vjsham

@vjsham (59)

Malaysia • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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they say this not the age to fall in love.....

ritzz07 @ritzz07 (788) • India 19 Jun 11

hi friends one of my friends father fall in love at age of 69,and he wants to marry with that lady the lady is 52yrs. there is a big tense situation in my friends home,everybody is doing oppose to the couple....i do think there...

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vjsham guess at that range of age..what they need is a companion..so it is nothing to be worried or opposed on. It is true that love can blossom at any age,doesnt matter he/she is 69 or 169 it is the same feelings. If he was my own father I would give him a green...

19 Jun 11

No Responses - how embarassing

gloryacam @gloryacam (5540) • Philippines 24 Feb 11

Do you feel embarrassed when you've posted a discussion and no one seems to want to comment on your discussion? Or do you feel angry? What do you feel? I never thought it would happen to me, but, there they are... it's been weeks...

mylot

mylot discussions

no response

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vjsham I face this all the time, my country is quite not familiar with myLotting as well, but i like to read up and discuss int topics but i usually get no one to repond to my discussion. Is it because the tags are few or we dont attract enough in writing. I am...

25 Feb 11

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Do you feel uncertain to start new discussion after a long holiday in myLot?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5808) 27 Dec 10

Hello myLotters, Been about 4 months since the last topic I had here in myLot..Today I decided to start a new topic but its hard for me to mold it.I can't make a good start about what I'm going to post.It feels like I'm a...

cloud31

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vjsham Hello all, I am also quite new and was away long due to loads of work... Guess usually when we have a break, our mood changes too..even at work after my leaves i would be sooo lazy "frankly" to work..haha..same goes to myLot, my finggers are so clumsy to type...

28 Dec 10

What is with students in public school and even college relying on a calculator?

SilverKing @SilverKing (1003) • Canada 5 Oct 10

I think that they have become totally reliant on them and are almost unable to add quick two decimal calculations in their head and do multiplication up to 12 without using a calculator.How do you feel about this and do you think...

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vjsham I agree that we should avoid calculators for simple and usual maths.. I realised it when i was in University that i was too dependent on calculators, then i twisted and made myself to grab it only when it is really a need, i dun mind doing calculations on...

6 Oct 10

your man's ex messing around?! if its you what will you do?

angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4134) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

So ok, here's what happened, I opened my Facebook account today and surprise! Facebook made me verify my own account to see if I am the real account holder..I was like WTF! then I found out that my account was being accessed few...

ex lover

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vjsham hey...if its getting on ur nerves, i'd suggest to report to authorities and also the accounts web autho..there are people who can protect you frm all this n spams..if can create a security for ur private accounts (another pin code o password). It is better to...

13 Sep 10

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What is your favorite webstie that you visit regularly?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 12 Sep 10

Definitely mylot would be one of them if you are a member here, but I am talking about website other then mylot. There are lots of sites that we visit regularly. Some we do visit because we need to do that for our work, and some...

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vjsham hey guys..Happy MyLotting.. All d while been netting but didn't realise of exploring to new sites much..thanks sweetlady10..Anyway the most frequently visited webs by me are lk facebook,Yahoo,the news webs,google,bing,you tube,pirate bay for new...

13 Sep 10

Do you ask sorry to your friend if you have hurt him or her?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 1 Sep 10

I feel sorry immediately if i have hurt someone. I rarely do this as i control my anger a lot. One important thing in friendship is an attitude to ask sorry if mistake is at your side surely. Its the ego which we have to kill. If...

sorry

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vjsham hey there, I guess if we are guilty of what we did then we will have to ask for forgiveness no matter to whon it is. Its always our instinct that says 1\"go say sorry" or 2\"its not my fault,so y i shud say sorry"..I beleive in my instinct, so when its 1...

2 Sep 10

Do friends stay for a long time?

Bounce @Bounce (5) • Philippines 4 Aug 10

Friends don't stay for a long time as I experienced it. the only "real" friend stays for a long period of time. It may be your best friend, a colleague in school, or however you categorize them the bottom line is that true friend...

friends

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vjsham heyya... in my opinion and experience, no matter hw close a friend might be but when it comes to life,family,job and so on each will choose their own path and fade away as time passes..we cant fault any1 as this is nature and nothing can change it..one of the...

