theplanner

@theplanner (298)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 14 years ago

The look of love

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When you have too much emotions? How do you deal with it?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

Lately, I am feeling more confused than ever - I feel i have too much to say to my partner. We have been planning our wedding next year but he seems distant. I know he is not freaking out but I feel there are issues we need to...

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theplanner We all go through this kind of experience. Personally, what I do if I can't vent my emotions is to walk it. I walk when I feel stress to think about it and the possible solution to the problem and then I'll be at peace after I've done it. You can't solve...

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a baby found in an airlines trashbin???

acey76 @acey76 (1276) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

What are you comments about this? It was said that it belongs to a Filipina domestic helper that got abused by her employer. It's really sad that the baby would be seen in this condition, and i'm also sad for the fact that another...

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new born baby

trash bin

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theplanner It's really sad because it's not the baby's fault to be born in this world. The government should take measures to protect our OFWs working abroad since the OFWs are paying dutifully for OWWA's fees, etc. Filipina DH should also learn how to protect themselves...

17 Sep 10

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How would you like the marriages to be conducted? simple or grand?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 17 Sep 10

I think it should be simple , inviting just the close ones instead of spending lots & lots of money on it.Instead the money spent on the marriages could be given to the couple for their future. Am not talking about rich...

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theplanner Mine is the same as yours. Simple and SOLEMN with close families and friends. But unfortunately we (my husband and I) have so many friends so it's a simple wedding still and those who were not invited, we just gave them a party after our wedding in our house....

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The best place you have been to?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

Where is the best place you've been to that you would want us to experience as well? I know we all have travelled, near or far - at least there should be a time where we can say our travel was really all worth the time, effort,...

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theplanner So far the best place I've ever been was in Macau. Me and my family went there last year during the Chinese National Holiday. I love the place not because it's like Las Vegas but because the people are friendly and their are some historical places I fell in...

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How to enjoy life without stress and worries and sadness?

sauravshrm @sauravshrm (239) • India 17 Sep 10

i want to try to enjoy life, without any stress. i know, you get stress, but i have a lot. to much for my age. and i don't want to have any worries. or sadness. so how do i enjoy life? i mean, all i do is sit at home because my...

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theplanner Life can't be without stress, worries and sadness. It's part of the package. May I know how old are you and why your parents won't allow you to go out? I bet you're of legal age already since you stated that stress, etc. "is too much for YOUR age". Don't you...

17 Sep 10

Which do you prefer? Be a friendless loser or have friends who secretly HATE you

wiwa05 @wiwa05 (230) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

Which do you prefer? Be a friendless loser or have friends who secretly HATE you? There are times in life that we prefer to have only ourselves than to have friends who you CAN'T TRUST -- friends who secretly hate you and...

friends

true friends

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theplanner I guess I don't want to have both. I mean it's kind of the same.I don't wanna be alone since "no man is an island". Admit it or not we need friends to get by. It's just that we need to choose those we think are real from those whom we call as "fair-weather"...

17 Sep 10

Do you like having lots of friends or one special one?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 16 Sep 10

Do you like having lots of friends or one special one? I would rather have one special friend than a whole group of friends. Do you have a lot of friends or do you have a few?

friendships

groups

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theplanner I have three best friends, so unlikely but were friends since high school until now that we're married already. So that means I like to have many friends. But I choose my friends and discard those whom I know are just fair-weather, or just there when they...

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Before humans had beds where did they sleep?

Gorillafootprints925 @Gorillafootprints925 (3586) • United States 16 Sep 10

Please don't look it up online. In your mind, where or what do you think people sleep in before the development of beds? I have no idea right now about that question. I can't even imagine a place to sleep, maybe a cave but...

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theplanner I would guess that people before sleeps on grassland because they're soft. If it's inside a cave maybe they make bed out of leaves since the cave floor is hard. Necessity is the Mother of invention, so I guess even if they don't have beds yet during ancient...

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meet the person who inspired you? what the 1st u will do...

Angie1982 @Angie1982 (69) • Malaysia 16 Sep 10

if you have a chances to meet person who inspired you with their song, art, book, photography, charity etc. what the first thing that you will do? me personally inspired by Kitaro's music -Song for peace and Oprah Winfrey's...

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theplanner If I'll have the chance to meet the person that inspires me, especially if it's a famous person then I would be starstruck. Maybe I'll get tongue tied also, but I will be formulating questions in my mind so that when I recover I can ask that person what's on...

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What do you do to relax and unwind?

charmed007 @charmed007 (217) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

I have a very stressful job and what can be more relaxing than a swim in the pool or have a whole body massage, wow! So what is your idea of relaxation?

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theplanner Being a stay at home Mom is sometimes stressful because I multi task. Aside from that there are some problems that I need to attend that cannot be solve right away. So I also need to unwind. As for me, I unwind by means of shopping (if I have some money) or...

