thekenj

@thekenj (78)

United States • Age 37

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Sould we blame the addicts?

Scarrlet @Scarrlet (168) • Ukraine 26 Jul 08

Drug, alcohol or food addicts: is it their fault, or is it society that made them like that? Do you feel guilty when people you know become addicts? what are your feelings when you see them on the street? I always feel sorry for...

addiction

attitude

help

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thekenj I truly believe that addiction comes from people lacking very important knowledge of themselves. Self love is a very, very noncomparable issue. You have to have self love in order to take care of YOU, as well as, demand respect from others. I do tend to feel...

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Now I know why I don't like pearls......

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 19 Jul 08

I have never been one to like pearls. I only have one piece that has pearls in it and it is a gold rope bracelet with pearls between the twisted gold. Well today I learned that when cultivating pearls in the new shapes that are...

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thekenj Pearls were never really my first choice of jewelry either.

19 Jul 08

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Now I know why I don't like pearls......

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 19 Jul 08

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thekenj That is some deep information. I never knew the process of how pearls were made, but I do think that is a cruel method to do it.

19 Jul 08

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different foods

thekenj @thekenj (78) • United States 4 Jul 08

is it just me or does anyone else have problems with eating different eccentric foods that you've never tried before?

eating

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thekenj Now that would be an adventure for me : BEING A VEGETARIAN. I should try that. I know it would only last a few days at the most. How long were you a vegetarian?

19 Jul 08

New addition to the family

crazy_ol_lady @crazy_ol_lady (1014) • United States 18 Jul 08

My daughter just had a C-section on Thursday. She had a baby boy who weighed in a 8lbs. 4 oz. and was 20 1/2 inches long. Mom had minor complications, but is recuperating well. Dad is very tired, and does not like to leave Mom for...

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thekenj I don't think there is anything to worry about especially if she seems to be so excited an accepting. I'm sure she'll be fine with him in her life. As far as the topic on a new addition to the family being a burden on an so far only child. That's up to the...

19 Jul 08

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What is your favorite pasta dish?

TessWhite @TessWhite (3146) • United States 19 Jul 08

My guy is Italian, so needless to say we eat alot of pasta. My favorite is a recipe he found in Bon Appetite. Its a Tuscan Ragu, where you simmer the sauce for hours. Its made with Italian sausage, carrots, celery, onions, garlic...

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thekenj My favorite pasta dishes are probably spaghetti and lasagna.

19 Jul 08

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ice cream

Talal159 @Talal159 (147) • Oman 19 Jul 08

For me I like eating ice cream in summer time. becuase summer seasion is very hot here. and ice crean is very cold. so it make me feel cool a little bit. so do you like to have ice cream in winter. for me I do not like in winter...

ice cream

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thekenj I like eating ice cream no matter what the season.

19 Jul 08

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Do you know any writing sites??

Ricky007 @Ricky007 (512) 18 Jul 08

PTC sites are very slow..Do any of your know any writing sites which pays for writing stuff?? Plz let me know..thnx

writing

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thekenj Thank you for that website. I visited and I'm thinking about joining it today.

19 Jul 08

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Do you know any writing sites??

Ricky007 @Ricky007 (512) 18 Jul 08

PTC sites are very slow..Do any of your know any writing sites which pays for writing stuff?? Plz let me know..thnx

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thekenj Thank you for that. I'm looking for writing opportunities, but I never thought to use a search engine for it.

19 Jul 08

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Love, trust and understanding

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 19 Jul 08

This three things are the basic foundation of relationship.Do you agree?

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thekenj I totally believe that these are the basic foundations of a positive relationship. Without these simple, yet complex things, no relationship can last too long.

19 Jul 08

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rap music

thekenj @thekenj (78) • United States 19 Jul 08

What do you think about rapper David Banner and his philantropist ideals and actions recently?

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music

rap

do you think rap music is bad for young people?

nataliemurie @nataliemurie (96) 11 Mar 08

personally I don't. I've listened to rap music since i was very young & it has not made me a violant person as people expect. please tell me what you think.

life

music

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thekenj I agree with you and I fall into the same category. My favorite rapper is Tupac. And that's been ever since I've started listening to rap when I was little. I think if you take the music too literal you'll get caught up in all the hype and feel like you need...

19 Jul 08

Suicidal...Girlfriend!

Odamashin @Odamashin (434) • Philippines 29 Jun 08

Hi guyz..what will you do if your girlfriend who always feel that she's not beautiful?..to the point that she always tell you that she want to commit suicide..that she wanna die because she's ugly!..i mean urghh..as if she would...

suicide

ugly

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thekenj I would definitely be trying to understand where this depression is coming from. It's very important to closely monitor a suicidal person. And every threat must be taken seriously. As someone very close to the depressed you have to be sure to keep her morale...

4 Jul 08

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If you are Married and Your Co-Worker is Too Friendly that...

Muelitz @Muelitz (1592) • Canada 4 Jul 08

some of your colleagues are thinking maybe there is something going on between the two of you but there is really none. What would you do? Would you avoid the person? Would do anything to avoid this situation or just ignore it...

friends

rumor

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thekenj I definitely wouldn't care what everybody else was thinking. But it's very important that you and this person be on the same page of knowing that nothing is going on between the two of you. I would make sure that I verbally express this in a very serious (not...

4 Jul 08

Your Daughter Is Pregnant, Would You Push Her.....

eihdra @eihdra (3115) • Philippines 28 May 08

To Marry Her Boyfriend??? Have an Abortion?? You found out that your daughter is 2 months pregnant. She's scared to tell you because she doesn't know what you will say and do..She's still a minor, so you have decisions to...

teenage pregnancy

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thekenj I think marriage and having a baby prior to marriage is not a good recipe. Getting married shouldn't come from having a child out of wedlock. Marriage will then seem expected and lack a few of it's key elements for the bride and groom. I don't believe in...

4 Jul 08

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How Do You Feel About Teens Wanting To Get Pregnant?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 3 Jul 08

I started watching the "Baby Borrowers" and I am fascinated by this show. It really shows the reality of what it's like to raise a child. This comes on the heels of a story that teen pregnancy is one the rise and that some teenage...

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thekenj Umm... this may sound a little strange but I often think ahead for situations like this one that you've posted. In the event that your child be it a daughter or son of yours should have a child on the way. I feel that you should clearly explain to your child...

4 Jul 08

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