5 Aug 10

The first movie is always better than the series

funorb12 @funorb12 (456) • United States 13 Jun 10

The first movie of every series is always better! Shrek 1 is by far more better than Shrek 2, Shrek 3, And the latest shrek movie. The further it goes, the cornier it gets. Toy Story 1 was brilliant. Toy Story 2 was good, but it...

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vjsham in ma opinion, it actually depends on the viewers.. We tend to be not excited as for the 1st movie out as it goes.. even they have done all their best we still have it in mind that the 1st one is much better.. this is human psychology... hmm.. not only in...

14 Jun 10

What attracted you to your lover/partner or crush?

Shatila90 @Shatila90 (80) 19 Apr 10

When I first met my guy I was attracted to his personality he is diiferent than the other guys I met the way he talks and acts really attracted me to him but I really liked him when I saw he was a man of his word if he promises...

guys

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vjsham i loved him because we "faught" all the time.. We started understanding each other more when we faught..he was the first guy who "scold me", "faught with me" and "been himself" to me...

20 Apr 10

Do you believe that there is a solution to every problem?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 19 Apr 10

Many contend that nothing is insolvable, they advice us to avoid the temptation of thinking that what is facing us at the moment is insurmountable. The reason we cannot see the solution they say is because we are convinced that it...

convinced

temptation

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vjsham hmm i partially agree that "every" problem has its solution... I think there are some problems that u have to juz be patient and face it throught ur life..there are also problems that unsolved in our hearts, minds and emotions.. Further some problems do have...

20 Apr 10

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How did you meet your love?

wigima5 @wigima5 (904) • United States 12 Apr 10

So if you have a love, or a boyfriend/girlfriend, how did you meet them? Did you see them at a gathering, or in the city, or outside? Did you automatically know you liked them? What did you have to do in order for them to agree to...

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vjsham i met HIM during my degree..we were frenz and we confessed at a sun set by the beach..actually i thought he was towards my gal frien..but then discovered he loved me..then tatz hw we started..

13 Apr 10

After 11 years, they break up...

moonchild117 @moonchild117 (1987) • Philippines 12 Apr 10

I don't know why I feel sad, I'm not even in the relationship concerned. To give you guys a background, I just learned that my sister called it off with her long-time boyfriend. They were together for 11 years, beginning 3rd year...

breakup

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vjsham i beleive all this happens daily.."breaking up"..As I have seen, there are many long term relationship breaking up since they have been too close and possessive to each other..In my opinion..A relationship muz be balanced..U muz have time for frenz, family,...

12 Apr 10

It's almost my birthday and he doesn't seem to remember.

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 11 Apr 10

I know that it's common for most men to forget the important dates of their loved one, but is that an excuse not to mark it down with a pen or their computers or cellphones? I am worried that I can't keep my disappointment to...

birthday

disappointment

forget

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vjsham hi laydee, it is not such events that decides the love he have for you...forgetting bufdays, fighting over it, then getting back together is a par and parcle of love life... I have gone tru many things..but I swear that I am happy now..after so much of...

12 Apr 10

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Is your infected just because somene saids that you are?

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 4 Jun 09

I was working on my computer all a sudden some program flashed talking about I need to download a program so I won't be infected, do you trust sources like that? my girl-friend told me that some program popped up telling her to...

computer infected

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vjsham we don't trust it most of the time..wht u can do is..jz ignore it..but let ur AVG keep running and scanning everyday because browsing the net itself will make ur computer at risk..viruses are everywhere..so..hv a gd antivirus and check ur files all the time..a...

5 Jun 09

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Are You Getting A Lot Of Rain Like We Are?

CatsandDogs @CatsandDogs (13963) • United States 28 May 09

I've been watching the weather channel a lot these past few days and I've seen that a lot of the USA is getting bombarded with a lot of rain! We live in North Carolina, near the Virginia border and we've been getting so much rain...

come back another day

rain rain go away

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vjsham here..from malaysia..(south east asia)..we're not getting much rain even we are known as the tropical country which has rain all the time right on time..nowadays we are having hot sun instead rain..we hope daily that it would rain to cool the country...

29 May 09

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