surajben

@surajben (262)

India • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Is Kerala,GOD's own Country?

ajeshmj @ajeshmj (54) • India 31 May 09

Our state is gifted with many things.It is gifted with many things naturally.But r we preserving our gifted land. I think we are not using it well. What all u think to make it meaningfull.

gods own contry

kerala

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surajben Kerala, is Gods own country, but full of devils. I mean this because of the corruption, the policemen, the government officials. These said to be people behave like devils.

28 Jun 09

Will you taste food if...

candy2306 @candy2306 (576) • India 27 Jun 09

Will you try new food that you've never tasted before? Myself I don't eat either beef or pork. But when I'm travelling, I don't mind trying new food for the sake of tasting it. Last year, my husband and I took a small holiday...

never tasted before

new food

sake of tasting

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surajben Food is something that i like very much and i always like to try new dishes.

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Going To The Theater: By Yourself Or With A Friend?

Deborah L. Alten @gtargirl (5376) • United States 20 Jun 09

I was married for fifteen years and now, sadly, divorced for the last seven. A few days ago I realized that I don't think I've ever gone to see a movie by myself. For that matter, I've never gone solo to a restaurant either. Is...

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surajben I do not like to go out by myself. I enjoy going out or watching movies with a company.

27 Jun 09

Does Being Extra Careful pay ??

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 24 Jun 09

Well after a severe viral disease came to mylot this evening. I was literally weak and weak and weak and finally had to succumb to Saline injection. And now a bit ok to have tat- a- tat with you all. Yesterday as I was too...

being extra careful

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surajben We should be careful with our life. who else cares for us.

24 Jun 09

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do you like your girlfriend/boyfriend skinny or with love handles?

oyenkai @oyenkai (4394) • Philippines 19 Jun 09

I read in a magazine that the modern women's ideal body (based on what they see in televisions/internet/Hollywood,etc.) is actually TOO THIN according to the taste of a majority of guys. I wonder if you like your...

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surajben Being thin makes us look beautiful and also keeps us healthy.

24 Jun 09

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Which is great?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 24 Jun 09

The Great wall of China was made much before the Tajmahal was built. Now my question out of these two (if you have seen both) which would you give more credit to - is it Great wall of China or the Shahjahan made Tajmahal?

which is great

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surajben I have seen both through pictures only and so i cannot give the right assessment, but i would prefer to say the Taj Mahal being an Indian.

24 Jun 09

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what's up with this site

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 18 Jun 09

Have you heard about the new goings on at ciao, they are dropping their .com and going with bing.com, no mention about if canadians can join, americans can or anyone from the UK, they are supposed to be sending everyone...

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surajben Could you please tell me what this Ciao is?

18 Jun 09

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3am is the devil's hour - belive it? do you wake up in the middle of your sleep?

oyenkai @oyenkai (4394) • Philippines 16 Jun 09

I heard that 3am is the devil's hour when I saw a clip from The Exorcist. The priest says that it's the devil mocking The Hour of Christ's Death (3pm). I don't/never watch horror films because I get nightmares for weeks and I...

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surajben I do not like to wake up in between sleep. If i do so, it would not be easy for me to go back to sleep. I have woken up many times during 3 a.m. and i have not seen any ghost. Is there something called a ghost !!!

17 Jun 09

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When do you reach payout?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 8 May 09

I don't reach payout every month. I am trying to reach payout every other month. When do you reach payout? Do you reach payout every month? Are you an active member?

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surajben I have just started to be an active member. I have not reached my first payout yet.

13 Jun 09

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Does your parents practice favoritism in your family?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 10 Jun 09

Though not in my family but I observe it from my mother in law. As far as I knew since they were young ( my wife's side), their mother obviously practiced it already. Showing more favor and extending more support mostly to one of...

dependent

favoristism

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surajben Favoritism is there in every family, but it is not a good practice. My father shows favoritism to my brother, which really hurts me. So i am careful that i do not show favoritism to my children because i know how much this would hurt them. Favoritism really...

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Who do you think is the most beautiful girl in the world?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 5 May 09

Whom do you think you love the most and who do you think is the most beautiful girl in the world?

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surajben There are a lot of beautiful girls in this world, and if i say someone is the most beautiful girl today then tomorrow i will have to change it.

11 Jun 09

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I got new job with less pay

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 27 Apr 09

As you all know I was terminated from my previous job, but now I got a new job with less pay. My previous salary was Rs 12,000 and when I was depromoted my salary changed from Rs 12,000 to Rs 9,000 and now my new salary is Rs...

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surajben Losing a job is not anything bad, it happens with most of us. What ever happened has happened because there is something good to come. Cheer up and have faith.

11 Jun 09

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How to stop corruption?

biman_s @biman_s (1060) • India 30 May 09

I live in India where corruption has eaten away almost everything. No matter what you do you will always find corruption in the system. I know this is a disgrace and we, the people of our country are responsible for this. What...

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surajben Nobody would like corruption. The only way to get rid of corruption is to punish the people severely in the way that others get afraid.

6 Jun 09

Are Parents Too Soft On Their Kids?

queenlove @queenlove (495) • United States 6 Jun 09

This is a controversial question. However, I have to say YES! I think that parents these days do not practice enough authority when dealing with their children. Parents are too busy trying to be a child's friend and that is not...

parenting

parents

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surajben As years pass by, we should also change accordingly. Nowadays, children learn things faster. They need freedom, love, care. It can be given to them by no one else other than us. If we are rude with our children they will be rude with the people they meet...

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Are you one who post pictures in Mylot when you start a new discussion?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 5 Jun 09

I take a look in discussions here, and i saw that not to many people use the pictures when they start or answer new discussions. Do you think that is nice to use pictures? Count for you? And if you use some pictures you all...

mylot

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surajben I always post a picture when i start a new discussion. I think it is wise to do so because sometimes the titles that we give for the discussion may not be attractive so people might ignore the discussion, but sometimes even though the title is not good people...

5 Jun 09

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What is your take on your upcoming death?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 31 May 09

Well life and death - two sides of a coin. Once born must die. Sometime when I think about my death I fancy how would it feel for I would no longer be there as I am now. Besides how would death approach me and how would be the...

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surajben I have thought many times about death. Death is something that i think no body would like if it happens to ourselves or to people we know and do not know. I do not think that anybody would know what happens after death.

1 Jun 09

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Are you the type who tends to criticize everyone including yourself?

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 29 May 09

If you ask me if or not I criticize other I would say "I do but not in excess and I do not back bite". This is human nature and we can hardly get mastery over this. Now who has more expertise on this field is a debatable...

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surajben Yes, I do criticize others and myself. Criticizing is liking correcting a person if taken in good sense. We should point out things for other people to understand. A good critic would be a well wisher. Making fun is not criticizing.

29 May 09

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What is your goal for myLot in this month?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 8 May 09

I am planning to reach 4000 discussion in this month. I am right now near to 3000 discussions. What is your goal for myLot this month?

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surajben I am planning to receive my first payment through mylot this month. I wonder how you have time for such big number of discussions. I think i must also spend more time on mylot, but only after i receive my first payment will i have the wish to earn more i...

29 May 09

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Life

dhanyatnair @dhanyatnair (23) • India 28 May 09

As we all know that our life is running very fast. We have no time for anything. Our life is always filled with lot of tensions and things like that. No one is having time to spent with their families. In my opinion, although in...

busy life

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surajben What ever tension or however busy we are we must find some time for our family and friends. Love grows when shared. Money alone does not make life, so there is no point in always being busy.

29 May 09