xjosiax

@xjosiax (74)

Australia • Age 40

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Love at work!

turist1 @turist1 (175) • Bulgaria 31 May 11

One of my colleagues is in a relationship with a girl from the shifts in my company. I don't care about other peoples personal affairs and if they like each other ... well it's their decision. But the problem comes from the fact...

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xjosiax Talking to him first seems like thats the only option - well the fairer option. The only other one is to go higher and say to his boss that you think his outside relationships are affecting his ability to do his job and that is affecting you in trying to do...

31 May 11

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Make-up No More

freymind @freymind (1351) • Philippines 31 May 11

Make-up has been the source of extended beauty and protection from the aging times by women for their faces but nowadays cosmetic surgery is lessening the areas that women usually put more foundation on than in the old days. If...

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xjosiax I think cosmetic surgery is definately becoming more popular but it is still major surgery and that's the catch that puts people off. So i still think that makeup will be more preferable to a lot of women. There are still large groups of women out there who...

31 May 11

unfair w/ jealousy. . .

geniusvinz @geniusvinz (419) • Philippines 31 May 11

why is it that i'm not allowed to complain when she makes me jealous?..when i make her jealous, she gets mad..i never intended to make her jealous in the first place..but she keeps on making me jealous lately so i had to...

jealous

jealousy

unfair

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xjosiax Of course you're allowed to complain. Relationships are not one sided. You both need to be able to express yourselves otherwise your relationship is not going to work. If you are constantly catering to her needs you will let your own slide and that's not a...

31 May 11

Did you ever have chicken pox disease?

granny2011 @granny2011 (167) • Romania 31 May 11

It's an infectious disease, accompanied by a rash, and immunising (you can not get sick 2 times!). Chickenpox can occur, generally between 2 and 10 years, and cause severe itching. It takes about 12 days.Have you ever have...

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xjosiax Actually you can get sick with it more than once, with or without immunisation, and that's fairly common. I had it as a teenager at 17 and it was terrible. It's a lot better to get it as a child because the virus is terrible and gets worse as you get older.

31 May 11

How to become a good public speaker?

mallu30 @mallu30 (461) • India 1 May 11

I am a person who often gets chances to speak in public. But whenever I start speaking in public, my mouth trembles and forget the matter to speak. Can anybody explain How to speak effeciently in public? How to communicate with...

communication

public speaking

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xjosiax I've done a lot of public speaking and i love it. So for me, the best things I've found is to: Keep Eye Contact. Don't just read off your cuecards. Your cuecards are really supposed to just be prompts. Look around at your audience. If you find that you...

1 May 11

Why I must fogive those who hurt me?

mallu30 @mallu30 (461) • India 1 May 11

I did not forget the people those who hurt me in the past and forgive them also. I don't how to forgive them also. Forgiveness may be giving up, letting go. I don't have any willing to fogive them also. Whenever I think about...

forgive

hurt

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xjosiax I think that it is supposed to make us better people. By forgiving, we give ourselves closure and we don't carry a bitterness inside us that can eat at us. We raise above the issue and it helps us to move on. It is always easier said than done. I like hanging...

1 May 11

thinking anybody?

mydah18 @mydah18 (13) 1 May 11

when u hear the word think..what comes to your mind? well what comes to your mind is what u think about the word think. not many people can really think.no offence to any one but the truth of the matter is that thinking actually...

thinking

thoughts

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xjosiax When i hear the word 'think' the first phrase that comes to mind for me is 'A pursuit of knowledge' because when you read or see something, you process it,analyse it, ponder and consider it and then form your own opinion. You THINK and consider things before...

1 May 11

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Why do women wear makeup?

SpikeTheLobster @SpikeTheLobster (6403) 30 Apr 11

I've always thought that women were prettier without paint on their faces. It's just my opinion, but I'd much rather see a woman's real beauty (which every woman has in some way, if you ask me) than an attempt at making themselves...

makeup

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xjosiax It has been a thing women have done down through the ages. I think that part of it is comforming to societies standards of beauty at the time. I think it is because there can be so much pressure to look and feel beautiful that some think they can't be...

1 May 11

Divorsed the sister and married the younger sister...

yspmyl @yspmyl (3435) • Malaysia 18 Nov 10

I have this friend that one of her close relative, was divorced his wife and now getting married to the wife's younger sister. He and his first wife was divorced a year ago and the ex-wife have got married to another man few...

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xjosiax I read in a That's Life magazine that one woman married four brothers from the same family. The first died and she divorced the next two and is still with the last one. It doesn't happen often but it CAN happen. It happened to a cousin of mine. She dated a...

29 Apr 11

Issues with hubby

tammymarie37 @tammymarie37 (260) • United States 26 Apr 11

I need some advice, I am newly remarried of little over a month. Needless to say it feels like my honeymoon is over with. Don't get me wrong my husband is a great guy,but for almost 3 weeks now he comes home from work when he is...

husband

marriage

realitionships

spending time together

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xjosiax Men hate feeling like they're nagged, even when that is not what you're doing. They just think it is and it can be so frustrating. I had the same situation with my hubby when we first married. You have to talk it out but your approach has to change, trying to...

27 Apr 11