AmuseYourself

@AmuseYourself (28)

United States • Age 63

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Obliged to share wealth

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 13 Jun 11

Are the wealthy obliged to share their wealth with people who are less fortunate? It's theirs to do as they please...they've worked hard for it. Is it necessary for them to give back to society to ensure a stable and prosperous...

obliged to share wealth

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AmuseYourself It all depends on whether or not you care about your fellow man, and whether you understand the concept of investing in the future of the society in which you live. If you don't, then keep everything to yourself -- but don't wail when no one wants to share...

14 Jun 11

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What do you want to do else, Vietnam?

awakeneddreamer @awakeneddreamer (16) • China 14 Jun 11

I alway can not understand how a country can be so shameless like Vietnam? In the history, i can image how Vietnam would be like without China. Especially in 1960s, China gave Vietnam so much support, even China was still a very...

vietnam china south china sea

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AmuseYourself With whom, exactly, are you more angry -- China or Vietnam? From my perspective, the Vietnamese are an incredibly courageous and forgiving people, for whom I hold the highest respect. If you're talking about governments, then make that distinction. I...

14 Jun 11

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religion problem

kittie123 @kittie123 (75) • India 10 Jun 11

me and my boyfriend have been in relationship for three years now and are still in relationship . we both love each other a lot and wish to end up marrying each other but he thing is my parents after getting to know about this guy...

boy friend

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AmuseYourself What you should do is follow your heart and be with your boyfriend/future husband if that is what your heart is telling you to do. Fortune tellers are full of baloney, and will say anything desired by the person(s) who pay(s) them money. Fortune tellers...

10 Jun 11

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What you want to know about CHINA? I`m a Chinese college student .

Mskyline @Mskyline (14) • China 10 Jun 11

HI,dear everyone~~~ I`m a student in henan CHINA.I`m not good at English,please excuse. I`m here on one hand is learning English.on the other hand is make some friend? at the same time to introduce henan.China.

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AmuseYourself What a wonderful question! There are many, many things I want to know about China -- too many to list! So, I will ask you just a few questions: What books or movies (film, cinema) would you recommend to an American who would like to understand Chinese...

10 Jun 11

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Are you a night bird?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 9 Jun 11

Hi friends! I have observed that few mylotters are there who are there on mylot during night, when others are fast asleep. Are you the one who is on mylot during nights only and do you love to call yourself as a night...

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AmuseYourself I've never heard the term "night bird" -- only "night owl" -- but I do indeed qualify! The only time I spend to any extent on MyLot is late, late at night. I don't know if it was something my mother did while I was in utero (LOL), but even as a baby, I refused...

10 Jun 11

Heres a loaded question...

jenrl17 @jenrl17 (420) • United States 6 Jun 11

I need some help. My computer is slow and Im not sure what to do. I would like to know what can cause a computer to run slow and how to improve its performance and speed. I also would like to know what programs out there are...

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AmuseYourself This former help-desk slave says: So many questions! But all good ones! :) If you are using a good antivirus program that monitors your actions in real-time, you should not have to go an extra lengths with any special malware/spyware detectors. You...

6 Jun 11

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Why do people get married so early?

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 6 Jun 11

I have a friend who just got married after knowing and dating a guys for few months... Everyone of her friends were telling her that its very too early to get married... as there is not enough time to know each other... What...

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AmuseYourself It's impossible to make a judgment on so few details without knowing your friend, but, in general, some people are mature enough and confident enough in their relationships to marry young (and quickly), and it is the right choice for them. My parents were...

6 Jun 11

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I enjoy freedom

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 6 Jun 11

in two days, I was alone with my child at home, my husband did not go home because wait for his father who was ill. I felt I could relax, and doing the housework in peace and not in a hurry, and I find it to be free people. As...

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AmuseYourself Dear indahfth, please forgive me if I presume too much, but I take your words to mean you are more relaxed when your husband is away, because you are afraid of being reprimanded for something you have done wrong in his eyes. Is that correct? Are you afraid of...

