taraelocin

@taraelocin (1138)

Age 46

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Here we go again, gas prices rise

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 20 Apr 10

What are you doing about gas prices now that they are around $3.00? Is it easier this time because you learned to cope last time? To me it just doesn't seem as bad, I guess I've been conditioned to the changes.

questions and answers

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taraelocin There isn't all too much you can do,really. I need my car to get to work. I refuse to keep worrying about it as I don't have any control about it anyway. But I do try to drive sensibly, hence using less petrol.

20 Apr 10

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I'm sorry I've had guests

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 20 Apr 10

I've let many of my friends down, I just haven't been able to work on my lot and answer all your wonderful discussions. My time has been regulated toward the real world and I haven't been able to play in the virtural world of...

ready to play

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taraelocin Welcome back! Well, there isn't always enough time in the day to do everything you want to do. I haven't been here a lot recently myself - there is just too much happening in the outside world.

20 Apr 10

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Marriage -isit the beginning of destruction ???

theborneodew @theborneodew (68) • Malaysia 19 Apr 10

When two people are still in boyfriend/girlfriend level, there are so much love to each other, so much care.. Cant stand to be far away from each other. However, after marriage took place, things start to change. Sometimes after a...

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taraelocin I don't think it is marriage or the pressure of marriage destroying relationships. It's far more that the initial excitement goes out of the relationship. Adventure becomes routine. The unknown becomes predictable. And sometimes living so close together shows...

19 Apr 10

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Earthquake

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 15 Jan 10

I don't think the one in Haiti is not unusual, in the past several years there have been many quakes in different countries that have cost a large loss of human life. China has had several, but we don't get much news out of there...

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taraelocin It is terrible what's happening there, but unfortunately it is quite hard to always be prepared for all eventualities. Most countries have sent help quite quickly, but it is never going be enough. The damage is so massive that it will take a long time and a...

15 Jan 10

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Why do you love your boyfriend/girlfriend so much?

lilmuchang @lilmuchang (261) • France 15 Jan 10

I love my boyfriend because he's always goofy, he makes me laugh ( cry also at times ),he's not quite tall but not that short either, he's caring and takes care of me like i'm a princess, and of course because he's the handsomest...

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taraelocin That's difficult to pinpoint. I just love him - I like the allround package, not the individual parts that make him himself. But when I first fell in love with him, I think it was him humour, his intelligence linked to a cute shyness that made me fall for...

15 Jan 10

How cold is to cold to bring the kids out to play?

cmhjjh @cmhjjh (98) • United States 13 Jan 10

I live in WI and it gets cold. The kids need to get outside though and burn off some steam they are 4 and 1. I don't like to bring them out when it is colder than 30 mainly because I don't want to be outside when it is colder then...

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taraelocin Well, it depends. If it is cold, but dry, I wouldn't be too worried. You can wrap the kids up really warm. They'd only get bored in the house. But I'd probably limit it to 30 minutes or 1 hour max. If it is wet and rains though I think it is a different story....

13 Jan 10

"I LOVE U BECAUSE I NEED U" or I NEED U BECAUSE I LOVE YOU"...

hlgracey @hlgracey (68) • Philippines 13 Jan 10

For me id rather choose of needing the man u wanted because u love him rather than loving him because u just need him..there are some relationship that they just love their partner because of what they have not for what they...

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taraelocin For me to love someone because you need them is a rather selfish love. How much can and will you give back (and I am talking about feeling and emotion rather than material goods) to the person loving you if you are only with them for what they can give you.

13 Jan 10

stranded

ralphbrian @ralphbrian (110) • Philippines 13 Jan 10

Loving someone is too risky, you give up the most wonderful things but you still get hurts.You try to stand for it, and yet you fall once again. But then who says love is fair? It isn't and it never was. It was been a months...

love

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taraelocin It is hard and I hope you feel happier again soon. Disappointed love hurts so much because you invest so much feelings. But once you are with the right person you will get rewarded for investment your emotions.

13 Jan 10

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Encyclopedias a thing of the past?

macdingolinger @macdingolinger (10386) • United States 13 Jan 10

I was tutoring the other day and the material we were supposed to cover was using reference materials. The lesson was on using encyclopedias. This student looked at me and said, "What's an encyclopedia?" I was floored....

encyclopedia

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taraelocin It's true, the internet has largely replaced the use of encyclopedias. I have some old ones at home but haven't looked into them in a long time. I usually google things. That has the advantage that it contains more recent words and terms, is free and quick....

13 Jan 10

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What time you go outside your house for Work?

alohagems100 @alohagems100 (565) • United States 13 Jan 10

It's chilling cold here. I need to go out and drive for work. I hate this thing but for now, it is not under my control. lol. My work starts at 7:30 so I need tostart driving by 7 in the morning. I don't want to be late, I wanted...

driving

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taraelocin I leave about 7:45. Just like you I try to avoid the traffic which gets quite bad if I leave after 8. It adds at least half an hour to my journey. So I rather get to work earlier and work a bit more than sitting in a traffic jam!

