shajithusa

@shajithusa (41)

India • Age 53

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Do you still keep in touch with the best friend you grew up with?

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 6 Mar 07

I didn't but sure wish I had. I often think of making the big trip and trying to find him one day. I could just imagine the both of us over 50 years old talking about the lazy, hazy days of Summers past and all the crazy stunts...

best friend

fun

trouble

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shajithusa yes last many years i had good contact with my earlier life friends from many part of the world and home country. i feel that it is tip to hang our love and care towards the unseen future. any how i belive that ever made friendship is good enogh to florish...

7 Mar 07

My Kids are Mad at Me!

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 8 Feb 07

We planned a family recipe night for this Friday, I told my kids last Friday to pick ther recipes and then make me a grocery list by Sunday. I reminded them Friday, they got on the computer and went threw the cook books and...

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shajithusa it is very sinple comparing to other problems happening in families.you are right.. there is no matter of carelessness or irresponsiblities.the same way me too do or handle such situations.

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Money is every thing in Life...without money life is wasted...what do you say ?

rajikoshy @rajikoshy (741) • India 4 Feb 07

i never believe in money but recently i have been observing life very carefully, with different people, different culture etc. i find life without money is useless without money a person can not treat him or his dipendands from...

life

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shajithusa The same thought was to me.. but me too changed on some bad incident that happend last few weeks.It is very tough to sustain. love some times over come money but money probably dfeats love..

5 Feb 07

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how many days you can live without drinking water

parassiniprashob @parassiniprashob (479) • India 1 Feb 07

i read somewhere that one can live 30+ days without food. but how many days one can live without drinking water, water is called most essential mineral for our body , what u think about this, how much water you drinks daily - how...

essential

life

water

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shajithusa This questions are reasonable.I think one can live with out water depending with his physical capacity.I heared about one kind of mouse live 6 months or more without water and food.But never heard like this with human.Some extraordinary people can do this for...

3 Feb 07

What do you do as a family?

DJ9020 @DJ9020 (1596) • United States 2 Feb 07

We have trouble finding activities that the whole family (teenage children) can enjoy together. What do you do?

activities

family

teens

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shajithusa As far as concered to me family is the center of my life. There I am learning and living, trying to serve the family with my effrot.Surely I feel very well with family and I love my family very much. Every member of my family sharing all happiness and sadness...

3 Feb 07

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working mom and house-husband... what can you say?

fianne @fianne (1057) • United States 2 Feb 07

my mom is now working for our family since mdad lost his job plus the fact that he's getting old. any says here that my dad should work coz he's the head of the family, we all understand his situation that's why my mom did the...

dad

mom

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shajithusa I feel it has no difference, In a fimily hus and wife are equally responsible for built up thier live.For that who can perform better they can do that for the faith of family. Some ladies are more courage than men, they are domine the family, but their coplex...

3 Feb 07

parents is not always right

clarah_cille @clarah_cille (654) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

do you agree in this statement? we all know that parents always think for the best for their children but it doesn't mean that they have to be too strict. it should be balance so that a child will not be deprived his/her right to...

parents

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shajithusa Who said this?. Parents always wish the best of their children.Thier vision may be limited by their experience, but we have to understand the circumstances and behave with our sense.In my opinion parents saying everything with thier own experince, but the time...

2 Feb 07

should i accept her????????/

tariqnawaz @tariqnawaz (351) • India 5 Jan 07

hey friend,i m tariq nawaz from india...i love a girl name as ami..she is from from city..i proposed her and she accepted my responce..now wen i m planning to marry her she told me tat c was havving relation ship with his brother...

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shajithusa I can tell you one thing, you never accept her, she can not stop it after your marriege also. if once girls tasted, she can not forget that entire life. So better to give a date for her and make it jolly.

1 Feb 07

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what do you think, was that a justice or injustice to saddam hussein

offender46 @offender46 (25) • India 30 Dec 06

what you people really think about saddam's execution? Y he has been hanged!

injustice

iraq

saddam

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shajithusa Who ever is Saddam. May he killed many for his security or for the stablity of ruling iraq.NOw he is not accused becoz the America and colusion army done more than what Saddam done. So saddam is littel great than GEorge Bush.

1 Feb 07

Is the war on Iraq Justified

Booker_t79 @Booker_t79 (200) • United States 31 Jan 07

we invaded IRAQ to overthrow saddam and find and destroy the weapons of mass destruction (which by way we havent found yet in more than 3 years). Was it the right move logically not patriotically? Isnt it true that we are only...