6 Jun 11

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Writing England...

guypersona @guypersona (57) • Philippines 3 Jun 11

I'd love to write about England and Britain... Although i don't have the money to experience it myself, i'm determined to research all about it. So can anyone suggest a good site or book or video that could help me with writing...

england britain writing research

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AmuseYourself The very best resource I can suggest is anything written by Bill Bryson, especially his book, "Notes from a Small Island." As with all of Bryson's travel books, you will feel as though you're living in the U.K. along with him. Even the British people...

3 Jun 11

One wish you have that will never be fulfilled in your lifetime?

veejay19 @veejay19 (3589) • India 3 Jun 11

Friends, we have wished for many things during our life.Some have been fulfilled and some due to circumstances have not been fulfilled but you know that one day you may get them.However there are some really bizarre wishes which...

bizarre wish

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AmuseYourself I wouldn't call them bizarre, but I have many unfulfilled wishes I know I will never achieve; the top two are 1) to become an award-winning cinematographer, and 2) to write The Great American Novel (one that would make John Steinbeck weep with envy)....

3 Jun 11

for those of you that dont belive in the bible-why is that so many people are

shyraaaa @shyraaaa (29) • United States 2 Jun 11

why is it that so many people are having near death experinces are coming back to tell us about heaven and are hell? everyone have their own opinions im just curious cause its cusing me to think about this think. i will never not...

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AmuseYourself If you mean, why do people on the brink of death seem to have the same experience across cultures and eras (e.g., seeing a bright white light), one very simple and logical explanation is that the dying brain, starved for oxygen, hallucinates. The symptoms...

3 Jun 11

Rihanna's new video. What do you think about it?

enicole94 @enicole94 (103) 2 Jun 11

Recently Rihanna's new music video for her song Man Down premiered on BET's 106&Park but was threatened to be banned due to the violence in the video. What do you think of the new video? Do you think it is just a way Rihanna is...

music

rihanna

videos

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AmuseYourself Every media outlet has the right to host or not host anything it wants; however, to outright ban any legal expression of speech in the U.S. is not only unconstitutional, but opens the door to the question: If they can ban a music video, what will they ban...

2 Jun 11

Population Control...let's discuss....

Momma_Robinson @Momma_Robinson (10) • United States 1 Jun 11

I feel here in the USA we NEED some form of population control. I know of one woman in particular that has 4 kids, all have different fathers, and she is also pregnant with her fifth, by another man. She lives off of the...

control

kids

population

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AmuseYourself Just as a civilized society must not force women to become baby-making machines, it cannot forcibly sterilize or otherwise mandate controlled birth. Do that, and we may as well live in China -- or Nazi Germany. That said, I agree that unplanned, reckless...

1 Jun 11

Spending to keep our economy going.....

chulce @chulce (1537) • United States 1 Jun 11

It truly amazes me at how much money each of us has to spend in order to help our "economies" grow. Not to long ago when we all thought things were going well, as all of us now the market crashed and many companies went for a...

economy

life

people

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AmuseYourself And here, you have just busted wide open the fallacy of the "trickle-down" theory of economy. We cannot spend money if we are unemployed. And as long as big business sits tight on its cash reserves and refuses to hire more workers, we remain unemployed,...

1 Jun 11

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What are you looking for, good looking or nice personality

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 31 May 11

A friend of mine always fall in wrong relationship with someone, because all he ever wants is a good looking lady, but zero brain, and rude attitude. Most of all, those so - called good looking girls just used him, and want him to...

good looking

personality

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AmuseYourself "Inside" is always most important. It may sound corny and idealistic, but the truth is that if one has the ability to see the "inside" of someone else, that someone else will be beautiful to him (or her). Your friend might want to talk to a few couples who...

1 Jun 11

Do You Prefer Suburbs Or City Life and Why?

zed_k4 @zed_k4 (17589) • Singapore 30 May 11

Hullo friends. Good morning , afternoon and evening. I have watched countless shows talking about the difference of suburban and city life. Question is , given a chance...would you prefer to live in a suburbs or the city and why...

city life

follow your instincts or analytical thinking

home living you prefer

husband and wife

suburban living

what will your decision be

which of the two is better

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AmuseYourself As vandana7 wrote earlier, a lot depends on the stage of life you're in. When I was a young adult, I couldn't wait to get out of the suburbs of my stodgy little hometown and move to the big city -- and so I did. I spent my mid-twenties through my early...

1 Jun 11

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