CarraC

@CarraC (69)

Canada • Age 36

Joined myLot 11 years ago

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What Kind of Love is this? What should i do?

jonastabuena @jonastabuena (2307) • Philippines 4 Feb 13

Its was year 2007 when i fall in love to a person, our relationship last for 7 months, we parted our ways with no valid reason, i'm clueless. Were in-love, and suddenly its gone, she don't talk to me in person, she just talk to me...

relationship

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CarraC If you are seeing someone else, like in a relationship with someone new, then I suggest that if you meet with your past, you keep the conversation on a basic level. Don't mess up your present because of your past. What if she runs out on you again? What if she...

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Why do people cheat in a relationship?

arreolabryan @arreolabryan (856) • Philippines 29 Nov 12

What do you consider cheating? I heard a lot of stories that there partner cheated on them? what should you do if you know your partner is cheating on you? Me I won't cheat on my girl. I might look but I wont cheat. how about...

love

relationship

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CarraC I've cheated in the past and it takes you nowhere...I cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex...that was some years ago. I guess I wasn't really over my ex yet.....But I have a boyfriend now I will not cheat in him, I rather leave the relationship. Cheating...

2 Feb 13

When to hold on, when to let go and when to kick that jerk's a$$!

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 1 Feb 13

These are some thoughts that came to mind after I responded in another discussions. There are many people who are puzzled by their love lives, so I think it might help a little to post some brief and simple reminders. When...

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CarraC Lol....I love that post! Guess I'll be holding on!

1 Feb 13

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What should you do with a jealous friend?

favouredmost @favouredmost (256) • Kenya 1 Feb 13

I have had this girlfriend for the past year. She used to compliment me when I wear something nice at work and I would return the favor. Late last year she started making negative comments. I invited her for coffee with biscuits...

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CarraC A year is not enough time to know how well of a friend you have. That would just be getting to know someone, making a new friend because you're new somewhere. They start off nicely and the more people they get to know, they will give you the back seat. But the...

1 Feb 13

I Hurt Him...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 29 Jan 13

I'm sure we have all hurt someone in the past but I apologized to someone today for hurting them years ago. He apparently had a major thing for me. I didn't know it at the time, just found out today actually. But I was so...

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CarraC I'm sure you feel at ease now that you apologized and he accepted. Well, like you said you didn't know he had a thing for you. It's actually his fault that you hurt him innocently, he should have told you this when he had the chance. But I guess he would...

30 Jan 13

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Will you be my husband?

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 29 Jan 13

The perfect and ideal marriage proposal would be a man proposing to her girlfriend and that always happens and it's so common but, what can you say if a woman proposes to her boyfriend for a change? Isn't that cute? What do you...

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CarraC Hey Valorie, I had that discussion on my page a few days ago....I really think I will read through your responses to see what others have to say....My friend is taking it really had that her boyfriend of 5 plus years haven't asked her to get married. I was...

30 Jan 13

Do You Get Tired Of Being The Listener?

AussieGal13 @AussieGal13 (377) • Australia 24 Jan 13

I always like to help people and lend an ear when someone needs to talk but after awhile, I get really tired. I do tell people that I just can't even concentrate with their problems let alone mine right now and they get offended...

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CarraC Geeeeeezzzz!!! Trust me, I get tired.....because most times they don't even take the advice you give them, then come back crying about the same situation over and over. But you know that sad thing about it, we just can't stop listening because we have already...

24 Jan 13

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How do you cope with depression?

bunnystarr @bunnystarr (160) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

I've been feeling really depressed lately because nothing seems to be going according to my plans. I am hating my job (not the job itself, but the terrible pay and the undervaluing that the administration seems to be doing to its...

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CarraC Sorry to hear Bunny. God he;ps those who help themselves....I know how hard finding a job is...but don't give up...If you sit at that job that you're unsatisfied with, nothing will change. You have to make the move and search for something better. Trust me, I...

24 Jan 13

I'm Even Getting On My Own Nerves Now

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 23 Jan 13

I don't know how people put up with me, I really don't. Well, today I 'decided' that I wasn't going to see the doctor after all. There were two reasons for this: the first, I was so tired through not sleeping (worried) that I...

distrustful of doctors

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CarraC Well, there are days we just don't want to do anything! So, you're not bad for cancelling. That was a little mischievous on your part though, not calling so someone else won't fill the spot (sounds a little like me)..haha.... Like you said, you just saved...

