trisun123

@trisun123 (36)

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Do you forgive your friends who left you alone when you were in serious trouble?

yiyun_h @yiyun_h (183) • United States 6 Aug 10

I had a life time friend who I always put her needs above myself (which was wrong I realized now). I devoted too much to her. And recently years I was in all kinds of challenges: mentally and physically, career wise, financial,...

friendship

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trisun123 well, in my opinion, friendship is a beautiful thing that we shouldnt drop it easily. i believe deep in your heart you know this. to me, one difference between a friend and another human, is that with a friend, we could/would share or even give almost all of...

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Crab Mentality

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 6 Aug 10

Crab Mentality is defined in wikipedia as "sometimes referred to as crabs in the bucket, describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, Neither should you". the metaphor refers to a pots of crabs....

crab mentality

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trisun123 well, i hate to admit this. but i have the symptoms of that "crab mentality". a colleague of mine was entered my office later than i was. but then he could get the position that i'm so eager to get, not just because the position is having higher salary, but...

6 Aug 10

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Do you always watch the entire movie?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 9 Jul 10

When you find a movie boring or if you just don't like it do you still watch the rest of it? Or do you quit watching it? In what situations do you quit watching a movie? If I find a movie boring or hard to understand I usually...

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trisun123 well, as long as i could remember, i have always watching movies till the end. why? actually it's not because the moview is good or bad. it's just i don't want my money spent become wasted. so, i try to enjoy the movie, and when there are scenes that are...

10 Jul 10

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how long your battery lasted?

neleene @neleene (55) • Philippines 5 Jul 10

my pc is one year old and 4 months now... i got notification from my pc that i should consider changing my battery? am wondering what could be the cause of this damage of my battery... is there any aid for the revival of the...

laptop battery

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trisun123 well, my laptop battery currently stands for 2 hours long. but that after i calibrated the battery. by using it until it empty (i switch on the laptop on the bios screen only, so that when it shuts down by itself, it wouldnt damage my OS) and then i charged...

7 Jul 10

Are you listening or waiting for your turn to talk?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 29 Jun 10

Geez... why don't people just shut up and listen? Why are they always just hearing the words coming out of your mouth so they can have their turn to speak? This is one of my biggest pet peeves. People who don't listen, they are...

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trisun123 well, i've met lots of person like that in my life. that's why i'm so easy to get misunderstood. i don't know why, bu people tends to get misunderstood me. perhaps because i'm not a good talker. when i met people like that, naturally i stopped talking and...

7 Jul 10

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How good listener are you? Do you pretend to be good listener?

kaushila79 @kaushila79 (8) • Bhutan 30 Jun 10

Indeed, Iam not good listener, but you know i pretend to be very good listener.My mind gets diverted when ever i am compelled to listen so important talks. I cant control my mind. So my dear friends, can you suggest me how to be...

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trisun123 well, in my opinion you should first face the person/people who do the talking. that's the very important step to make you a good listener. you don't have to listen or absorb any information from the talker at this phase. but then if you want to get more...

7 Jul 10

What time do you wake up in the morning?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 6 Jul 10

Just curious cause a lot of my friends here are morning people. Lol. I usually wake up around 9:30 but I still give myself an extra hour before I stand up and do my morning rituals. So, I'm usually up by 10:30....

morning

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trisun123 well, my current sleep/wakeup time is jumbled, due to lots of works :(. but on my natural biological time, i usually wake up on 4 AM, just to take a prayer, and then i go to sleep again :)

7 Jul 10

What do you do if you wake up earlier than your host?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 6 Jul 10

I was just wondering when you take a trip and stay with someone else..what do you do when you wake up earlier than your host? Are you comfortable enough to go ahead and get up...start moving around...or do you struggle and wait...

being a guest

manners

waking early

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trisun123 hehe, honestly, if i'm on your position, i'd love to sleep and slumbering again. until the host wakes up, of course. *ehm*

6 Jul 10

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If you are in this extreme heat wave, how are you dealing with it?

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 6 Jul 10

I'm in the Mid-Atlantic region of the U.S., where we've been having an extreme heat wave. Today, we are supposed to break a heat record set way back in 1977. It reached 105 (fahrenheit) yesterday when they were predicting a high...

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trisun123 my personal best spot to cooling down is on my temple and eyes. just putting a wet towel over them immediately cool down the heat. that's the first one. and if i still feeling hot, i get the wet towel over my back and front to sweep the sweats. oh that feels...

