AsianBelle

@AsianBelle (75)

South Africa • Age 44

Joined myLot 12 years ago

Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else

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AsianBelle's Responses

Has he taken me for granted?

Sanitary @Sanitary (3968) • Singapore 27 Apr 12

Recently my boyfriend has been addicted to a new show ever since he got to know about it. As he's overseas, he's unable to watch it directly and i've been trying different ways to get it for him. When i eventually got it for him,...

disappointed

hurt

love

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AsianBelle So, if he had his laptop and he is able to download the show on his own, don't you think he would ignore you even more? I'm sorry, but I don't have time for someone that doesn't make time for me. I definitely do not stick around when my so-called boyfriend...

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What Do You Think of Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt Finally Getting Married in 2012?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 27 Apr 12

When I saw the headline "Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie Getting Married" on a People magazine in the rack at FAMILY DOLLAR today, I thought 'Surely this magazine is from 5-or-10 years ago!' (I mean, with all the talk about...

angelina jolie

brad pitt

marry

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AsianBelle It didn't surprise me when I saw the magazine. Part of me said, oh it's about time, but the other half of me couldn't help thinking that it'll be over in a few years. Hollywood celebrities tend to short-term marriages and I really do not see the big deal about...

28 Apr 12

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I prefer not wearing make up.

nurseclare @nurseclare (2209) • Philippines 19 Aug 11

During my college days I really don't wear make ups for I find it really heavy on my face. Except for events, i have to use make up to look better. As I was working in a company as a front office staff I used make up, like blush...

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AsianBelle I wear minimal to no make-up. If you see me at any social gatherings, you will see me with a bit of eye-shadow, eye-liner, and lipstick. Maybe a bit of blusher. Other than that, it'll be a lip-gloss or lipstick. Special occasions, then maybe slightly heavier...

28 Apr 12

Party favors.

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 28 Apr 12

My sister and I did the invitations for the baby shower and we also did a few of these simple party favors. They kinda look like a diaper....but you can fold them in just a minute and use them for any occasion. Do you include...

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AsianBelle Jill, that is absolutely adorable - how creative you are! I have never attended a baby shower and I certainly have never thrown one for my friends. I have a question - does the organizer pay for the baby shower? As in the decoration, food, and misc.

28 Apr 12

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Do you make sure you're wearing a matching set of underwear?

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 27 Apr 12

I had an officemate before who blatantly told everyone that she always makes sure she is wearing a matching pair of underwear (bras and panties). If it doesnt come in sets, she'd make sure the color is a match. When we asked why...

underwear

woman

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AsianBelle I do, sometimes. I'm a bit of an OCD - everything that matches is pair together and placed nicely in the drawer. Whenever I buy them in singles, I make sure they are almost the same in colour and pattern, but I would arrange them separately. I think it's a...

27 Apr 12

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You and your siblings

Always smiling @allknowing (137781) • India 26 Apr 12

As siblings we grow together sharing each little thing that we do and say. That is because we are under one roof with parents ruling the roost. But as we grow each of us go in different directions. Each having different interests,...

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AsianBelle My three older brothers and I are very close. I think we became closer as they all started to get married and have their own family. My eldest brother is 11 years older than I am, the 2nd is 8 and my third brother is 6 years older than me. Thus, when I became...

27 Apr 12

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does your bf/husband have any sister?

dream_ozn @dream_ozn (1754) • Singapore 27 Apr 12

I really hate my boyfriend sister. She's just like seeking his attention everything. She herself is already married yet still act like we need to accommodate her in every thing. And i just can't stand the way she behave. Very...

hate

relationship

sister

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AsianBelle My sweetheart has a sister and we get along very well. We send messages via Whatsapp every other day or once a week to ask how things are going, or sometimes we email one another. She and her husband live not very far from us but due to work engagements, we...

27 Apr 12

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Would We Be Strong Today If We...

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 27 Apr 12

would we be strong today if we had never gone through certain things in life? it could be anything such as health, divorce, abuse, etc. mine would be health problems and that makes people say im strong because of all i have gone...

