shirley2all

@shirley2all (141)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 13 years ago

I am a big big girl in a big big world.

Responses (82)

shirley2all's Responses

What kind of song you want to hear when you wake up in the morning?

ladyhemingway @ladyhemingway (965) • Philippines 8 May 12

I love hearing songs every morning. It usually sets the mood for my day, so I always choose songs which are very upbeat and danceable. Recently, Beyonce and J.Lo are two of the talented singers I've been listening to every...

songs

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shirley2all I would prefer piano music.light and soft.very comfortable!

9 May 12

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Is it wise to google the place where you want to go?

sherlysinguran @sherlysinguran (82) 9 May 12

My vacation schedule is coming and i am planning to spent it at home and somewhere new to me. I want to experience a sort of adventure going in a strange place alone. But it scares me, all i want is to have an idea what that place...

adventure

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shirley2all I think you have got some ideas from above mylotters. Here I wish you a good journey and dont forget to share with us once you came back.haha...

9 May 12

never forget you my sweeeeeeeeet heart

Rams mylot @rameshchow (4426) • India 26 Apr 12

yes friends, your guess is correct, i am talking about mylot only. It's my sweet heart. It is given me good friends here. I am feeling happy with mylot from the starting of my internet works. In the starting i am a newbie,...

my lot is my darling

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shirley2all Me too.Nice site.Learning,sharing,enjoying!

27 Apr 12

Easy but not that easy

Toni @toniganzon (72517) • Philippines 25 Apr 12

Sometimes it's easy to say that we have forgiven the person. But what is really the act of forgiveness? Let's say your husband cheated on you and you have decided to forgive him and not divorce him at all. But once in awhile when...

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shirley2all I exprienced once in my life and I am trying to trust him. So far it goes well and I can feel he is really changing to care me more.I do believe if both take it seriously and try to cherish each other, it will be easier to recover.

26 Apr 12

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How can you tell if a person is pretending?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 21 Apr 12

Well I don't know maybe I'm just too judgmental. I'm sorry for being so bad but It just seems so hard to believe a person telling she/he is in pain while he/she can take a time to do something, etc... Hmmm maybe she/he is really...

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shirley2all Maybe just make an excuse to do something else that he dont want others know. I had ever been like this. I told my boss I am not feeling good so I asked for a leave. Actually I went for interview.Dont take it seriously if no trouble caused to you.

21 Apr 12

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Beauty of Adoption!!

besthope44 @besthope44 (12123) • India 20 Apr 12

I have seen many media and society 75% doesn't encourage the process of adopting kids. But psychologically it is proved that attachment of adopted kids are greater than normal kids in most cases. I really planning to adopt another...

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shirley2all If possible to afford a kid I think I will adopt a kid.Once I bring him/her home,I should take responsibility to bring him/her up in a healthy life. Otherwise better not.

21 Apr 12

Unusual shops

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 20 Apr 12

Today I visited a second hand shop in my area. The man who owns the shop sells books, magazines...and shoes. His shop is extremely messy. There are huge piles of books everywhere. The piles are much taller than a person and they...

unusual shops

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shirley2all There are a lot of book stores beside my previous university. All of them are very messy and almost fully-filled. I like going there and spending a long time for reading. It is just like a mini library.So far I dont find any special stores in my country.

20 Apr 12

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lazy saturday morning

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 20 Apr 12

I really feel lazy this morning. I thought it is already a Sunday so i don't need to wake up early but I am wrong! So i woke up, tokk a bath, ate breakfast and head over to work. I hope we don't need to still report on Saturday so...

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shirley2all same case as me. But I also like Saturday as I can spent a lot time on Mylot and finish pending jobs then I can fully relax myself on Sunday.On week days I always keep busy and overtime at night.

20 Apr 12

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The price of petrol increase again.

vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 20 Apr 12

Hello mylotter! That is very bad because the price of petrol in my country increase again in yesterday. It is hard for my plan to save money, when the petrol increase cost will drag on many good increase cost too. And in your...

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shirley2all I think most of countries are suffering petrol increase.We can afford to buy a car but can't afford to maintain the car daily.So bad!!! Try and try to earn more money!

20 Apr 12

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64th respondent!!!

janedell @jndlponti (2402) • Philippines 20 Apr 12

Hi there. I started a topic that ask something about the number of responses. Then their is this lady who responded to me that she had been experiencing a lot of responses with her started discussion. Yes too I check on her...

money

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shirley2all Wow really so hot. Can you share with us which topic.So far I hvnt got so many responses. Let us try and achieve gradually.

20 Apr 12

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how will i reach him?

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 20 Apr 12

Ok here it is, the plan for today was: 5pm birthday party of my friend... but i had to cancel going there are my other best friend says she cannot come as she is feeling well and so i told her i won't be going as well..as i do...

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shirley2all Oh,time shows you should have managed your case.So what happened at that time? I supposed you went to soccer area and informed him.

20 Apr 12

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I can't sleep at noon.

vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 17 Apr 12

Hello myloters! To day, I have many task in my job so I can go to bed at noon, so I am tired now, I am sleepy and I want to lie to sleep on my desk now.

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shirley2all Just try to finish asap then you can go to bed immediately.First take a cup of coffee lol.

18 Apr 12

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It's empty!

Toni @toniganzon (72517) • Philippines 17 Apr 12

Every morning, the first thing i do when i wake up is to check my phone for messages. I always have messages in the morning, like emails, IMs, and text messages. But to my surprise, i've got nothing today. So i thought there must...

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shirley2all Take it easy.You powered off your phone at night?

18 Apr 12

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Transport.

vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 17 Apr 12

In my country, they use many motorbike, motorcycle to traffic. When we use motorbike oor motorcycle, they defecate more and more poison gas and dust. But in my country, motorbike is very comfotable to traffic because bus is not...

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shirley2all We are always sufferring traffic jam in our city especially at work-on and work-off time during week days.Only bus and subway for choice.

18 Apr 12

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I need to fight this!

annrielyn_03 @annrielyn_03 (350) • Philippines 1 Apr 12

Hi mylotters. just want to get some advice from you. I'm currently having this feeling of coldness in my husband. Since we started working in different company. I used to go to office by 8:30 am to 5:30pm every monday to friday...

coldness

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shirley2all Talk to husband about this. Normally husband are not so sensitive as wife when they concentrated on work.You both can talk and find ways to enjoy family day even one day every week or twice a month in this case. It is up to you both.

1 Apr 12

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Ex Friends

sierranicole24 @sierranicole24 (71) • United States 1 Apr 12

I recently lost two of my friends. The one was my best friend and roommate and the other was my boyfriend's best friend who is also my friend. So here's the story. One day my roommate decided to move out without telling me. I came...

exfriends

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shirley2all Try to check out what is the problem? Otherwise better give up. As you said you are one of the nicest people, dont let yourself down if that is not your fault.Let their choice be.

1 Apr 12

Should men also get paternity leave from work?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94914) • United States 31 Mar 12

I don't have any kids but when I do have kids along the line, I think it would be nice if my future-husband-to-be will also be on paternity leave to be with the child. It would be important to me that both mother and husband are...

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shirley2all In China men are allowed 15-20 days for perternity leave. I think it is reasonable and necessary to enjoy the holiday and welcome new babies.

1 Apr 12