16 Sep 10

Long lines in Women's Washroom?!

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

I just need to vent! Why is it sooo always like this, in shopping malls, in restaurants, in train stations! Ha!! can we women, all get to pee and not see there are 20 other women waiting in line before you?! Its just sooo annoying...

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theplanner I've been to this situation many times. What's annoying is when you're at the airport and waiting for our flight then you need to pee all of a sudden and when you get to the WC there's a long line. In this kind of situation I don't queue anymore, instead I'll...

15 Sep 10

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Live-in vs. Marriage

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Practicality wise, some would say to live together before marriage would let you know and realize if your partner is the right one for you. You'd get to know what kind of person your partner is and vice-versa. You'd both be able...

marriage

partner

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theplanner I still believe that marriage is sacred. Binded by God by law and love. Yes, it might be practical if you're going to live-in with your boyfriend/girlfriend but why would you do that if you're not sure? Live-in is still LIVING IN SIN. For me personally, if I'm...

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Craziest you did when you where studying

Ayeizsha @gaiza12 (4884) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

What was the craziest thing you did when you were still studying? Aside from all the cheating and cutting of classes, have you ever did anything crazy when you were a student? I don't remember anything stupid or crazy that i did...

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theplanner Yes, the usual CHEATING when I was still a student was the craziest thing I ever did. I still can remember way back when I was a 3rd year PT student. We were dissecting a cadaver and after that will be our practical exam and because it's actual and you can't...

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What is the most romantic line you've ever heard?

joybragat @joybragat (39) 15 Sep 10

Hmm.. Mine would be, I WANNA GROW OLD LOVING YOU. :) Share yours please.. I guess we all want to hear different romantic thoughts as long as they are said with sincerity..

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theplanner I heard this one from the movie "Love Actually". It was said by Mark to Juliet even though it's already too late to say it because she's already married to his best friend.It goes something like this: TO ME YOU ARE PERFECT!

15 Sep 10

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whats your name again?

se7enthbird @se7enthbird (8307) • Philippines 7 Sep 10

are you good with names? do you remember their face and their names? are you not shy to ask their names again if you forgot? my wife is not shy to ask whats your name again? i leave that up to her har har har. sometimes when...

name game

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theplanner Sad to say I'm not good at remembering names and faces. I'm still young but it's as if I already have a memory gap. My husband often gets annoyed at me when he introduces me to some of his friends and then when we meet one of them again at malls or anywhere,...

15 Sep 10

Which would you choose, Looks or Intelligence?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 15 Sep 10

If we only can choose of from the above, which would you choose? I think most people won't be having both. Some really intelligent people can think of many brilliant things and can have all the richness anyone would dream of....

looks vs intelligence

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theplanner Can I just answer "both"? I can't pick only one because I'll be a hypocrite if I pick intelligence without the looks. He he. But first on the list is intelligence and the looks come secondary or as an added bonus. I just can't have somebody who is charming and...

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Can you keep a secret?

Doveyy @Doveyy (29) • China 15 Sep 10

Suppose somebody tells you one thing about him personal, he doesn't ask you to keep it between he and you,would you tell the thing to other guys?

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theplanner When someone tells me a secret, I usually keep it. Even if that person didn't tell me to keep it, I will not spread it. Instead I'll treat it with utmost discretion. That person might have told me his/her secret because he/she TRUSTED me.

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Is having vacation a way to enjoy life?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 15 Sep 10

I have not been travelling for a long time.... even for my marriage, i just had my honeymoon locally. To be honest, i haven't sit on an airplane before. Is vacation really that joyful? I do want to have a vacation soon. Anyway do...

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theplanner Everyone needs a break from their usual routine. It's like "all work and no play makes John a dull boy". Vacation is a time for us to relax and have fun. Yes, vacation is fun if you want it to be that way. It's really up to you. If you're bringing kids along...

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What is the best material gift that you received and why?

supermommyjem @supermommyjem (101) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

I think the best gift that I received is a cute gold plated Wester watch from my sister. I am a person that wears a watch daily and also a time conscious person. I wear that watch in special occasion because of the beautiful cute...

gifts

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theplanner The best gift that I received lately, is my blackberry phone which is a gift from my husband during our anniversary. I love it so much because I was pining for it and he gave what I wanted. Aside from that, I can communicate with him through it because my...

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supermommyjem @supermommyjem (101) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Do you think that moms should only stay at home taking care of their family rather than working in an office. I am a work-at-home mom and I can say that I love to be staying at home taking care of everything for my family. I also...

work at home

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theplanner We share the same sentiments. Being a stay at home Mom is not something to be embarrassed of. I'm proud I'm one because I can monitor my kids, take good care of my family's needs and have time for myself also. I consider myself lucky because not all Mothers...

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