stella_muse

@stella_muse (15)

United States • Age 60

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Mamma Mia!

drshivers @drshivers (14) • United States 20 Mar 09

Has anyone seen "Mamma Mia" ? I've rented it and my husband thinks I'm purposly trying to torture him with the Abba music. It looks cute! Should I just give up and watch it alone??

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stella_muse Of course you should watch it alone. This movie got fans all over the world so I think it worth watching it. I liked this movie - it's cute, big stars, good love story and great music. Try it.

20 Mar 09

Telling lies not to hurt others feelings

Niah @Niah1976 (739) • Paranaque, Philippines 20 Mar 09

I am the kind of person who don't wanna hurt my friends. So when they asked me if hey look good, i will say yes even if they don't. I always say that they're pretty eventhough it's not true. It's because i want to boost their...

friends

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stella_muse You are not lying you are just trying to be polite and tactfull. Besides tastes differ and what you thinks is ugly may look beautiful for others. I'm sure they ask you if they look good not to be critisized but encouriged. You are a good friend and a very...

20 Mar 09

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Feel shy with it!

hanah87 @hanah87 (1835) • Malaysia 20 Mar 09

I have an ashtma disease.It is not too bad.It happenend to me when i sleep everynight,I will make a noise breathing.I have take a medicine but do not have good result.It happen when i sleep at night everyday.My friend always tease...

shame

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stella_muse Don't call them friends first of all. Friends are supportive and what you have are just people you happened to be close, and not good ones by the way. More you are reacting to their teasing worse they will tease you. So try not to give them such pleasure,...

20 Mar 09

What is a midlife crisis?

IBR789 @IBR789 (12) • United States 8 Mar 09

Do you think a midlife crisis is when one finnaly realizes that he or she is not invincible and that death is inevitable?

death

midlife crisis

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stella_muse That death is inevitable I realized when I was 5. I was crying and crying before falling asleep thinking of mom and dad and other beloved people who might eventually die and leave me. So I think many people realize that they are not immortal earlier than...

20 Mar 09

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It's my birthday

lilwonders @lilwonders456 (8214) • United States 20 Mar 09

Well another year older. I can't say I am terribly excited about it. 34 wow. Whatever happened to 24 or even 25. I took 30 really hard and it has gotten worse every year sence then. How about you? Are you excited to be another...

aging

birthdays

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stella_muse Happy Birhtday! 34 is nothing really, life starts at 40, people say. I'm 44 and feel much better than when I was 17. I would never agree to be a teenager again! Lots of problems, lots of complexes.... trying to find your way in life and people...

20 Mar 09

what do you think about international marriage?

cassandradab @cassandradab (400) • South Korea 20 Mar 09

cultural differences can definitely cause tension in marriage,but if the two couple have a solid friendship and are sure that they want to spend their lives together, come what may,they will surely be able to face any challenges...

marriage

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stella_muse I'm Russian and my husband is American. So I moved to the US for him. What I can say? People are people all over the world. Certainly, there are some differences in culture and way of life but if you're in love it's nothing.

20 Mar 09

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do you buy online?

patialvi @patialvi (715) • India 20 Mar 09

now a days as e-shopping is more into business and sites like ebay and others are providing good range of products. do you buy online or go to shopping malls. I use both. When i am free i use to visit mall or else i try to shop...

online shopping

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stella_muse I love shopping online to tell the truth. First, the choice is really increadible, second it's easier to find discounts and if I find smth really nice, with 75% discounts, for example, it just thrills me. Mall for me is more like entertainment. The way...

20 Mar 09

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How can one get out of breakups

abhi_abhi @abhi_abhi (61) • India 20 Mar 09

Well we all know that after breakup life becomes miserable. so please share your valuable comments for overcoming this situations.

breakup

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stella_muse First, love and spoil yourself a little bit. What things are you really enjoying in this life? Music, nature, bathtub with aroma candles? Think of that. Nobody will love you more than yourself and nobody knows better how to please you. Than go online...

20 Mar 09

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Is it enough in saying I love you to someone you love?

glaiztisay @glaiztisay (6) • Philippines 20 Mar 09

I am know in a situation or shall i say in a relationship which i dont know if its still love that the guy feels towards me. He always say that he loves me but I cant help to think, what if he doesn't meant it? The guy that Im...

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stella_muse Well, at list you know the truth and you don't have to guess if you are the only one for him or he is trying to get more friends. It depends on how much you love him and need him really. If you really love him you can go on and may be some day you'll be...

20 Mar 09

The love that was never yours..

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 19 Mar 09

Now what do you think about it? Say you were in love with someone. But from that point you knew it is not the real love as that person was never meant to b yours.The distance may be painful but your heart never stopped to love....

love

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stella_muse If your heart never stopped to love it must be a true love. And true love cannot be a mistake and also cannot be selfish. If you really love you want your beloved one to be happy even if it's not you hwo shares the happiness. So better not to think if it...

19 Mar 09