friends of my child. I would also get confermations by there parrents. I dont believe partys need to be big and full of gifts to be good. And i dont want my child believing that...

23 Jul 07

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jury experience

syndibee @syndibee (799) • United States 23 Jul 07

ok i am now done with my trial and can talk about it all i want. i was called for jury and actually had to sit on a murder trial. the most stressful part of jury duty is the silence. i mean, here we are just thrown into a court...

jury duty

justice system at work

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ryunix This will sound totally nuts, but I would love to do this and if possible, have it be my career :D I assure you I am not naive, i do deal with extremem circumstance in the counseling i do, but something like this, i would enjoy the thinking and...

23 Jul 07

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This Is Unbelievable!!!

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 17 Jul 07

I subscribe to a free publication called "The Good News." I have recieved it for at least three years. It is reliable and trustworthy. That is why, reading what I just did, totally blew me away. I am not going to quote the...

gods family

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ryunix Yes this is true, people have been comparing the teaching for God to child abuse. it is in books and the news. Dawkins is the main culprit in this.

19 Jul 07

Does it matter to you which religion your friends belong to ?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 18 Jul 07

Does it matter to you which religion your friends belong to ?

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ryunix So long as it does not cause you to sin or grow in the wrong ways.

19 Jul 07

Do you ever question your religion? Is it geograficaly dependet?

alnilam @alnilam (969) • United States 19 Jul 07

Why do you think people from different places of the world believe in a different God? You are a believer in your own God but if you were born in another place you would be raised to believe in a different religion... so by some...

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ryunix These are difficult questions. If you are refering to christianity then i would say: There are a few ways to be saved 1. Be perfect (good luck with this one) 2. Jesus knows you and you believe in him as your savior (true belief not the thrown around...

19 Jul 07

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what punishment that you give to your child

prily9 @prily9 (568) • Indonesia 19 Jul 07

I don't like to give punishment to my daughters but if I had to I will give it to them. usually I just reduce their everyday money or asked them to go to bed earlier. and how about you what punishment that you give to your...

punishment to your child

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ryunix It depends on what they have done (mainly the "why" they did it) and how old they are. Also it is important to note the diffrences between discipline and punishment and when to use them I am pro spanking until they can be reasoned with. But i will never...

19 Jul 07

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Should moral education be made compulsory in school ?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 19 Jul 07

Should moral education be made compulsory in school ?

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ryunix Yes they should, and at home as well. However the problem is that morals are rather relative between people. THere is no moral standard. This is where religion would play a role. Personaly i would use the bible for a moral standard because it does not...

19 Jul 07

what would you do if your guy's relatives are sabotaging your relationship?

temptress1 @temptress1 (40) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

I need some comments, any suggestions...feel free

relationship

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ryunix This is a book that has helped many people and is also used by many of my fellow counselers Boundaries: When to say yes, When to say no,To take control of your life.

19 Jul 07

Marriage or Live in

temptress1 @temptress1 (40) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

Marriage VS live In which do you prefer to dive in....

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ryunix Marriage hands down. There is no reason do do otherwise.

19 Jul 07

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How important is looks vis a vis personality in a potential partner?

mkcallejo @mkcallejo (318) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

For me both are important but if i were to rate their importance, I will give 60 percent for looks and 40 percent for personality. How about you?

love

partner

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ryunix It depends how old you are *laughs* if you are 80 years old, i doubt looks is the higher % in the relationship. Because of this, when you are young i think looks are important (because you need to be attracted to someone otherwise you wont ask them out) but...

19 Jul 07

How would you know if A man really likes you ?

temptress1 @temptress1 (40) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

I need opinions please...

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ryunix This might sound odd, ask him. Yep... that would pritty much solve this one. You can even say "Because of X Y and Z, I am getting the impression you like me" from here you can tell him how you feel ie: "stop doing x y and z because i dont like you"...

19 Jul 07

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Do you think kids love and respect their parents these days????

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 25 Jan 07

Hi. I have a 14 year old daughter and she talks to me most of the time like a dog. She does tell me she loves me but as soon as she dont get her way about something, she says she hates me. She has got to do more in her young...

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ryunix Hello Stephcjh: Well the easy answer is, some children respect there parents and some do not. I find that people often confuse what it meens in "wanting the best for there child". Children need to fail, be denied, not have manythings and be loved. I...

19 Jul 07

Mistreated by your guy/girl: how would you deal with it?

kcrysea @kcrysea (195) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

If the relationship is just new everything is just doing fine. But as time goes by the treatment with each other changes it could be bad or good. You love the person so much but your partner started to treat u unkindly. you dont...

love

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ryunix Hi Kcrysea: The answer to this would depend on the kind of mistreatment. *IF IT IS SAFE* Talk to them about it, with love and with kindness. Use "I" statements, for example "I feel that ..." Dont use statements like "You do ..." If this fails, i...

19 Jul 07

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in a bf/gf relationship, do you need to tell evrything to your partner?

rexiemay @rexiemay (401) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

it is of my opinion that there are some things that must be left unsaid. telling everything is good but there are mundane things that can be left unsaid

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ryunix Rexiemay: You do not "need" to tell everyone to your partner, but you should be able to tell them anything. There is a big difference between having an understanding partner that you can talk to about everything and someone you have to tell how you were...

19 Jul 07

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what is the right age to get married

margz_villegas @margz_villegas (42) • Philippines 18 Jul 07

i am 22 by now and have plans of getting married by next year. my officemates' concept of marrying age is about age 30 that's why here in our office, i am the only who has a different concept. Here's my case that's why i decided...

relationships

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ryunix Age is a silly thing. Dont get married until your 30 is odd... here i thought peopel were supposed to get married when they were in love :S If you are in love and so is he, i would only suggest one thing before getting marryed, take premarital counseling....

18 Jul 07

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What do you think a person has to do or be to live an honorable life?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 18 Jul 07

That is something I've thought a lot about with all the mudsligning and lack of accountablity in the political arena these days. It is alarming to me that so many people play the 'blame game' and refuse to own up to unethical...

honorable life

saying what they mean and meaning what they say

walking their talk

what makes it so

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ryunix *wishes this thing would let me paste... im such a bad speller :S* I suppose I have to give the default Christian answer. You can live a decent life, kinder then others by doing kind things, but to live a good life there is but one way (im not bible...

18 Jul 07

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What can I do with my old engagement ring?

babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 6 Jul 07

I have an engagement ring. Obviously I was previously engaged, many years ago. My ex does not want the ring back so what do I do with it? I have the receipt, its 18 carat white gold/diamonds and cost about $5,000 dollars so I...

engagement ring

ring

wedding

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ryunix I have the same problem. I was engaged about 5 years ago and have this ring that i can do nothing with. If i sell it i get little money, if i keep it i cant use it. And on top of that i have found the love of my life, and cant afford to buy her a ring :( SO...

18 Jul 07