swapnanair_35

@swapnanair_35 (21)

India • Age 52

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Please, please STOP posting discussions about leaving myLot !!!!!!!

Stiletto @Stiletto (4579) 30 Mar 07

..it's driving me nuts!! Every other "discussion" seems to be someone announcing they're leaving myLot. Why? I don't mean why are they leaving - I mean why do they feel the need to announce it in that way? If you're leaving then...

leaving mylot

mylot

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swapnanair_35 Let the guys/gals who put theit post regarding leaving mylot go on doing it. How does it matter to like-minded people like you and me. After all ,it is a forum where they are free to air their feelings. And if they are doing it to garner some monetary...

31 Mar 07

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The Cat is out of the Bag!

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 30 Mar 07

Hubby was a little upset with the fact that I spent most of yesterday afternoon running my daughter around to her appointments. He got a bit upset over it. But, soon backed down when I told him that she gave me gas money. I then...

generosity

husbands

relationships

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swapnanair_35 You have a practical outlook to issues in life and common sense seem to be another virtu you are blessed with. And since your hubby also seems to be open to the idea of accepting divergent ideas,so long as they are backed with logic, what more can you ask for?...

31 Mar 07

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Nicknames- Is it ethical?

kastor003 @kastor003 (364) • India 29 Mar 07

Today we notice many persons get nick names even which they don't like to have in colleges,streets,parties etc. places given to them by their friends or other persons who want to tease them using these .For example people call a...

ethics

fatty

nickname

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swapnanair_35 Generally, nicknames are added to a person based on either his physical attributes, distinct character traits,some incidents or for the heck of it. There is nothing ethical or unethical in the use of nicknames. In fact, this is the way friends addres each...

29 Mar 07

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mother or wife first???

keng_ganda @keng_ganda (74) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

if both your kid and your husband demands attention from you at the same time and you can only cater to one of them, would you be a mother or a wife first? sometimes it's really exhausting being both...

mother

wife

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swapnanair_35 The answer is obvious. The kid takes top priority, for both of you.specially for you. remember, the kid is the one who needs total attention . Your hubby and all else comes later. Without your attention, the husband will be OK.But not the kid. Maybe, he may...

29 Mar 07

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What a world!

Kayleena @Kayleena (80) • Canada 28 Mar 07

Are appearances all that matter? I’m so angry right now! Why are people acting this way these days? I went to a job interview today, and they told me they didn’t want to hire me because I don’t have a beautiful smile. I know my...

life

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swapnanair_35 Personally, I feel you are better off not having landed that job. Because obviously they were probably looking for qualities other than professional abilities or acumen. Such a recruiting policy is indicative of hollow ethics and a total lack of foresight....

29 Mar 07

is it better to have a foreign coach or an indian coach for indian team

harsha_kak @harsha_kak (241) • India 29 Mar 07

hey who do u think will be the best coach

cricket

indian cricket

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swapnanair_35 Like Mr narayanamurthy of Infosys says, it does not matter who the coach is or whether he is an Indian or a foreigner. it is more a question of setting up a system, the ground rules and the objective being well defined. Thereafter,it is the aspect of selecting...

29 Mar 07

Do you do your own yard maintenance or do you pay someone to do it for you?

lynninky @lynninky (491) • United States 27 Mar 07

Just wondering if you do without some else in order to pay someone else to keep your yard looking good ? Do you do it yourself because you like it, you can't afford to pay someone to do it for you, you have a dirt yard because you...

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swapnanair_35 I genuinely like to look after my yard. In fact that is where I have locatred my kitchen garden and my assorted collection of Bonsai. Since most of my leisure time is spent here, I obviously like to keep it neat and well maintained. I do it out of sheer...

29 Mar 07

300 movie

yojspew @yojspew (171) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

Who among you have watched the movie 300? What do you think of it? I haven't seen the movie yet. My friends say it's a good movie but when I tried to check out the reviews, I was pretty amazed to found out that most of the...

300

history

movies

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swapnanair_35 The movie as such is good, as far as cnematography and visual effects are concerned. It is also good if you love the sort of violent flicks that hit theatres once in a while. See it just as a action movie and you may not feel that disappointed. The...