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shajithusa NO. never it jestifed. In the history of humen survival it is big massakar done in iraq war. NObody can say it has some way of justice. you know one thing. the whole Americans are blamed on this move.Now in the world most wanted criminal or most hatetful race...

1 Feb 07

Do you trust your doctor?

Freespirit @Freespirit (593) 30 Jan 07

When your Doctor prescribes drugs for your condition whatever it is, do you accept his judgment without question, or do you think he might be influenced by the Drug companies?Drug companies are always giving freebies like paid...

doctors

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shajithusa Fifty fifty only. I trust doctor but not 100% becoz, he trust 100 on god so I can trust on him only a part. otherwise the doctor will blame the patient.

31 Jan 07

sleep

cheetahnc @cheetahnc (414) • United States 31 Jan 07

Do you fall asleep easily or does it take you awhile to fall asleep? It seems like it takes me forever.

sleep

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shajithusa Yes, I can sleep on time becoz I arrnged my brain to sleep at 10.30 pm every day.There is no changes for this time even if any emergancy occure.If any emergency, I can mange it with extra time at noon or in between the next bed time.Usually I enter in my bed...

31 Jan 07

ami right or wrong?

baby88 @baby88 (696) • Singapore 30 Jan 07

hi everybody! just want to ask am i right or wrong to carry on with my work or just be a little women, staying at home looking after my babies to be a housewife? ok, recently my hubby asked me to quit my job and stay at home that...

housewife or working

right or wrong

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shajithusa As far as concernd to me this a foolish one. There is no chance for asking this question. If you can hadle both job and your family matters same time, then arrange the things on properway.Care your babies and family.You know it is utterly foolishness to ignore...

31 Jan 07

Parent or Best Friend? Which am I suppose to be?

gypsylady28 @gypsylady28 (945) • United States 30 Jan 07

To me, this is one of the hardest things for a parent to decide. I love my children, but to me, being a parent is the most important. I think there is a line we have to draw between parent and friend. Do you feel the same? My...

children

frienship

relationship

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shajithusa I think always parents are the best friend becoz they never ignor us, they can't do that, but a friend can avoid our presence by many resons.I bleive that parents are the realy one for us.

31 Jan 07

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Which has caused more deaths?

emeraldisle @emeraldisle (13139) • United States 6 Jan 07

I was talking with my family last night and we were curious, when you think about it, which have more people died because of: religion or smoking? Logically think about all the numbers of people who have died throughout...

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shajithusa It is a very reasonable question. Death is a fact, that we can not overcome or prevent it.So never bother about death or its reasons.The earth will move ahead with its chanel, we can not stop that or we can not imagine that, if the earth stoped a littel for...

30 Jan 07

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smoking around children

dfinster @dfinster (3528) • United States 29 Jan 07

I really need some help with this problem. My husband and I both smoke which I'm not proud of to begin with. We don't smoke in our house and go out to the garage when we do smoke. But, my husband has the horrible habit of...

kids

marriage

smoking

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shajithusa Smooking is really a bad habit. Years back it was a habit of maturity and pristige., but now it is consider as a very ugly style.It is both harmful to the smoker and the sroudings.It is better to do with sense, if not in sense they can harm everyone with his...

30 Jan 07

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How should i forget him?

sunflowergirl @sunflowergirl (3064) • United Arab Emirates 29 Jan 07

i was in love with a guy and after like 5years i come to know that he has been lieing to me.... lies which i can not take...i mean any girl wont....can plzzzzzzzzz any one help me how should i forget him??should i make friends...

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shajithusa Dear pal, Why you crying on this matter. It is not a rare fact.Everybody facing this type of problems.Never cry upon this becoz. Now you are stying in a bus stop.. there many buses will come and go,If one bus missed next will come on time. you can travel in...

30 Jan 07

Are you diabetic?!?

meeandnotyou @meeandnotyou (2548) • United States 30 Jan 07

I just found out today that I am diabetic and I am having a hell of a time dealing with this turn of events. I am 35 and in resonable good health (not obese, actually just lost alot of weight*5'7" & 160lbs*), do not drink...

diabetic

life

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shajithusa Me too a diabetic, that 4 years I'm doing yoga for controlling blood sugar.I think, my laziness is the reason for this deseas. But my regular yoga practice reduced my blood sugar level. You too do the yoga, it is not hard one only need 30-60 minuts everyday at...

30 Jan 07

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