13 Jan 10

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Do you guys think long-distance relationships work?

lilmuchang @lilmuchang (261) • France 13 Jan 10

Hi guys! Just want your opinion on long distance relationships. Both me and my boyfriend live in France, but we're 5 hours away from each other. I'm in Paris and my boyfriend is in Pau, in the south of France. We only see each...

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taraelocin They can work - I was in a distance relationship for quite a few years. But distance relationships are hard work. They require trust, but also committment. When you live so far apart you don't really share your friends and you need to make time to be with your...

13 Jan 10

spam, spam, spam, spam,spam

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 13 Jan 10

Hello, is anyone there? I need HELP. How the hell do i get to stop any SPAM MESSAGES, coming to my computer. I am sick and tired if this. Everyday, i get about 30 plus, spam messages. I just mark all and then DELETE...

berlina

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taraelocin You might have to invest in a spam filtering software if you don't have one yet. Also rather than just deleting the items highlight them and mark them as spam or add the sender to the blocked sender list. Your help function in your email software can tell you...

13 Jan 10

If you had one wish what would it be?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 13 Jan 10

I think I would wish that nothing alive would ever die.Death causes me to become very sad and depressed.I know people in this life do not live forever nor do our pets.It makes me sad.I hate watching the news and hearing that...

no death

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taraelocin Yours is a nice wish. But also a sad one. If nothing dies, there is no space for anything to get born. And that would be sad. My wish? If I am selfish: To get pregnant and become a mother. If I am altruistic: That all people could stop worrying and...

13 Jan 10

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Is 24hrs a day really sufficient?

luckymichelle @luckymichelle (170) • Singapore 13 Jan 10

Well for e busy city dwellers like many of us it seems we are always fighting for time and more time. given a busy agenda and mutiple roles ( parent, spouse, sibling, employee...e list goes on) more often than not we are...

24hrs a day

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taraelocin Yes! I know exactly what you mean - 24 hours don't seem enough to get everything done. But at the same time I am sure that adding a few hours per day we would just work more rather than play more. I am usually tired when I get to go to bed, so I am not sure I...

13 Jan 10

Looks vs personality

luckymichelle @luckymichelle (170) • Singapore 13 Jan 10

So whats e most important factor to look for in a partner? looks or personality? it is a true blessing to be well endowed in both departments..to be able to look stunning and yet have a personality that shines. Now if these two...

looks v personality

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taraelocin For me that's no question - personality is much more important. Of course it would be great to have both, but you usually can't have everything in life. And I rather am with a man with a good personality who I enjoy being with, rather than someone I like...

13 Jan 10

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Do emotions make you dumb or dumber

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 7 Jan 10

I have a friend, he and his girlfriend have broken their relationship, he has lost his job, is deeply in debit and while in the relationship he included her on all his accounts, ownership of his truck and a share in the care of...

conditions in life

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taraelocin 'Love is blind' - yes, it is true that emotions can make you oversee faults and weaknesses of another person. But it probably is more than just the emotions of love. It is all the good times you had together, the memories and the fear of having to start from...

7 Jan 10

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What is the purpose of our lives?

wahyuronaldo @wahyuronaldo (21) • Indonesia 2 Jan 10

For me happynes is everything. because happynes not for sell.

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taraelocin For me it is to be happy and to make other people happy - not to waste your life by not living it to the full. But happiness can be different for everyone.

2 Jan 10

fighting on christmas day

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 2 Jan 10

yeah, that is so sad. when fighting happens on christmas day, it is so sad. and that is exactly what happened to us. i will not say with whom or why, but i will just tell you that i got into a really violent verbal fight last...

life

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taraelocin That's so sad. I don't always get along with my family but we only spend those few days over Christmas together and if everyone makes an effort it should be possible to have a peaceful celebration. For us it is the one day a year when the whole family comes...

2 Jan 10

It went down the wrong throat ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 2 Jan 10

This is what we here on the island normally say when you are eating and the food goes up the nasal passage.By this time you are coughing like crazy and trying to dislodge it and all they can do is laugh and say [i]"food gone down...

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taraelocin It's in our family. My grandmother had the problem, my mother did and so do I. It's not with specific foods - it can be whilst drinking water, having a soup or eating chocolate or even meat. My gran always said it is because we are breathing not right and talk...

2 Jan 10

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My confession... have you nagged a friend to do something you didnt do yourself?

Wizzywig @Wizzywig (7847) 2 Jan 10

I mercilessly nagged a dear myLot friend to bring in his garden furniture before winter set in.... today, I provide conclusive incriminating photographic evidence showing that I just left mine out in the garden So...

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taraelocin I bet we are all guilty of that! I told my husband off before for not bringing the trash out. I realised my guilt when I came in a few days later and he looked at me with a raised eyebrow, than at the bin!

2 Jan 10

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