29 Mar 07

The Story of Two Houses!

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 28 Mar 07

I got this in an email and thought I'd share it. It is very interesting! The Story of Two Houses LOOK OVER THE DESCRIPTIONS OF THE FOLLOWING TWO HOUSES AND SEE IF YOU CAN TELL WHICH BELONGS TO AN...

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swapnanair_35 Going by public pronouncements and image, I never thought Bush would be such an active practitioner of Environmental concerns.In fact, its the other way round. I always thought Al Gore was a genuine environmentalist and thought of him in high esteem. This sure...

29 Mar 07

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mean, evil & rotten!

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 28 Mar 07

PLEASE TAKE NOTE I was approached yesterday afternoon around 3.30pm in the Coles parking lot at Miranda by two males, asking what kind of perfume I was wearing. (NB; this isn't inWestfield , it is down the road) Then...

crime

rogues

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swapnanair_35 Hello tickle, Had you alerted the parking lot attendant atleast those two guys would have been in the cooler. And the ladies in Queensland,perth and Melbourne would'nt have been releived of their belongings. You are among the fortunate few who may have had a...

28 Mar 07

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Is There Anywhere To Run To?

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 28 Mar 07

If you were stuck or felt trapped living with a person and one day things got too much and you had to leave, is there anywhere you could go? Is there an escape, some other place where you could live? What if you were unemployed...

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swapnanair_35 Hello wolfie, If i ever got to the stage wherein I felt like I was stuck with a relationship,I would first take all necessqaary measures to resolve the problem. I would prefer to deal with the problem head on. I would break the problem in to smaller problems...

28 Mar 07

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Does God take Notes!

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 27 Mar 07

For the last 6 years, there has been so much going on in my life with ex's, mother in laws, kids, family etc. I am trying to do good and listen to the way that God wants us to be, I hold my tongue and just go with the flow not...

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swapnanair_35 Dear minerc, It is highly unlikey that God takes notes or does anything like that. However, one thing is for sure. In life a good deed always gets reciprocated by some means or the other. I mean things even out over a period of time. As for those who have...

28 Mar 07

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Husband talking to a Thirteen year old girl

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 27 Mar 07

Please Don't Judge me because of this: Okay I can't keep this in any longer! Some of you may already know of this if you have visited my blog. My husband has been talking to a thirteen year old girl. She thinks and seems older...

cell phone number

husband

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swapnanair_35 Hello Princeworthy, As far as the teenager is concerned she is absolutely no threat to you. Considering that she smokes,drinks and consumes drugs regularly, it is unlikey that your husband will continue this relationship much longer. At best it could be a...

27 Mar 07

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I need some support

MZChristina @MZChristina (11) • United States 20 Mar 07

Just 5 years ago I was hot smoking hot then I got with my man and got way to happy and comfortible 5 years later I have an awsome man and 2 gorgeous babies but a lot of unwanted pounds. How do you change eating habits and get back...

weightloss

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swapnanair_35 Dear Christina, 1. As far as encouraging stories go, I for one am a living example of getting back to shape after having two babies. But yes, I did take a few premeditated steps to ensure that I would not pick up more pounds than necessary. 2. so? during...

27 Mar 07

Would you risk you friendship over an abortion

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 26 Mar 07

My cousin who is also a great friend asked me to take her and although I love her to death and believe it is her choice I told her I could not take her. For personal reasons I thought she would understand but she is really mad at...

abortion

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swapnanair_35 It is not a matter of staking a friendship or a relationship over a principle. Your friend made a choice,which she is well within her right to do so. You as a friend could have supported her, or expressed your feelings (which you did)or could severe all...

26 Mar 07

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I just can't keep up....

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 25 Mar 07

My goodness! My children and this house wears me out!!! I know that so many of you probably feel the same way... I just can't keep up with everything. I have to learn to organize better or something because seriously, I just...

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swapnanair_35 Hi Stephanie, That's how I also feel at times,maybe quite a few times. That in fact is the beauty of motherhood and being a housewife. When the kids are around,you feel like they are driving you crazy,you just feel like throwing it all up. But again, the...

26 Mar 07

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