6 Jul 10

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What site you usually visit to get a good laugh?

trisun123 @trisun123 (36) • Indonesia 5 Jul 10

I'd bookmarked cracked.com and unrealitymag.com. Please share your favourite humor/comedy sites. Thanks

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trisun123 helo qiuchimu, thanks for your reply. i visited the site and i'm afraid i'm unable to read chinese. perhaps i'd google-translated it and i'm looking forward to get a nice fun. thanks again

6 Jul 10

What site you usually visit to get a good laugh?

trisun123 @trisun123 (36) • Indonesia 5 Jul 10

I'd bookmarked cracked.com and unrealitymag.com. Please share your favourite humor/comedy sites. Thanks

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trisun123 hiya jopak, thanks for your reply. thanks for reminding me of failblog, i used to visit the site and their 'groups'. but as time goes by and my works are piling, i forgot them.

6 Jul 10

Vacation in Bali

wizonosugih @wizonosugih (25) 6 Jul 10

how do you think about the island of Bali in Indonesia. I introduced a villa is cheaper if you visit there. bali grennvillas name. you can send a special message to me. you can get special rates if through me. believe me. green...

bali

island

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trisun123 last time i go to bali is on December 2009. if you love beach, i'd recommend on going to Jimbaran. The area has a good long beaches. If you like crowd, you may go to Kuta. They had lots of shops and restaurants.

6 Jul 10

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uncontrollable effect of surrounding

adeena2000 @adeena2000 (845) • Philippines 6 Jul 10

no matter how you take care of your body; taking all vitamins; and eating the right foods if the effects of the environment can cause you a great illness. what would do. wherever you go, people are smoking and you take it as a...

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trisun123 well, i already had a plan to live in the countryside. or even in the jungle. hopefully those industrial doesn't get their hands on the trees soon. i'm planning to eat from what the earth produces, and drink from a natural water spring.

6 Jul 10

Cry - A good exercise

Jotomy @Jotomy (6322) • India 5 Jul 10

Do you believe Cry is also a good exercise, it stimulates your mental health as well as your physical health. If you cry out loudly it will releases your pain and cleans your sadness. I noticed in most of the illiterate people...

cry

mental health

physical health

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trisun123 well, i do love to cry. it releases my emotions and made my mind clear. but also has a bad after-effect, which is i feel my heart empty. an emptiness that's weird, it's like i don't belong to this world anymore. i'm not sure what kind of feeling that is. for...

6 Jul 10

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Do you listen to songs that are neither in English nor in your mother language?

okuribidreams @okuribidreams (195) • Italy 4 Jul 10

I admit I have a thing for Japanese pop. It's not a big deal actually, since I'm studying the language and I understand almost everything, but recently I found myself attracted to some Korean r&b songs as well. I only know few...

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trisun123 well for me, music is on the rythm, melody, etc it's not about it's lyrics, so i'd love to hearing musics that i don't understand it's lyrics. the first music that comes in mind is japanese musics, and korean musics. first it because i love manga and anime,...

5 Jul 10

What site you usually visit to get a good laugh?

trisun123 @trisun123 (36) • Indonesia 5 Jul 10

I'd bookmarked cracked.com and unrealitymag.com. Please share your favourite humor/comedy sites. Thanks

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trisun123 hi edward thanks for your reply. i agree with you that laughter is the best medicine, which is i need the moset right now. perhaps you had another favourite site that doesnt contain videos? because my internet speed is somewhat slow so i'm afraid i couldnt...

5 Jul 10

Hard work - success

Jotomy @Jotomy (6322) • India 4 Jul 10

Most of people say a man's success depends 80% on hard work, 10% on God's grace and 10% on luck. But i say people succeeds only when they hard work is blended with profound faith in god.... and luck has no meaning...... Share with...

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trisun123 in my opinion, which is based on my experience on living my life, luck is the most factor that influence my life. and since "luck" is an area of Him, so that means God is behind of all this, and i have to put a goooood faith on Him. in summary, give my best...

5 Jul 10

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When you got to sleep what do you prefer to wear...?

kcoregon @kcoregon (302) • United States 19 Jul 09

When you go to sleep what do you like to wear? I love nightgowns but find that they will bunch up and become twisted when I lay down and become uncomfortable. So now I will usually wear a tank and a pair of women's boxer...

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trisun123 i love to wear a coverall, or jumpsuit that covers entire body. it's like footed adult onesie. i's comfortable and warm

5 Jul 10