Steph8216

@Steph8216 (22)

United States • Age 39

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What is the right age to get married?

ChuckGel @ChuckGel (244) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I am just doubt on what's the proper age to enter a married life? Could you please answer meh?

right age

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Steph8216 I think it depends on the maturity level of the two entering in marriage.My husband was 22 and I was 20 when we got married. So in one sense age doesn't matter as long as you know it's going to be forever.

2 Feb 07

Water Sorting Game

aubrey @averygirl72 (38474) • Philippines 10 May 22

I'm glad I download this game on my phone. I want something fun and relaxing game to do in bed and something that will make me sleepy and put me to sleep. I feel relax playing this game but sometimes it can get hard too and a...

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Steph8216 I'm glad I download this game on my phone. I want something fun and relaxing game to do in bed and something that will make me sleepy and put me to sleep. I feel relax playing this game but sometimes it can get hard too and a little boring. It is effective and...

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Is the Drinking an Excuse?

SageMother @SageMother (2277) • United States 22 Jan 07

I am watching a situation that is getting out of hand. This couple got married a few years back. They were both heavy partiers at the time, lots of drinking and what not. They got married and had kids, he changed his habits...

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Steph8216 I don't think that it's okay for them to be harsh to her because she drinks. However, I don't agree with the drinking, especially if she's had kids. That isn't anyway kind of an example to give her kids except saying it's okay. I think that he should be fully...

23 Jan 07

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Lying to someone you love

jessmtiu @jessmtiu (251) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

Would you ever consider lying to someone you love? I don't have the right answer for this myself personally. I think it is never right to lie to anyone, but if telling the truth makes the other person feel bad, then maybe I would...

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Steph8216 If you lie once, then you lie over and over again. One white lie can lead to a lifetime of lies. Lie's can also kill a marriage. I wouldn't ever intentionally lie to my husband. If your significant other loves you enough he or she will understand. It's kind of...

23 Jan 07

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are you giving your mate a Valentine's gift?

annieja @annieja (589) • United States 12 Jan 07

i myself sometimes get my boyfriend something small. he usually buys me chocolates. i would prefer flowers, lol. it is kind of a mutual agreement that we don't buy anything and just go to a fancy restaurant. i do think it is...

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Steph8216 I agree with the flower comment. It is rediculous to spend that much money on something that won't last you longer than the week. However, one or two roses are okay with me. We usually try to go out to dinner or something. This year I don't know that we'll be...

23 Jan 07

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Good afternoon myLot

NJ Chicaa @NJChicaa (121655) • United States 30 Apr 22

Hello everyone. I hope your day is going well. It is 64 degrees F and sunny here at the Jersey Shore. I've got the windows open! My sleep was all messed up and I was awake for several hours in the middle of the night. I...

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Steph8216 Hello everyone. I hope your day is going well. It is 64 degrees F and sunny here at the Jersey Shore. I've got the windows open! My sleep was all messed up and I was awake for several hours in the middle of the night. I eventually fell asleep and didn't...

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Do you sleep in the same bed as your spouse?

catherIN @catherIN (430) • United States 23 Jan 07

This is not meant to be crude. I mean do you literally sleep in the same bad as your spouse? If not, why? I know several people that don't.One spouse sleeps on a couch or recliner.I even know one couple that have seperate...

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Steph8216 My husband and I sleep in the same bed. Honestly, I don't understand the couples that do sleep in seperate rooms. I mean, I know that some people have legitimate reasons to. I can't believe that it wouldn't affect a relationship in some way or another. My...

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Do You Believe That Women Should Be Allowed To Schedule C-Sections?

biwasaki @biwasaki (1745) • United States 22 Jan 07

I think the idea of women scheduling c-sections to avoid the pain of natural labor or to fit it into their schedule, is ridiculous. I believe that nature should be allowed to run its course and that the baby will arrive when its...

birth

scheduled births

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Steph8216 This is personally what I think. If it were me and my due date was around someone elses birthday or something I think it would be more special to be able to schedule it. For example, my great-grandmother's birthday is the 27th of June and I'm due on July 4th....

23 Jan 07

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Has Anyone Else Experienced Swelling During Pregnancy?

biwasaki @biwasaki (1745) • United States 10 Jan 07

With my first two pregnancies, I didn't swell at all. I could pretty much eat and drink what I wanted and had no problems whatsoever. A few days ago I noticed that my feet and ankles were really swollen. I attributed that to...

remedies

swelling during pregnancy

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Steph8216 I have actually heard that swelling is normal, especially the last few months of pregnancy. I'm on my 17 week of being pregnant for the first time so I don't have a whole lot of experience but I've had tons of friends who've had babies here recently. They've...

