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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 7 Dec 22

For me respect is something that has to be earned, just like trust (I do treat people with consideration, though). Obviously, if I can’t trust someone, then I wouldn’t be able to respect them. Trust is not something which comes...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon @aninditasen As a multi abuse survivor I do my best to be kind to others. I know what it's like to be mistreated. If I need to give feedback I try to be as pleasant about it as possible.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 3 Dec 22

Whether we’re going through health issues, financial struggles, relationship troubles or anything else that can cause frustration, stress, depression, make us go off balance, etc we may know that being strong & positive helps, but...

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DragonflytotheMoon I appreciate that. Is your name, Umi, Noor or UmiNoor? I'm holding steady right now. One thing I've learned is what self care I need. Laughter is a big part of that. I also like watching singing auditions & animal rescue.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon @aninditasen That's an interesting meaning. Have you been able to avoid criticism?

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 3 Dec 22

Whether we’re going through health issues, financial struggles, relationship troubles or anything else that can cause frustration, stress, depression, make us go off balance, etc we may know that being strong & positive helps, but...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 18 Apr 21

I like sales & to go to bargain/discount/thrift shops. Often, the quality between item A, B, C or D is the same or similar. If you're also able to save with B, it seems the obvious choice. One thing I will spend more on is, car...

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DragonflytotheMoon If you're able to save & get good quality, that's the best

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon Hi, Anindita. That's a very pretty name. What does it mean? Thanks for your good wishes. It seems like there would be more sites like this. For every topic there's multiple sites for it. It seems it would be the same for this. I'd prefer to be doing more...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon Hi, Jim. I think I will keep this tab up so that I remember to, at least respond to comments & messages. I'm inquisitive & love to learn about & better understand, pretty much, everything. I'm a Jill of all trades, Mistress of none, lol. Even so, I'm able to...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon Hi, Anna. Thanks. I appreciate that. I had been support staff for developmentally challenged adults. Helping them with goals, behaviors & taking them on activities. Very joyful & rewarding. But, it could also be stressful at times. I'm also supposed to...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 1 Dec 22

Hi, everyone. Hope that you're all doing well. The last time I was here I was given an initial cancer diagnosis. It's my third bout. At first they thought it was ovarian & that it might have metastasized. It had. It turned out to...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

Anyone remember the old American Express commercials with Karl Malden? Don't leave home without it. When I go out I have my keys, money/cards, cell with me. Those are the main items I always have with me. The ones I require &...

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DragonflytotheMoon @Rashnag It seems pretty universal what is important to us to always have

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

Anyone remember the old American Express commercials with Karl Malden? Don't leave home without it. When I go out I have my keys, money/cards, cell with me. Those are the main items I always have with me. The ones I require &...

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DragonflytotheMoon @youless I haven't gotten to the point of using apps on my phone for paying. I guess you have a keyless engine.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @mythociate Besides both of their names ending in, lock, no. Speaking of Sherlock. There's a lot of fans, including myself, that would like a 5th series. Benedict Cumberbatch & Martin Freeman are both so busy with other projects.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @kaylachan How many do you have? I've mainly had kitties in my life. Right now, besides two cats, I also have two small senior dogs. All adopted from the shelter where I volunteer. They provide such comfort & support.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @Dena91 I'm sure your friend & father in law appreciated your support. With my volunteering, I feel like I'm living my higher purpose.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @cherigucchi Some areas may have less opportunities than others. But, there's always something that someone can do to help. If they want to. That's the operative word. Want.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @Janet357 He is certainly what helps us keep hope & faith going

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 19 Apr 21

It's different for each of us what causes that in us. For me it's my volunteering. It makes me passionate, enthusiastic, determined, inspired, uplifted, enriched. To name a few. It's the main bright spot in my life. There's been a...

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DragonflytotheMoon @eileenleyva I love for people to smile & be happy. That's why I do my best to be kind & sometimes humorous.

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 18 Apr 21

Not literally. That's when you've decided to end association with a person or situation. Or, they have with you. For myself, I say, that I don't burn bridges unless I never intend to pass that way again. I may not continue on with...

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DragonflytotheMoon @eileenleyva Ties need to be cuts sometimes. Or, at least, association limited. Depending on who they are. As someone who has suffered abuse & trauma throughout my life, I understand the need for this. Forgive, for one's own peace of mind & to be able to move...

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DragonflytotheMoon @GypsyButterfly (295) • Ukiah, California 18 Apr 21

Not literally. That's when you've decided to end association with a person or situation. Or, they have with you. For myself, I say, that I don't burn bridges unless I never intend to pass that way again. I may not continue on with...

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DragonflytotheMoon @kareng That's horrible. Taking advantage of anyone is bad, but one's own mother. I'm glad you're on her accounts now.

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