HappyFeats1

@HappyFeats1 (25)

Canada • Age 83

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Do you hug your spouse before leaving for work?

bamrahkirti @bamrahkirti (1821) • India 23 Jan 09

Both me and my husband are working and leave the home at same time .We leave home at around 9.30 am and i come home at 5.00 pm and my husband comes home at 7.30 pm.We usually talk on the phone during this time once or twice.But we...

hugging

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HappyFeats1 Keep on hugging as often as possible. Not only does it help to defuse the animosity, it is also good for your health overall. HUGS

24 Jan 09

Are you a probelm solver friend?

rajfoe @rajfoe (354) • India 31 Dec 08

Hi friend are you a problem solver/a problem giver. If you ask me i give problem a lot but very few times i solve it. What about you friends?

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HappyFeats1 Happy New Year. I solve 'problems' all the time. My philosophy is that there are no problems, only new ways to look at situations just waiting eagerly to be realised. Hope you experience plenty of new ways of 'realising' in this, and all your future,...

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God decides your Life Partner before u find him/her......u believe it??

uditpanda @uditpanda (1023) • India 24 Dec 08

Some say who will be your lover or life partner is decided by god in the heaven....Do you believe the myth ?? Or are you in the view that its us who decide or find our partner....

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HappyFeats1 No, I don't believe it. The person/people we partner with depend very much on mutual interest, maturity, and where we are in our life's path. I've been married twice. My first wife wanted to limit my development as a person. My second tried to control through...

25 Dec 08

what to do

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 18 Nov 08

so ..long story short... i went through my fiance's phone saturday morning and found a text to a girl asking her out. he said he was asking her to go ona double date cause it was one of his friends girls. i left went to my moms...

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HappyFeats1 Time to get on with your life. Obviously you don't love or trust him enough to respect his privacy. Yes, going through his phone messages is a volation of his privacy. Would you be OK with him doing the same with yours? My ex-wife did that with my e-mails and...

19 Nov 08

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Is it true?

lovelyjo @lovelyjo (35) 10 Nov 08

About a week ago, I've got an email, It said that I won a lottery 710,000 GBP, and this Bank ask all information about me. After I sent all my data, the Bank said that I have to send a moneygram to them for transfer cost and it...

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HappyFeats1 This is a very common scam. DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!! Genuine lotteries do not send e-mails to winners. I received one today supossedly from Euromillions lottery. Checked their site - it says specifically that they do not send e-mailsso ignore any that...

11 Nov 08

I am at 34 ! Can i start doing MBA now

aswathj @aswathj (177) • India 21 Oct 08

I missed my education row at young ages, I am late now say age of 34. Can i start doing MBA now..Refer me some good ideas of approaching to do MBA

mba

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HappyFeats1 Definitely in Canada. You will need to check with the education system in your country and will most likely find you may need to finish some upgrading before getting a place in University. Get on with the research now and do it. You will find a way, just do...

23 Oct 08

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Has anyone Heard of The law of attraction?

cristis12 @cristis12 (125) • United States 21 Oct 08

I have been studying and making the best out of situations for a while now and sometimes I slip and think negative but we are all sinners if you know what I am talking about when I say the Secret or Law of attraction please...

catalog

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HappyFeats1 Yes, Law of Attraction exists and works all the time. What I find works best is to follow the Buddhist idea of letting go, Be calm when deciding what you want. Write it down. Put the paper away, or destroy it. Stop thinking about it while you go through your...

23 Oct 08

Do hugs make you feel better?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 11 Oct 08

When I'm feeling really low, my daughter comes over to me and hugs me. The hug always makes me feel better. And when she is feeling bad, I offer a hug. What is it about hugs that make us feel so much better? It's not like...

relationship counseling

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HappyFeats1 Genuine hugs always feel great, even better when offered with a smile and a little love. Wish our North American society would open up more to hugs and other forms of demonstrative affection, such as a brief back rub. Enjoy your daughter's hugs and encourage...

13 Oct 08

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Should a man pick up the bill at dinner?

goodcharlotte @goodcharlotte (65) • United States 10 Oct 08

Should the man be the sole person that picks up the bill at the dinner table? Should women have to pay? What do you think of men that make women pay? Is it ok to ask a women to pay?

