sonrisa42

@sonrisa42 (69)

United States • Age 59

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Are we scared to help a dying man?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 8 Jan 10

Today, one most gruesome incident has left me shocked. A cop was attacked, knifed, the convoy of minister who happened to pass by stayed safe, photos are being shot, the whole incident was being filmed but no one, NO ONE came for...

courage

humanity

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sonrisa42 I believe the answer to that is that both questions are, yes many are scared and humanity and courage to help our fellow man is something of the past. There are many that are afraid to help for the obvious reasons of not wanting to catch anything, afraid of...

9 Jan 10

MyLotter's my Husband wants You to Know

CoffeeAnyone @CoffeeAnyone (3210) • Canada 24 Oct 09

If you read my discussion on adult son returns home my husband would like you to know the full senario as he thinks your comments might be different. So here goes. My husband and I are in a second marriage together. My husband...

adult children return home

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sonrisa42 My opinion is that his actions are unacceptable. No responsible person really interested in finding a job starts job hunting at 4pm. He is 25 years old not 16. He is an adult and should start acting like it. I understand about the financial problems and...

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kids and spanking

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 5 Oct 09

I just read somewhere here that kids that get spanked often have problems growing up. Is this true? The way kids act these days I feel that they just need a little spanking. When I was growing up, spanking was the punishment of...

kids

punishment

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sonrisa42 Good Evening Bounce First of all, let's make clear that we are taling about a spanking and not abuse. Personally for me (I can only talk for myself) I feel that God has given me a brain and good common sense to punish my children without having to hit...

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All Innocent Fun....Am I In The Wrong?

MarleneDawn @MarleneDawn (49) • United States 29 Apr 09

This girl who is ignorant & dumber than a box of rocks will comment on my status, pics, just everything on facebook & her comments show her ignorance. Every once in awhile my twin sister & I will take her ignorant comments & run...

comedian

fun

ignorant

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sonrisa42 The answer is very simple. How would you feel if your sister, mom, daughter etc was being treated in the way that you are treating this person. Would you like it? Would you think it's a funny joke that someone else was having a good time at the expense of your...

29 Apr 09

Question: Would you rather be rich or Famous? Why?

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 24 Apr 09

Hi, Mylottors, I saw this question from a book, and i start thinking about this, will i rather be rich or famous? This question is about choose the wealth and fame. I think i would rather be rich. Why? If i am rich, i have enough...

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sonrisa42 I would most definetely rather be rich than famous. I would never like to be famous at all. I would not like all that attention, cameras following me around everywhere I went and people prying into my private life. As many of mylotters have said, having money...

25 Apr 09

Are you close to your family?

Tamarama34 @Tamarama34 (240) • Canada 21 Apr 09

My family and I used to be very close. We always had family get togethers on holidays and it was always great. Then things changed. I grew up, moved out, had problems, moved back in, then when my two kids hit 3 and...

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sonrisa42 I have had times in my life that I have been close to my family and other times when I have not. At the moment my family and I do not do too many things together or get together for holidays as they are of different religious beliefs and do not celebrate...

22 Apr 09

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do you think there is some one that can control ourself?

fwangaa @fwangaa (3057) • China 17 Apr 09

i don't know, do you think, and explain it to me? thanks a lot.

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sonrisa42 You can be controlled if you are not careful and sometimes by the ones you love the most. We like to go around thinking that people always have what's best in mind for us but that is not always the case. There are people out there that are real good at...

18 Apr 09

Does anyone play on iwon?

temptjess @temptjess (48) • United States 18 Apr 09

I just wanted to know if anyone played on iwon before it is a great place for people who like playing online games and just plain having fun.

games

internet

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sonrisa42 I have an account with iwon and I enjoy most of the games. It's nice to chat with some of the people while playing. I'm not really sure if anyone really wins on website. I go in with mentality that no one really wins but it's an ok place to go and play some...

18 Apr 09

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Can I get him back, and should I even try.

babytaffster @babytaffster (2237) • Chatsworth, California 5 Apr 09

My boyfriend and I broke up. He is now with my friend! He said he loved me (and still does) but now he knows he loves her. I both hate him and love him right now. He has been sending me mixed messages like "I love her, she's the...

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sonrisa42 RUN...GIRL...RUN Any guy that would go out with your friend first of all is not worth going after. Even if the two of you get back together, will you ever be able not to wonder what he is thinking everytime he says hi to one of your girlfriends???? He says...

