3cardmonte

@3cardmonte (5098)

Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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like it or lump it?....think i'd rather lump it

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 1 Feb 12

I never really listened to my mother, in fact I never really listened to either of my parents. We didn't see eye to eye for obvious reasons. But one thing that my mother taught me which is getting me through a strabge time in my...

lessons

life

mother

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1 person

How valuable are your smiles?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 1 Feb 12

Now I know that I am not exactly Mary Sunshine, but some people are proper misery guts!!! And yes we all have bad days, but crack a freakin smile dude it ain't gonna kill you!!! And I know I am a fine one to talk but if someone...

happy

miserable

smile

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2 people

back......with a vengeance?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 1 Feb 12

people will tell you that revenge is never a good idea, but some people live their entire lives by it. I personally do believe that revenge can sometimes make you feel better.And that one mans revenge is another man's...

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2 people

helium login

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 27 Mar 11

I am just curious as to how many of you write on helium and what you think of their new "assignment system" Does anyone know when these new systems will be in effect and why I can not login today? Or yesterday for that matter.

helium

help

Is it better to listen?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 22 Mar 11

With your ears or with your mind? Do you think that if you listen with your ears then you are not really thinking about what is being said? Or do you think that if you listen with your mind you interpret rather than hear what is...

listening

thihnk

thinking listen

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4 people

Who would you call?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 13 May 10

In a rather complicated situation, myself my girlfriend and a friend yesterday, ended up trying to save a dying baby chick. It had been trampled on (we believe) byt its brothers and/or sisters. Well the young girl who was...

chick

dead

friend

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What's the most disgusting thing you've done this week?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 13 May 10

Well I actually can't decide between removing the mouse from my girfriends house that had been decapitated by one of the cats, cleaning up the cat poop from the chimney breast, removing a bird the cats had very kindly left as a...

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being patronised

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 13 May 10

Hands up who friggin hates it? Everyone does it to me! They treat me like an idiot and tell me to do or not to do the simplest things that even my tiny mind would be able to think of all by itself! Do people treat you like...

idiot

patronising

people

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What would you do

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 23 Mar 10

If you found out someone you knew had tried to make a move on your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/partner? What would you say to them? How would you react? What would you do?

life

people

women

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If you don't talk about it

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 18 Mar 10

Then it's not happening right? Or at least you can pretend it's not. Are you guilty of this? not talking about it so it doesn't seem real? Do you find it helps?

people

pretend

talking

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Pretending everything is fine

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 4 Mar 10

When it's most definitely not. Hands up who is guilty of this? *raises own hand* Be honest But how long can we keep up the smiley happy pretence that all is rosy before we lose it completely? Why do we pretend...

denial

stupid

women

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Is the reality ever as bad?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 15 Feb 10

As the scenario you play out in your head? Or does the imagination just go into overdrive? When was the last time you played out a situation in your head and it went nothing like that? Or did it go just like that?

imaginatiom

people

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Can you really ever trust anyone?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 15 Feb 10

Ever? Do you have someone that you trust implicitly? Is it easy for you to trust people? When was the last time you put your trust in someone and they betrayed it? Can we really ever trust anyone?

people

truth

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Is it naive to be nice?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 15 Feb 10

My friend is way too nice to people, and she is forever getting hassle for it, people walk all over her and hurt her, but she is still nice to them. Now, she thinks I am not nice enough, because I refuse to be walked all over...

people

stink

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I'm gonna say it. PEOPLE STINK!

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 11 Feb 10

Not ALL people I get that, just most people, they lie, they're selfish they'll do ANYTHING to get what they want. If they feel wronged (even if they aren't)they will hurt other people to make themselves feel better. They take...

people

suck

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1 person

Offering real advice

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 5 Feb 10

Why are people so reluctant to say anything negative? I understand that nobody wants to walk around with a black cloud over their head all the live long day, but sometimes, negative things need to be said REAL advice needs...

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2 people

Why is it so hard to trust people?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 5 Feb 10

Do you find it hard to trust? Why is it so hard to put our faith in someone? Is it because we're afraid of being let down? Afraid of getting hurt? Why can't we just trust someone and think no more on it? Is it because...

people

trust

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I need glasses :(

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 2 Feb 10

Only reading glasses, but still! I know glasses can be sexy on other people, but I look ridiculous in them, how did you react when you found out you need glasses? Do you need em? Did you get used to them?

glasses

people

stupid

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Travel sickness

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 2 Feb 10

Motion sickness/whatever. Do you get it? Do you know someone who gets it? My girlfriend lives 120 miles from me and I am the most travel sick person you could ever wish to meet! A fine how do you do right?? How do you...

life

people

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