23 Jan 13

I cried just a little bit....

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 23 Jan 13

My son informed me yesterday that his girlfriend will be moving in with him shortly. Since he got a divorce I have been picking up my granddaughter from school three days every other week when he has custody. We have enjoyed this...

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CarraC So sad. I would have cried a whole lot. When your kids are all grown up, your grand kids "replaces" that motherly feeling. So it's ok to cry...look on the bright side, they won't be so far away from you so visits are not a hassle. You'll be ok. Hang in there....

23 Jan 13

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....I got a job!! Awesome!

kyle2krystel @kyle2krystel (2489) • Japan 22 Jan 13

Alright lotters, I am so happy and after almost a month of applying job after moving from Japan to US I finally got a job;-) I had an interview last Monday and everything went well. The bank job was awesome, the benefits and...

got a job

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CarraC Congratulations !!!!! I wish you all the best! Do the best you can, there might be great benefits to reap!

23 Jan 13

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"I french kissed my friend and I love it!"

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 22 Jan 13

It was a really funny story from a friend of mine and I can't forget it. So, she kissed her close friend because they are bored. It was not just a simple or torrid kiss, mind you, but a french kiss! I thought friends could not do...

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CarraC Wow! I for one wouldn't french kiss my friend unless there was some intimate feelings involved. I think even the simplest kiss given in the wrong way can ruin friendships. I believe your friend and her close friend has hidden feelings for each other. Being...

22 Jan 13

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Don't judge the appearance

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 20 Jan 13

A friend of my another friend, I just get acquainted with him, he was very cool person, but he doesn't have a wife, nor a girlfriend. Maybe he wasn't the handsomest person here, some might whisper, he is ugly in appearance in...

appearance

look

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CarraC Very true. Wealth is not everyone. In relationship a guy wants to know that he can provide for his lady. Till he can do that, he thinks that his role as a man is not being met. I look at job interviews. Some people have a judging scheme and your dressing is...

21 Jan 13

People Who Have Kids And Don't Want To Take Care Of Them

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4606) • United States 19 Jan 13

why do people do this? women want to be pregnant and have all the attention, then have a cute little infant and have everyone be nice to them. a year later when the parenting really begins, they wait to pawn the kid off on some...

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CarraC I know that feeling. My sister in law is the same way. She has 4 kids and she leave them for her parents every day. Maybe 12 hours a day. as soon as they get home from school, she makes them come straight to her parents place. Sometimes I'm stuck watching her...

20 Jan 13

I just can’t understand a friend…..

namiya @namiya (1718) • Philippines 18 Jan 13

Every time we meet she doesn't run out of topic about her husband’s womanizing. Much as I want to empathize with her but honestly I could not but strive not to show it for I too get stressed out hearing similar stories though...

friend

stress

understand

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CarraC Alot of the times friends come to us for advice and they don't use the advice we give. I often wonder why they ask for advice in the first place. Coming to you over and over could be very frustrating considering the fact that you already gave your take and...

19 Jan 13

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Started with "oooiiyyy"

chum24 @chum24 (569) • Philippines 3 Aug 12

Do you still remember on how you become girlfriend/boyfriend,husband/wife? I was thinking it last night before i'm going to sleep I remembered on how we started with my boyfriend, first i really don't like him,he's a type of...

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CarraC Aww...Nice. I met my boyfriend on Blackberry messenger! And it was by mistake. Lol...I bought the phone from someone. Deleted all the person's contacts to set mine up. This strange pin invites me and I accept...Apon realizing I don't know the person I...

19 Jan 13

Go to school or go to work, which is better?

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5469) • Canada 18 Jan 13

My husband is disappointed that he hasn't been able to find a permanent job, and being on assistance is really bumming him out. He has the option to go back to school, as do I, to further our education in order to get better...

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CarraC Can't you both do both?? Go to work and do the schooling part-time? In that way you get an income and you still further your studies to get a better income in the long run. If that doesn't suit you, then I'd work to save up, then do the schooling. An...

19 Jan 13