23 Jan 07

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Cain & Abel?

nw1911guy @nw1911guy (1131) • United States 23 Jan 07

Ok so I have a question about the bible that noone has yet answered to my satisfaction(in other words pointed out in the book) one question I have. Here we go: From the Book of Genesis: Adam and Eve bore Cain and Abel. Cain...

reading

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Steph8216 I am not Steph8216, but her husband. Interesting question you have Mr. nw1911guy. My question to you is why is this important in comparison to where will you or I spend eternity? I figure if God meant it to be important then he would have explained who and...

23 Jan 07

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Midwest ice storm caused loss of jobs...your opinion

Steph8216 @Steph8216 (22) • United States 20 Jan 07

I'm blessed to be able to work at home, however, those who aren't have been fired because of the ice storm and the inability to get to work. A local lady was fired this week because she was not able to get to work after the ice...

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I really need some help from any teacher, parents or psychologist

slanderson52 @slanderson52 (542) • United States 19 Jan 07

Please help me if you can. My grandson, who is 6 and in the 1st grade, has a problem with being touched. I really think he has a medical problem but so far no concrete diagnosis. When his mother went unexpectedly to his school...

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Steph8216 I'm not a teacher, parent or psychologist but I am someone who knows a little about this. It sounds to me as if something has happened at school to make him skittish like this. It does not sound like a medical problem but could very well turn into one if it is...

20 Jan 07

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Remember your first CRUSH?

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 20 Jan 07

Hi my friends do you really remember your first crush. wanna hear mine. I was sitting with my mamma in train.And this guy walked in.He was so stunning.A hunk.I was looking at him without taking my eyes off him.But he never even...

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Steph8216 My first crush ended up being my husband. I saw him for the first time in the church I was going to almost eight years ago. I didn't take my eyes off him all night long. It was a lock-in so I literally didn't take my eyes off him all night long. We started...

20 Jan 07

When you dont feel like cooking, whats your favorite fast food restaurant?

ShayMorris @ShayMorris (163) • United States 19 Jan 07

I know there are days that you just REALLY dont feel like cooking. Do you have a favorite fast food restaurant you like to eat at? Do you eat there because they have a "value menu", or because you REALLY like the food? I love...

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Steph8216 Our favorite fast food restaurant around here is Taco Bell. We used to eat there at least two to three times a week. It's changed a little because I'm pregnant now and it's not the healthiest food and I have heartburn galore. But we do really like it,...

20 Jan 07

Am I a bad mother? What is wrong with me?

CheckNitout @CheckNitout (853) • United States 19 Jan 07

I am a stay at home mother of a three year old and a two year old. I love them dearly and usually we play and learn all day. Lately I just find everything they do sooooo annoying. My son doesn't have much of a vocabulary yet...

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Steph8216 I don't have kids of my own yet. In fact, I'm five months pregnant with our first. I do however stay at home and watch my five month old cousin eight to nine hours a day and I also get frustrated sometimes. My advice would be to take a day every other week or...

20 Jan 07

Wedding; disaster or great?

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 19 Jan 07

What was your wedding like; did it go as planned or did you have disaster after another happen? When I got married I invited 450 people, 500+ showed up, I made all of my flower arangements including mine (I just loved it), and...

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Steph8216 My wedding was great. There were definately some mishaps and mess-ups, but things happen. We had been planning this huge wedding for a year and a half and it was finally here. The first thing that happened was that the girl who was doing my hair made me an...

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Have you still got your wedding dress?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 19 Jan 07

Well, have you still got it? Would you like to wear it again? I still have mine. I'd give anything to wear it again. So much so that I was thinking of organising a Wedding Dress Ball for charity. People could wear their wedding...

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Steph8216 I just got married 8 months ago so yes I still have my wedding dress. And I would love to be able to wear it again. However, I'm 5 months pregnant now so being able to fit into my wedding dress would be a question to consider on my part. Hopefully someday...

20 Jan 07

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Do You Have a Fear Spiders???

Alexandria37 @Alexandria37 (5717) • Ireland 19 Jan 07

I don't mean black widows or anything like that. I mean the big black spider that crawls up your walls and runs across the bedroom floor while you are reading, and by the time you find your slippers to trample it to death, the...

do you have a fear spiders

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Steph8216 I have a huge fear of spiders. I don't care what kind of spiders they are, they all creap me out. In fact I'll tell you an experience. About a month ago I was laying in bed that morning, I turned over to see one of those creapy crawly things crawling down the...

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