5 Apr 09

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Do You Think it is Wrong to not Believe in God?

bloo_equinox @bloo_equinox (422) • United States 5 Apr 09

Well, I don't think it's wrong. I think that if you know in your heart that you are a good person, if you are doing what you believe is right, and if you are not enflicting any harm in doing what you think is right, then you are...

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sonrisa42 A friend once said to me "If you believe in God and in the end, he does not exist, what have you lost? But if you do not believe in God and in the end he does exist, what will you do and how would you feel then?" I believe in God, I always have and I know he...

5 Apr 09

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What Do You Say To A Friend Whose Husband is an Alcoholic?

freeforlife @freeforlife (21) • United States 5 Apr 09

My best friend is married to a raging drunk. He drinks from the time he gets off work till the time he goes to bed. The Alcohol has become more important to him than his wife and his kids. I try to offer advice, but I try to steer...

friendship

relationships

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sonrisa42 Hi Free If this was my friend and they had the means to move out and make a life for themself and their kids, then I would tell her to move out. I would explain to her that this will be hard and difficult but that in the long run it is for the best. As long...

5 Apr 09

Can anyone REALLY afford cobra insurance?

theresa64055 @theresa64055 (264) • United States 5 Apr 09

Ok here is my question. Can anyone REALLY afford cobra insurance? No matter what Cobra is just a joke. Cobra insurance cost $900.00 when I lost my job, guess what I made in unemployment $135.00 a week. UMMM, who can afford cobra....

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sonrisa42 I totally agree with you that Cobra is a joke. The amount that one has to pay is ridiculous next to the amount the person is getting. When a person is on Cobra it is because they are either between jobs (which means they do not have a lot of money) or because...

5 Apr 09

Do you feel bad when you're not working ?

Bluepatch @Bluepatch (2476) • Trinidad And Tobago 20 Mar 09

Right now I'm on sick leave I've been ordered to take. I wander around because I'm not bedridden but feel awful about not working. Its as if I'm cheating with time on my regular job. Do you feek this way when you can't work but...

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sonrisa42 Bluepatch I don't think that you should feel as if you are cheating on your job. You said it yourself that you were ordered to take the sick leave. So unless you lied in order to make you have to take sick leave, it would seem to me that you didn't have a...

20 Mar 09

Do you discriminate people belonging to other relegion?

nikky28 @nikky28 (1572) • India 14 Mar 09

Do you think your religion is superior to others? Do you treat the other person differently because of his religion? Do you consider that religion has a lot to do with how a person behaves?

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sonrisa42 I have a personal saying that I live my life by "I am not better than anyone else, but no one else is better than me". In other words, we are all the same. We must remember that God did not invent religions, man did. We are taught that we should not judge...

14 Mar 09

how often do you eat pizza

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 13 Mar 09

how often do you eat pizza..whether it is fast food or made yourself i eat pizza about once every 2 weeks. sometimes more. all depends on what my hubby is craving

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sonrisa42 If it was totally left up to me, I would love to have Pizza 3 or 4 times a week but because it would not be good health wise, I have it once a week. I always order it out and I will get it from different places, all depending what I feel like (deep dish,...

13 Mar 09

Would you take back someone you broke up with for a year ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 13 Mar 09

Or do you believe that once its over its over .The reason I am asking is that ,there is this girl I used to pursue at my workplace. I was really excited about her because I thought then that she was the perfect girl and we were...

richochet lover

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sonrisa42 No,I would not. You said yourself that she turned out to be different than what you thought. Did she do a 180 degree change and is now the woman that you want to be with. Plus there is always the chance that when she gets bored that she will leave you again...

13 Mar 09

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Turning off the Heat to the Elderly

ldybgsgma99 @ldybgsgma99 (798) • United States 18 Feb 09

My mother and stepdad live in Sheffield England in what would be considered federal housing here. They have to pay a very expensive rent to live in this tiny little apartment. They pay a separate amount for their heat and hot...

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sonrisa42 If I were you I would talk to an attorney about this because to me this sounds illegal. I would be very surprised to find out that this is legal to shut off someone's hot water and heat in the manner that they are doing it especially if your mom and stepdad...

18 Feb 09

Would you report your friend?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 17 Feb 09

A thought have passed through my mind, that of reporting my friend for child neglect. I recently learned that my friend has left her 8 year old son with 103C fever and his three year old child at home all alone unsupervised. It...

child neglect

friend

loyalty

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sonrisa42 ABSOLUTELY! Your friend is not displaying the qualities that a mother should. There is no reason in the world good enough to leave a eight year old (especially with 103 fever) with a three year old home alone for an hour, not even ten minutes. We moms all know...

18 Feb 09

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