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AsianBelle Definitely, I became a stronger person after I lost my mother. I was 27 at the time and I could not believe that I had lost my mother at that age. While it was painful, heartbreaking, and everything else you could possibly think of when you lose your loved...

27 Apr 12

Underwear...how many pairs do you own?

Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 27 Apr 12

Seriously. I was amazed at how many pairs of underwear people own, especially females. Somehow the discussion came up at work on night, you know, those long midnight shifts where you're tired and bored and nothing much is...

panties

underwear

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AsianBelle Oh wow! 85?! Sorry, but how old is your niece? That is a lot! As for me, I don't have 85 pairs of panties, but I do have a lot. I think I have more brassieres. My sweetheart says I have too many brassieres and swimming suits/bikinis! Whenever we go to the...

27 Apr 12

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Fake friends.

LaurenPogisky @LaurenPogisky (131) 27 Apr 12

How many of you have fake friends? I have so many friends in school. But there are just few ones who I think will stand by my side in times or hardship. I think most of them are fake friends. They say bad words when I am not...

fake friends

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AsianBelle When I was younger, I had a few. They were only around when I was up to something fun. If I were in trouble, they were nowhere to be seen. I didn't know how to deal with that, so I continued helping and doing anything to keep the friendship. Basically, I was a...

27 Apr 12

Remember my child hood..

sharmianton @sharmianton (197) 27 Apr 12

when i was small i always like sweets. toffees are the sweet i like most in my life. i stole some money from my dad and buy some toffees. and also i like to eat milk powder especially anchor milk powder. that was a lovely days...

childhood

eat

sweet

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AsianBelle Some of my childhood memories include sitting on my father's lap while he's driving, just around the corner from our house, so that I 'know what it's like to drive' and playing under the dining table and my parents would look everywhere for me!. Another...

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Single parenthood?

daisy_dion @daisy_dion (315) • Philippines 27 Apr 12

Its not easy. If only I can ask a man to help me to take care of my baby. Being alone make me always stress. What shall I do?

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AsianBelle I'm sure it isn't easy at all to bring a child up on your own. It's even more difficult without the support and help of family. Personally, if I had to be in your situation, I would try my best to do it on my own, because the last thing I want is to depend on...

27 Apr 12

What will you do when someone lyes to you and caught by you?

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41290) • Delhi, India 26 Apr 12

Hello Mylotters, I am surprised about this fellow in my organisation who kept lying with all of us about where he lives on rent.We caught him as someone told us about his actual place where he lives but that guy...

lier

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AsianBelle He might have some personal reasons for lying about where he lives. He might be embarrassed about the location, or if he actually lives in a rich area, he just didn't want anyone to know, because then, people who treat him differently, vice versa. While I...

27 Apr 12

Isolating People or Bringing Them Together?

Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 26 Apr 12

Do you think that computers tend to bring people together or cause isolation? We all know that computers can be a great device for keeping in touch with family and friends who do not live close to us. Sometimes, however, they have...

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AsianBelle I know a few people like your friend. They can stay for days in the house playing online computer games, or chatting online with people from all over the world. The latter is fun, as I had done that before, for a few years, but I never let the games or...

26 Apr 12

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Waiting is the hardest part.

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 26 Apr 12

My cousin just let me know a little while ago that our grandmother had a horrible heart attack earlier today and is in the hospital. The doctors are not expecting her to make it through the night. We've really been expecting this...

dying

grandparent

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AsianBelle I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother's heart. Also, I'm sorry for your losses. My mother passed away in 2007, it was very sudden. She was never sick except the normal cold now and then. Her cause of death was Acute Coronary Syndrome, which is massive...

26 Apr 12

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i love...

Suebee @Suebee (2013) • Canada 26 Apr 12

I love the smell of fresh cut grass I love the sound of children laughing I love a sunset on the beach I love a gentle breeze blowing on a warm summer's eve I love a bouncing, smiling baby I love the sound of rain on the car...

life

love

nature

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AsianBelle I love the smell of after rain and freshly cut grass, as well. There's just something about these smells that makes me smile and feel warm inside. I love the sound of my sweetheart's voice especially when I am missing my family back home, and my later...

26 Apr 12

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