vembukumar

@vembukumar (61)

India • Age 38

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What is the most important lesson you've learned from life?

maybel13 @maybel13 (205) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

All of us has commited mistakes already and learned from it. So, among this mistakes, what is the most important lessons you've learned from your entire life? For me, I have lots of lessons that I learned from my mistakes. One...

life

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3 people

vembukumar I learned that nothing will be come with us at last... so enjoy every moment with lot of love, affection, care with whom we love most. do right things for all...

4 Jul 07

How much time you spend for sleeping?

yakayaka @yakayaka (1) • Indonesia 8 Mar 07

Maybe you always hear that some people need more time, 24 hours a day is no longer enough. So many things to do in limit time. Not only businessmen or professionals but also a housewife seems need more time. Like an engine, our...

health

manage time

sleep

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vembukumar i will sleep for 7 hours at night....

8 Mar 07

How can i gain weight ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 7 Feb 07

Hi friends i am too skinny and all my friends are after me like all the time to put on some weight - i mean 2 - 5 kgs would be just perfect.. the problem is... i do all the things which can make someone blow up like a ballon - i...

weight

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16 people

vembukumar u can gain weight by eating fatty foods. eat eggs and non veg daily. in veg, butter, cheese, etc.

8 Feb 07

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Is it right to leave a baby crying for an hour and a half??

Bizziebod @Bizziebod (3497) 7 Feb 07

I'm really cheesed off today! I live in a flat and my downstairs neighbour has a small one year old baby. A few weeks ago she knocked on the door and said she was going to try and get the baby to sleep in his own room and said...

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17 people

vembukumar if the child cry for long time it will affect the child health.

8 Feb 07

Do you finish reading every book you start?

cajundharma @cajundharma (641) • United States 7 Feb 07

I'm always been insistent on finishing every book that I start, even if I don't enjoy the book. So here I am 60 pages into a vampire novel with prose so purple that I think Barney might have ghost written it. Do I put it down and...

books

literature

reading

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29 people

vembukumar If i enjoy the book, then i will finish reading the book when i start reading. else i will not complete the book, it will make me bore on reading. instead of that, i can do another job.

8 Feb 07

Why Do We Need Friends?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 7 Feb 07

Aren't we all happy if we have a good family - a great looking spouse, a couple of wonderful kids and to add to this, if we have a good white collar job? Why do we need friends in life? Just to give vent to our frustruations, or...

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19 people

vembukumar eventhough we have good family, we can't share our all problems to our family, but we can share all our problems to our true friends. only true friends can come up with us for any of the problems.

8 Feb 07

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Should mother spend quality time with Childrens ?? or Quantity time

swapylcz @swapylcz (93) • India 5 Feb 07

Hi there. I am mother of one sweet lil girl. She is one and half yr old. I always get confuss that should I am spend quality time with her by working out side or I quit my work and spend Quantity time with her.??? My finacial...

house wife

mother

working woman

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12 people

vembukumar we should spend quantity as well as quality time with our children. this is important age of the child, child will start to learn from asking question to us. if we start teaching good thing and rights in this stage, then child will became a good person in the...

6 Feb 07

Do you smoke? Why?

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 5 Feb 07

My dad smokes, and we have been trying our best to convince him to stop smoking for the longest time and yet he haven't totally quit. There was a certain time that we had him stop for a month, we actually thought that he'll go...

smoking

vices

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13 people

vembukumar no, i will not smoke. once we start smoking, we will aduit to it and its too hard to stop that. due to smoking lot of health problem will occur.

6 Feb 07

Do you think the Bible Should be Taught in School?

minerc @minerc (1373) • United States 5 Feb 07

You know if the bible is part of our history. Why aren't we allowed to teach from it in school? Do you think the Bible Should be Taught in School?

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5 people

vembukumar ya, it should be taught in schools. so that students can know the good thing in bible, and what bible is coming to say. it makes a man perfect.

6 Feb 07

Leaving a Computer On

lilaclady @lilaclady (28207) • Australia 5 Feb 07

I am a little confused if it is a good thing to leave your computer on all the time, one friend of mine does and he set my computer up and assures me I am protected against viruses and hackers... and then I have another friend who...

computer

hackers

leaving

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12 people

vembukumar its better to make the computer standby mode than on at every time when we not using the system. it will be safe for our hardware. at night, system should be switched off, to protect the system. we require some rest while we working like wise machine also need...

6 Feb 07

Is there anything you can not forgive?

cristi20 @cristi20 (2139) • Romania 12 Jan 07

Is there anything you can not forgive??

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4 people

vembukumar ya. if anyone make me belive and cheated me, then i can't accept that.

6 Feb 07

Cheating in exams!!!

id62000 @id62000 (207) • India 5 Feb 07

I'm a college student, but i've had this problem for quiet a while now. In some of my exams from my school days, i've seen people cheating, copying and even shouting out the answers across the classroom. And the teachers, somehow...

cheating

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7 people

vembukumar cheating in the exam is too bad. it will affect the life of the hard working student. we should avoid this and the person cheating in the exam should be punished severly. cheating will not give knowledge and it will make them to cheat again and again. the will...

6 Feb 07

Should a teacher be allowed to tape her student's mouth shut?

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 5 Feb 07

I read a news story about an elementary school teacher in Fort Gaines who apparently taped a student's mouth shut because the student would not stop talking. The teacher has now been suspended from teaching. What do you...

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31 people

vembukumar punishment given to the student is wrong. kids don't know what is wrong and good. they don't how we want to be in class. we want to teach them, how they want to behave in the class in a kind manner.

6 Feb 07

Global Warming Is Only The Tip Of The Iceberg

Thomas73 @Thomas73 (1467) • Switzerland 5 Feb 07

Although global warming has been in the spotlight of the news recently due to the new found evidence that it is indeed caused by human activity, it is only one of many symptoms of a stressed out planet. Man is pushing the...

global warming

human activity

impending disaster

mans influence on the planet

stressed environment

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14 people

vembukumar ya, today the humans force our environment to its maximum. these are all because of selfishness.

5 Feb 07

Money is every thing in Life...without money life is wasted...what do you say ?

rajikoshy @rajikoshy (741) • India 4 Feb 07

i never believe in money but recently i have been observing life very carefully, with different people, different culture etc. i find life without money is useless without money a person can not treat him or his dipendands from...

life

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19 people

vembukumar eventhough money is important for life, its only for living. using money we can't get love, humanity, etc. if we get that from money, then it will lost when we lost our money. Today, the world is in imagination world. once we lost our money, then we will...

5 Feb 07

I need your happy/cheerful stories today...

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 2 Feb 07

I don't really want to get into it here, but I'm struggling very hard with life right now, and it would be a great comfort if anyone had some happy/cheerful stories to share with me today. What is something recent that happened...

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20 people

vembukumar i have a close friend to me. one day i ask her to read a book loud to hear at night time. suddenly she said, what happen to you, have u lost ur eyes. when she said like this, i didn't expect at that time. but it makes me happy, because this is the first time...

3 Feb 07

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Will you put your parents to nursing homes if...

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 2 Feb 07

they are too old and unable to feed, shower or dress themselves? I won't! They are my parents and even in my busy life, I prefer to take care of them instead of other people. They took care of me when I was a baby till now so...

love

old

parents

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14 people

vembukumar i will never put my parents in nursing home in any of the situation. they compramise for me lot. they are my god. the person who put their in this home will not be a men's, they are animals.

3 Feb 07

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