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HappyFeats1 As with many areas of life this one is negotiable. I have paid for many dinners when I was more affluent. Sometimes the bill has been shared (known as "going Dutch"). Other times my date has paid. In my most recent relationship I paid most of the time, though...

11 Oct 08

Have you seen anyone die in front of you in an accident?

lalav1 @lalav1 (1052) • United States 21 Mar 07

The first time I ever went to the circus, back in the mid seventies, the trapeze artists were just getting stated. The lights were all turned out, except for the spotlight on the trapeze artists. As we sat watching the woman...

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HappyFeats1 I see you posted this a long time ago. Aslo, a long time ago - when I was only about 22, A teenager, riding behind my car on a motor scooter, muscalulated a bend in the road or my speed and crashed. Even though he was wearing a helmet, the concrete post his...

11 Oct 08

Do you ever give books away?

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (161006) • United States 10 Oct 08

I always have bought books as gifts, for my children, my siblings, and my grandchildren, now. I have an opportunity to give books away right now to some teens who are in a group home waiting for foster placement. It feels so good....

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HappyFeats1 Go for it! This is a gift of life for these people, not just a book.

11 Oct 08

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Not the real paul mccartny

sweetpeasmom @sweetpeasmom (1325) • United States 26 Sep 08

has anyone on here heard the rumors from years ago that paul mccartney died in a car wreck in 1966 and this paul mccartny is not the real one and an imposter?? There is a lot of clues about this on several of their albums and...

clues

paul mccartney

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HappyFeats1 I strongly doubt these rumors are true. Heather would certainly be interested in that. Being married to an imposter would certainly be a downer.

27 Sep 08

Why is that hospital bathrooms are always white?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 26 Sep 08

I visited the hospital this morning and I had to go to the bathroom. The bathroom tiles were white. In my opinion, the white plain tiles gives you an air of austerity. Another colour would light up one's mood when one visits the...

bathrooms

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HappyFeats1 Yes, we need to use better interior designers for our public structures.

27 Sep 08

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duvets verus sheets and blankets

Anne18 @Anne18 (11029) 21 Sep 08

My debate is.... What keeps you warmer, duvets or sheets and blankets?? I have a duvet on our bed, (but also have an eletric blanket, and i have just brought a thick blamket to put on the bed). I do think back to the days...

duvet

duvets

duvets and sheets

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HappyFeats1 I tend to prefer sheets and blankets. My duvet tends to be too warm most of the time. With sheets and blankets it is at least possible to use the good old layering system - too cold, add more, too warm, take some off. Hope you find a happy medium.

22 Sep 08

What kinds of concerts?

likaes @likaes (496) • Singapore 12 Sep 08

Have you ever been to a concert? Whether it be a more formal fixed seating concert, or a general admission concert where you rock out with other people. Which one do you think is more fun, or better to listen to?

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HappyFeats1 I've been to many concerts. Mostly classical in concert halls but also up in the mountains, outside. Enjoyed Ladysmith Black Mumbasa last year.

12 Sep 08

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If you remember The Beatles, Help Me Decide....

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 31 Aug 08

In another discussion today, I started reminiscing about The Beatles & trying to decide my MOST favorite song that they did. I'm having a hard time deciding. Will you please share you top...

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HappyFeats1 My favourite Beatles songs are - Blackbird; a song I find very inspiring. It reminds me that I have been waiting for the right time to begin something new. Except, the right time is always now. Obla-de......... Never can remember the way to spell this....

8 Sep 08

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In love, is age a problem? Do man has to earn more than woman?

world_travelling @world_travelling (21) • China 8 Sep 08

I fell in love with a boy, three years younger than me. I hesitated a lot at the beginning of our relationship, although now I stick to him. He is really a mature man although he is younger than me and he takes care of me and...

age and money problem

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HappyFeats1 My second ex-wife is a nurse. She earns double the money I do. It's not the money that counts. Rather it is the ability and willingness to share all you have with each other. My wife tried to persuade me to move to a small town with her, give up my job, and...

8 Sep 08