shinningstar

@shinningstar (22)

Brunei Darussalam • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Word is not enough to reveal your heart and describe your love. It's action speaks louder than word.

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jealousy??

kiah25 @kiah25 (128) • United States 8 Dec 06

I was in a car accident in March of this year, and my husband and I have put our loves on hold due to health problems realted to the accident ever since. We have been married for 7 months now and had planned on starting to try ot...

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shinningstar Jealousy is not bad as long as not too much. As a person we have the right to express our own feelings. If having a baby makes both of you happy then go for it.

9 Dec 06

when he loves you.... and you love HIM.

vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 8 Dec 06

the issue is, when you had a good friend who always listens, hes always there... he never hurts you, hes like a dream come true.,. but you dont love him. instead you love this BF of yours who makes you cry and the one you really...

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shinningstar I used to follow my hearts desire because it makes me happy. I'll never waste my time loving someone who don't deserves to be loved. It's stupidity.

9 Dec 06

Are you getting anything done while you're online?

FrostBittenFruit @FrostBittenFruit (69) • United States 8 Dec 06

How do you spend most of your online time? Do you think the time is well spent? Could you managed your daily schedule more effectively? I spend a lot of my time on the computer. I work with various websites, acting as an...

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shinningstar My PC is very important for me. Infact, my day is not complete without taking a glance of my favorite sites. When I'm online, I chat with friends and relatives. I update my friendster account and I browse lots of sites. It's a great accomplishment for me.

8 Dec 06

Who is the boss in your family?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 13 Nov 09

When it comes to our family. It's my mom who often decide what to do. Almost always we follow everything that she said compared to my dad. She's quite strict but in a good way, she do it by example unlike my dad. And she has a...

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shinningstar When it comes to our family. It's my mom who often decide what to do. Almost always we follow everything that she said compared to my dad. She's quite strict but in a good way, she do it by example unlike my dad. And she has a strong personality. How about...

13 Nov 09

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Why do bad things happen to good people?

mellbrb @mellbrb (250) • United States 8 Dec 06

There have been a lot of thoughts going through my mind, and the minds of my family members lately. For the past few months we've been struggling, not only us, but most of the family and friends we know as well. It seems everyone...

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shinningstar Good people usually experience bad things happen in their life. If you take it positively, it's just a trial given to you from the Creator. You are measured how strong is your faith in God.

8 Dec 06

Having your own children vs. Adoption

Piratesware @Piratesware (2888) • Indonesia 8 Dec 06

I had a really long debate with a friend about this the other day. Not about which was better, because I think both can be great under the right circumstances. What the argument was about was really the level of the bond a parent...

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shinningstar I prefer to have my own children in the future. It's great to norture well a child in my own blood. But if ever I have a health problem and can't have my own child, I'll go for adoptation.

8 Dec 06

How did you find your best friends?

newjerseyfemale4u @newjerseyfemale4u (217) • United States 8 Dec 06

I have one true best friend and we known each other for almost 20 years! I was in junior high school when she was in catholic school. I remember during the summer time while her mother went to work I use to babysit her and her...

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shinningstar Jeanet is the name of my best friend. We come from a different place. We meet each other at school campus. In times of hapiness and sadness, she's always at my side.

8 Dec 06

i dreamt i was fat

jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 11 Nov 09

last night. which is a peculiar dream for me to have - i am not fat (bit overweight in my early teens, that's been it) and more relevantly not, i thought, worried about getting fat (when your diet consists mostly of hay and...

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shinningstar last night. which is a peculiar dream for me to have - i am not fat (bit overweight in my early teens, that's been it) and more relevantly not, i thought, worried about getting fat (when your diet consists mostly of hay and carrots this is not a major...

11 Nov 09

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AM I STUPID OR WHAT???

misste78 @misste78 (539) • United States 8 Dec 06

My boyfriend has to be the most lazy unappreciative in the world which makes me the most stupid person in the world. I've been taking care of him the whole 4 years we've been together. He says he appreciates me, but he doesn't...

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shinningstar Well, I can say that you're a great lover. You've done your part as a good girlfriend but you earned nothing in return. In a relationship, give and take is very important. I guess you don't deserve to be treated like that. The best thing to do is to talk to...

8 Dec 06

Just out of curiousity, what are you doing RIGHT NOW?

chunkers @chunkers (1050) • United States 7 Dec 06

Besides sitting at your computer, what are you doing? What is the atmosphere like in your home? Are dogs barking? Do you have children screaming in the background? Is your wife or husband nagging you? Are you eating while you're...

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shinningstar I'm inside my room listening a love song music. I can hear my mother's kitchen utensils. I guess shes's busy in baking cakes. It's a little bit cloudy outside that's why I feel sleepy.

8 Dec 06

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Drugs

mummy2jake @mummy2jake (399) • Australia 7 Dec 06

Do you think drugs change a person, are they bad for ones health, come & give your opinion on this. Well my fiance smokes pot, i make him go outside out the back to do it, & i apsolutely don't allow it near our son.He did...

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shinningstar Smoking is dangerous to our health. If I never quit smoking, for sure there's a possibility for me to have lung cancer in the future. One way of stopping it is to minimize the the amount of cigarrete stick daily. That's my tip.

8 Dec 06

Conversations with God!

Kylalynn @Kylalynn (1771) • South Africa 8 Dec 06

I recently posted a discussion on the expression Oh my God used in all American reality shows. I was informed that it is slang and taking the lords name in vain. I read the book Conversations with God, which I thoroughly enjoyed....

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shinningstar I feel guilty of using the expression "Oh my God" all the time. For me, saying this expression is not a sin. Infact, calling God's name is a prayer. It means that it depends on how people use this expression. For instance, I saw a car accident, I'll surely...

8 Dec 06

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