Carlos21

@Carlos21 (82)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How happy are you with your life?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 14 Apr 07

The Oprah show on 4/11/07, asked, 'How happy are you on a scale of 1 to 7?" Can you answer that? I rate myself at 5. Whats yours?

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Why are guys so un-emotionally responsive?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 14 Apr 07

Hi, can guys out there tell me why its difficult for guys to share their emotions and feelings especially when they are hurting? If any gals have insights too, let me know! THX!

emotions

guys

love

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'Life is like.....' finish the sentence of what its like for you

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Mar 07

For me life is like a rollercoaster; has some dips, some highs and moves too fast when you're having fun. Whats life like to you??!

everyday

life

living

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What's your favorite Bible verse?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 17 Mar 07

When i'm discouraged, I find great sollace in the bible book of Psalm 118. Whats your favorite?

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Saving money tips? what really works for you?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 17 Mar 07

To make money we have to save money,so how do you do that? I personally follow a budget, use a shopping list, always look for a deal and carry lunch to work. Do you have any that work really well for you? let us know...

living on less

saving money

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Is online dating a sign of desparation to get a mate?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 15 Mar 07

A single friend of mine wants to try online dating but thinks its for 'desparados.' She's been through blind dates, speed dating, single clubs and events, but no-one's caught her eye. Any real life happy ending stories I can share...

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Does God bring us our spouse or do we chose by free will?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 14 Mar 07

I've been wondering if the choices we make of a spouse are from God or just our own free will? How do we know if the person we want to marry/married is God's best from us? are there signs? What are your thoghts??

gods choice

love

relationships

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Do you remember your dreams? I had a one that I can't forget...

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 7 Mar 07

I had a very wiered dream a month ago and I remember every detail of it. I was robbed and shot 7 sevens times. I've been thinking of it ever since. Do you remember your dreams and do you think they mean something?

dreams

sleep

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I'm I unrealistic? Do I have too many expectations?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 5 Mar 07

I love my boyfriend and don't doubt he loves me. He's not very romantic and I am so here's my dilemma. I wish he'd kiss me more, I wish he'd tell me more how much I mean to him (I have to ask to hear it from him), I wish he'd hold...

love

relationships

romance

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How does she overcome her fear of failure?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 1 Mar 07

My friend is very good with making crafts and beaded jewellery. she just lost her job. we recently spoke and she's thinking of selling some of her material, but is very afraid that no-one will like them and she will loose her...

business advice

crafts

starting a business

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Your most profitable business venture. What is/was it?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 1 Mar 07

Hi. I really enjoy discussing business ventures and would love to know which have been the most profitable for you? Since we live all around the world, can we share what worked/still works for you in your country. My most...

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Entrepreneurs, what do you like most about being one?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 1 Mar 07

Where are the entreprenuers on this discussion board? I hope out making money. :) I hope we can exchange ideas. What do you like about making money on your own? My first business was a great way for me to earn extra pocket money...

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How do you spend your leisure time? I need some good ideas.

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 26 Feb 07

I'm trying to expand my interests and learn new activities this year during my leisure time. Do you do anything extraordinary or do something your trully enjoy and wish more people would do? Let me know how you spend your leisure...

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Interacial dating. Whats the big deal?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Feb 07

One of my longest and best friends is Asian and is being pressured to marry within her community. She has a very caring male caucasian friend with whome they get along with very well. she's always so happy when she talks of him...

How do I avoid getting divorced? Any advice from those who've been there?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Feb 07

I'm dating a great guy right now and we're talking of getting married next year. I've unfortunately been discouraged from so many divorce stories in the media and in my family and want to avoid it at all cost. Have you been...

advice

broken marriages

divorce

men women relationships

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When God doesn't make sense. why aren't my prayers answered?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Feb 07

I'm going thru 2 crisis's in my life right now and i've been praying for a resolution a long time. I've been waiting for God to move in these 2 situations and feel like my life has been on hold. Nothing has happened. I've been...

god

prayer

unanswered prayer

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'women are supposed to be submissive.' Do you agree? what does that mean to you?

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Feb 07

I've heard this argument alot from men (chauvanistic) who say a womans role is to be submissive- be a doormat and cater to his every need. they say its written in the bible and many cultures beat down the role of women to the...

love

men

roles in relationship

women

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My friend is using me. Do I tell her to stop or should I just end the friendship

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 19 Feb 07

I've been friends with this one girl for 2 yrs and at first we were cool and hang out alot. last yr, I started noticing that when we went out, she'd say she forgot her wallet. at first I didnt mind paying for the outing but its...

bad friends

girl friends

users

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Any Ideas? Going to New York for a girls trip & need fun, cheap things to do!

Carlos21 @Carlos21 (82) • United States 16 Feb 07

Hi, Though Ive been to New York I didnt see the best of it. I'm planning a GIRLS ONLY trip in May and need to know where to go and see all that new york is about. Must be affordable. we love to party too, so your ideas will be...